oh no AF...and second test is BFN!

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Fingers crossed
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oh no AF...and second test is BFN!

Post by Fingers crossed »

Grrrrrr..well I had a BFP for all of 1 hour !!

No AF is in full flow and second test says 'not pregnant' how unfair can you get!!! So going out for a coffee and tonight I am having a bath and having lots of wine!!..only thing is got to get someone else to drive as I offered to as on 2ww.

grrrr...3rd time unlucky
DH. 32 ME. 30 DH HAD MUMPS VERY LOW COUNT. ME NO PROBLEMS BUT HARD TO STIMULATE..WE THINK!
4 X ICSI - 2 X BFN 2 X BIO CHEMICAL 2001-2006

2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN

1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
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Post by Vickyp »

Sorry to hear your bad news. Lots of wine sounds like an excellent idea. Love Vicky
Me 35, DH 36
4 X IVF, I X FET - positive - baby boy born April 06
2 x MC in 2007 at 6wks & 12wks
Nat preg Mar 08 - Girl

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Post by Vickyp »

Dear fingers crossed - me again!

Just been reading your previous post which I missed and see that your not supposed to be testing till Monday - I retract my 'wine' comment! Sorry but maybe you should wait till Monday so your absolutely sure - I know you say your AF has started but I have read of people having AF and still being pregnant.
Anyway - I hope things turn out different come Monday. Love Vicky
Me 35, DH 36
4 X IVF, I X FET - positive - baby boy born April 06
2 x MC in 2007 at 6wks & 12wks
Nat preg Mar 08 - Girl

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Post by DebraP »

I'm bumping this up as everyone seems to have only read your first, happier post.

I hope you enjoyed your evening out. Sorry today has been such a roller coaster.

Debra.
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Post by charlie77 »

hey fingers
sorry im really confused now think i read early post first
sorry about your bad news that sucks!!!!!!!!!! :(
it seems so strange that you gotta possitive though
take care and fingers crossed for you in the future
richard
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thinking of you

Post by wendywoo »

Sorry about your day but i still feel there is hope for monday.
Take care chick
wendy xx
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Post by NickiMark »

i'm sorry. hugs to you x x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by sue e »

Just wondering how you are?

take care

love

sue e xx
Age 33 dh 34 Married Nov 03 /ectopic dec 03
1st ICSI start July 05, +ive Hpt 10th oct / m/c
FET Feb - +ive
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Post by luby »

I'm so sorry to hear your news......

Lucy
Me 26, DP 36. 1st IVF - June 05 - +ve - m/c at 5 wks
2nd IVF - Nov 05 - +ve - m/c at 8.5 weeks
3rd IVF -May 06 - BFN
4th IVF - Oct 06 -BFN
5th IVF - May 07 - BFN
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Post by lispetite »

Hi Fingers Crossed

I am so sorry to hear your news. Enjoy yourself tonight - take it easy though.

Love
Lisa x
Me 35 DH 38
1st IVF Jan 06 -ve
2nd IVF June 06 +ve
Lilia was born on 7th March 2007
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Post by Laura M »

I am very sorry to hear AF has come. Keep positive that it will happen soon.
Love
Laura
39 years old DH 45
3 IVF: 1st:neg, 2nd:neg, 3rd:++ at 36 years old(wonderful daughter,my soul)
1st FET- didn't survive the thawing process
2nd FET -ve
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Post by Sand »

Sorry it hasn't worked out for you this time. Take care of yourselves .. it'll take a while until you feel a little better.

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by sophie »

So sorry to hear the news -

Sophie x
Pituitary Tumour, PCOS
'01 - DD born
'02 - miscarriage
clomid X6 negative
IVF '05 - OHSS 13 embies frozen
FET, Feb06 - negative
FET, April06 - cancelled 2 days before ET
FET, ET: June06 - fingers crossed
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Post by smokeroni »

I am so sorry to hear your news. Please take some time to heal.

We are thinking of you,

Pam
Pam 36 DH 45 and DS 19 months old
7 DIUI / IVF's -ve
1 DIUI +ve DS 19 months old
DIUI cancelled for March, hopefully a go ahead in April
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Post by Fingers crossed »

Thanks for all your kind thoughts..I am still testing tomorrow as the clinic want me to. I know what the answer is..to be honest if I was to get a BFP it would be a miracle as AF has been very heavy..although no pains which is not normal for me. I have drunk coffee and wine..had an 'O' and had a bath and hot tub..carried furniture done loads of house work and ....been in the loft at least 20 times..since bleeding on Friday!!!

I am ringing the clinic to book in the go for ICSI 4 as soon as they let us. I am due to start a new job in April and have applied to go to college in September so I have a new focus and can run the treatment along side as my boss is very supportive. DH and I have decided that we may also move in the next 6 months so are busy finishing off DIY and house hunting for our dream house!!

Good luck everyone and thanks for all of your kind words and support. Any of you got a BFP on number 4? Any one going again April???Would love a cycle buddy!!

Take care and roll on BFPs
DH. 32 ME. 30 DH HAD MUMPS VERY LOW COUNT. ME NO PROBLEMS BUT HARD TO STIMULATE..WE THINK!
4 X ICSI - 2 X BFN 2 X BIO CHEMICAL 2001-2006

2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN

1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
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