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Post by gailp »

Sita, woops I should have said not soft cheeses. Infact I made that mistake yesterday. I went out with DH and ordered a brie and bacon baguette and he ordered tuna and cheddar cheese, I had to swap with him when they arrived!!

Ilona I am so so sorry that AF has arrived. Sending hugs to you.

Lucy hope a relaxing bath helps your head.

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Post by beth »

Hey everyone.
Wow, it's been a while since I have visited....there is so much going on!

First, Mitzy ~ I am so sorry to hear your news. You have the right attitude, you have to go on with life. You have been strong, most people don't understand how difficult this path is we travel. It's ok to cry, allow yourself time to grieve.

Carolyn ~ Your smileys are wonderful! They make me laugh everytime I read one of your postings. You and I seem to be in the same boat as far as follies. I feel a little lost in my clinic. I went for my first scan after starting stimmies last Friday, again today (Sunday) and now again tomorrow (so no ER for me as of yet!)

The nurse told me sometimes it takes a bit for the meds to kick in and I should be able to feel my follies growing.....what? is that for real??
I have some -- don't know how many on each ovary or how big/small they are. I feel frozen because I don't know what questions I am supposed to be asking, I just keep assuming they will tell me each time I go in. I guess I will find out more info tomorrow!

Prissy ~ Congrats, I hope you are resting and keeping up your postive attitude!

CYOT ~ You are lucky to have your own nurse answer all your questions and follow up with you. It is terrible to feel like your in the dark with all of this. I was terrified of the shots, and I started out having dh give them to me in the upper thigh and it wasn't too bad. I have since switched I to the tummy because of many bruises....and I heard it was better. I have even gotten brave enough to do some of them myself. And yet, I still can't watch the nurse draw blood from my arm -- I should be used to needles by now!

Sita ~ I didn't feel any side effects while down regging. Few headaches, a little bit of fatigue, but I have eaten TONS of food, like I haven't eaten in weeks....clothes are feeling a bit tight. I have gotten quite irritable on the stimmies (unfortunately for dh), no wild emotions yet -- at least from MY point of view! lol. Very interested in trying acupuncture, glad to hear it's helping you....do you think it's too late for me to start? I guess I should have started before this cycle started.

To all of the 2ww's best of luck, gets lots of rest, you are in my thoughts.

I need to go back and read about everyone else, because I know I have forgotten many.

I am trying to suppress my frustration and stay POSITIVE. I hope I am still on the right track. I need to do some research and go in tomorrow armed with information! I will just drown my frustration in a few bottles of water!


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Post by missprissy »

Hello buddies!! :P

Mitzy: I'm sorry to hear that you feel AF is paying you a visit. I'm praying that it isn't so. I'm at a loss of words......just know that I am thinking and praying for you and your DH.

gailp: You know when my doc said that I should have my blood drawn on May 2 I thought, wow that's early, but I'm not complaining!! :wink:

Well, I have been getting lots of rest. I'm a bundle of emotions right now. Mostly excited and nervous. Since my cycle went faster than expected I still have all next week to relax before I return to work on May 1. I hope you all are doing well.

LOVE,
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Post by Sofia »

Dear Mitzy

Our thoughts are with you. I guess you have thought it all through a billion times and have come to an informed decision as to this being your last time. Good luck with whatever the future holds, I'm sure there's lots of good stuff ahead of you.

Carolyn - let us know what happens, and good luck with getting just the right number of follies of just the right size and quality!

I am waiting for a scan on Thursday to assess my suppression and talk about moving on to stimmies. I am on day 8 of AF, however, and feeling tired and a bit worried, as this doesn't seem to be the norm.

Good luck to everyone testing or moving on in some way this week. Its kinda hard to keep up with everyone's posts and news.

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Post by Sofia »

Dear Mitzy

Our thoughts are with you. I guess you have thought it all through a billion times and have come to an informed decision as to this being your last time. Good luck with whatever the future holds, I'm sure there's lots of good stuff ahead of you.

