Jo Caz Sharon and Lorraine

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 7:20 am

Jo Thats Fab News congratulations Im so sorry for the neg results , Try and stay sain and treat yourselvse greatly. Dont know what to say

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}]] Trace x [Edited by Traci on 11-Jul-03 09:45]

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 8:56 am

Lorraine,Caz and Sharon So sorry - having been there 3 times myself and losing one to an ectopic I know some of what you are going through. Its S**T and this crappy stuff happens. I know you will all find the strenght to move forward and find your dreams. In the meantime look after yourselves. Sharon - get the hydro sorted - it's peace of mind - worked for me! Jo - have sent you an email but presume it will go home. Congrats- I am so pleased. Don't feel guilty - your 2 ww buddies are delighted for you and upset for themselves and each other. You know as well as me you can seperate all these emotions - even after failed tmts and flaming pessaries! You are a sign and an example of what can be - it is what me, you and everyone else clings on to so we can go on and strive to achieve our dreams. Nobody said it would be easy and the prize is so huge. Enjoy but if you are anything like me it doesn't sink in for ages and then you start worrying about the 7 week scan and then some peace of mind until the 12 and so it goes on. This is a truly well deserved result and Dh and I send you special love. With love to you all Tracey xxx

kateg · Post by **kateg** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 9:33 am

just needed to say a huge congrats to you Jo for your fabulous news. I wish you all the luck and love in the world with your baby. Someone to call you mummy at last.

kateg · Post by **kateg** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 9:36 am

To Caz, Sharon and Lorraine I'm so sorry for each of you and your partners, I know at this time you need to grieve a little, get v.v. drunk and try to pick up the pieces after all the stress etc of this bloody awful treatment. You all should really treat yourselves and let others do the same. Take care and try and let your body relax as it will be exhausted. Thinking of you all and sending you huge hugs. Kate

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 9:52 am

Kate thankyou. Someone calling me "mummy" just is the most weird idea but you saying that brings home to me what a huge thing this is. I feel gutted for the others though cos I know what they're going through and its just gross. Lots of Love - Jo. XXXXXX (still in shock)xx

jen · Post by **jen** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 11:35 am

Caz, Sharon and Lorraine I'm so gutted to read your bad news - it's such a cruel game that we all keep on playing. Stay strong and grieve and then you'll all be back fighting again. Thinking of all of you and your partners. Jo - delighted for you as I'm sure is everyone else on this site. Enjoy your pregnancy and look after yourself and be very very happy. Take care girls Love Jen xx

SallyP · Post by **SallyP** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 12:37 pm

I just wanted to echo what everyone else has said really - it's always so difficult as there are congratulations for Jo and sympathy for Caz, Sharon and Lorraine - it's such a time of heightened emotions! Jo - many many congratulations - now the worrying really starts!!! Caz, Sharon and Lorraine - so sorry, we've all gone through it so know exactly how shitty you feel - but it will pass and you'll all be on the other side soon touch wood! love Sally xxxx

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 1:27 pm

Its very hard to post messages of congratulations to Jo and sympathy to Caz, Sharon and Lorraine. My heart goes out to you all... Take care all of you Lorraine G

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 2:16 pm

dear sharon, lorraine and caz, hadnt been on the board for a while and was so sad to log in today and learn of all your results. Im so sorry for you all. It takes these horrid experiences to make us much stronger people and much better mummies when we eventually get there, and one day it will be your turn..dont give up hope. sending you lots of love and hugs, kathryn x

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 2:19 pm

....and Jo, not forgetting you, congratulations to you and dh, really pleased for you! take it easy and make sure you have everyone running around after you, take care kathryn x [Edited by kathryn on 11-Jul-03 15:20]

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 3:07 pm

hi girls well done jo it is so good to have some good news, wishing you all the best and i hope you have a good pg. sorry to hear the news about you other lady's it is so hard but jo getting pg gives us all hope that it can work. all the best july ann

Lorraine · Post by **Lorraine** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 3:08 pm

Thank you. Not for first time today I am crying. Your support and best wishes are so heart warming. I have no idea what else to say. I feel so terribly sad - but it is good to know we are not alone. Lorraine xxxxxx

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 3:50 pm

hi lorraine i know how you feel you just can not think that you will feel normal again. once those nasty drugs are you of your body you will start to feel a lot better. then when you and dh are ready you can look to the future with what tmt you decide to take. have you got any frosties to use. well i hope you better soon, i always find a bottle off wine takes the edge of it all.... from july ann

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 4:03 pm

Hi Lorraine, it's me. Just want you to know I'm thinking of you and of course Sharon and Caz. A bit of time helps but the first few days are just awful, there's no other way of describing them. Couldn't have had better June buddies and I know it will happen for you and your DH's, it's just a little bit further down the road. Lots of Love - Jo. XXXXX

gem · Post by **gem** » Fri Jul 11, 2003 4:28 pm

To Caz,Lorraine and Sharon Logged on today at work had to read everyones news,so sorry that you all got negatives,couldnt belive it. Just want you all to know I'm thinking of you and your DH's Love Gem xxx

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