Carolyn - let us know what happens, and good luck with getting just the right number of follies of just the right size and quality!

I am waiting for a scan on Thursday to assess my suppression and talk about moving on to stimmies. I am on day 8 of AF, however, and feeling tired and a bit worried, as this doesn't seem to be the norm.

Good luck to everyone testing or moving on in some way this week. Its kinda hard to keep up with everyone's posts and news.

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Post by LucyBucy »

Hi all,

Mitzy - I am so sorry to hear that AF has arrived, my greatest condolences to you. Please allow yourself to grieve wholeheartedly until you're ready to make fresh start and begin the rest of your wonderful life.

After hearing you lot talk about acupuncture I had a look on the internet and found a BBC article that says acupuncture can double your chances of fertility - so I have booked myself and appointment already!

I can't tell you how much this forum is helping me through - I'm finding that just being able to share experiences with others in the same situation is very therapeutic for me :D

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Post by CYOT »

HELLO TO EVERYONE-----WELL ON SAT MY TUMMY WELTED UP AGAIN WITH THE SHOTS BUT ON SUN I ICED IT FOR A VERY LONG TIME AND IT SEEMED TO BE BETTER----MY DULL ACHE HA AND FATIGUE IS ALSO GONE----I'M ACTUALLY FEELING PRETTY GOOD-----I'M WAITING FOR THESE STIMMS SIDE EFFECTS THOUGH
MITZY ----I JUST WANTED TO EXTEND THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR DH------YOU ARE SO STRONG-----HOW MANY ATTEMPTS DID YOU MAKE----HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOUR FSH LEVELS-----I DID A CLOMID CHALLENGE TEST BEFORE STARTING BUT I DIDN'T GET EXACT NUMBERS FOR IT-----GOOD LUCK TO YOU
HEATHER------I TOOK LUPRON FOR 9 DAYS AT 20 UNITS----I AM NOW ON A 5 UNIT DOSE WITH THE STIMMS TO KEEP ME FROM OVULATING----I GUESS EVERYONE DOES A DIFFERENT PROTOCOL--------I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL WITH THE FATIGUE----I FELT THAT WHEN I WAS ON THE LARGE DOSE OF LUPRON BUT I FEEL A LOT BETTER NOW THAT I STARTED THE STIMMS
LUCY----I ALSO HAD HA'S ------STAY STRONG AND REST ALOT-----GOOD LUCK
SITA----ACUPUNCTURE MUST BE POPULAR WHERE YOU ARE----I HEAR OF A LOT OF PEOPLE USING IT-----I'M GLAD IT HELPED-----IT'S NOT POPULAR WHERE I AM AND DON'T EVEN KNOW IF I COULD FIND SOMEONE WHO PERFORMS IT
CAROLYN----GOOD LUCK TODAY WITH YOUR SCAN----DO YOU FEEL THE FOLLIES GROWING LIKE SOME SAY-----I HOPE ALL GOES WELL AND KEEP US POSTED ON SIZE AND AMOUNT
GAILP----I THINK YOU ARE BRAVE TO USE YOUR LEGS----I GUESS IT'S ALL A MENTAL THING----I AM SCARED OF GETTING BRUISED SO I USE MY TUMMY----I'LL CONTINUE TILL I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE
BRENDA----THANKS FOR THE ADVICE WITH THE REPRONEX----I'M STILL WAITING FOR MY CALL FROM THE NURSE SO I CAN GO OVER ALL THIS WITH HER
DANIA-----MY CYCLE BUDDY HOW HAVE YOU BEEN-----YOU SHOULD BE WELL INTO YOUR STIMMS BY NOW----I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING WELL----
ANYONE----WHY IS IT RECOMENDED TO DRINK LOTS OF WATER TO AVOID OHSS------MY CLINIC GAVE ME NO HITS ON WHAT TO DRINK OR EAT SO I WAS JUST WONDERING
GOOD LUCK TO EVERYBODY ELSE AND PMA TO ALL
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Post by CarolynB »

Hi

Just a very short post from me this evening.

Mitzy/Ilona - I am so sad for you. I had tears in my eyes when I read your posts over the last 24 hours. I am so sorry for you & your OH. I guess that when I looked at your profile - many things were similar. I am 39 too. Almost 40. My dh is 50 too. Both my tubes are buggered up. I feel for you. You are a strong lady. You have absolutely given it your best shot. Give youself time now to come to terms with the very hard knock that life has dealt you. I do know that over time you will bounce back as you are strong & caring. My thoughts are with you & OH right now. Hug each other hard.

Beth - no smileys today as does not seem that sort of day but glad that you like them. I saw somebody different at my clinic today and was able to get some more info. I just took advice from the ladies and asked how many follies and what size. Then when he did not tell me much - like I had quite a lot - I just stood over his shoulder and watched what he wrote down in my notes & him measuring the pictures and refused to budge!!

Cyot - Sofia - thank you for your concern/words of encouragement. I can really feel the follies growing as I am so ursting out my trousers.

Well good news is that they have grown. Biggest 20mm, a 19mm, a 18mm, some 16mm (like 4). Quite a lot. They are now worried that I may well get OHSS and that we might have to go for a total freeze but I cannot complain as at least I will hopefully have a few eggs. Anyway trigger shot is this evening at 10.30pm. Does not look too scary. Then a jab free day tomorrow. WEEEEYYY HEEEYYYY. Gish - I will not know what to do when I get up in the morning! Then go in with dh at 7am on Wednesday for ER. 1 day ahead of schedule..............completely cocked up my diary planning at work but who cares.

Love to you all but most love to Ilano.
Carolyn xxx
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Post by CarolynB »

Updating for my ER date - cannot believe that I even got this far.......

Lucy - Flare cycle starts 22 April
Sofia - Stimmies - 22 April
Heather - Start Lupron - 22nd April
Beth - ER - 23rd April

Mitzy - 2ww - Test Date is 24th April
Danielle - BFP - :D - 1st HCG - 24 April
CarolynB - ER - 26 April
Natalie - Baseline Scan - 25 April
LucyBucy - Scan & Bloods - Start Stimmies - 25th April

Wendy - Baseline Scan - 27th April
Brenjamie - 2ww - Test Date is 28th April
Dania-1st stimmies scan-April 28
Lucy - 1st follie scan - 28th April
Sammy - 2ww - Test Date - 29th April

Vess - ER - 1st May (ish)
Dania- ER- 1st May (ish)
Prissy - 2ww - Testing Date is 2nd May
Cyot - EC - 2nd May (ish)
Jess - EC - 3rd May
Sita - Buserlin Scan - 3rd May
Gail - 2ww - Test Date 4th May
Claire - EC/ER - May (no exact date as yet)
Sarahface - Baseline Scan - 9th May
Heather - ER - May 10th
Jennifer - Start tmt - May 10th
Jess - AF/Start Treatment - May 17th

Jess - Start Stimmies - June 2nd (ish)
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Post by brenjamie »

Just a quick one tonight ladies--

Ilona -- I am so sorry for your news. I know just how devastating this news can be. Take care of yourself.

Carolyn -- Great news and good luck with ER on Wednesday.

My 2ww will finally be over on Friday. I'm sure this week will last FOREVER!! Having trouble with PMA. Was doing OK until the last 2 days and am now slipping. I guess this is what happens when you have had failures in the past. You begin putting your guard up. I thought I was possibly having a few symptoms too, but then they decide to vanish. Oh, well. Have a good day everyone!!

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Post by Sallyc »

Hi Girls,

Have to apologize again for not being around. There’s just soooo much going on at the moment and nothing ever seems to be easy.

Brenjamie-keep up the PMA Girl. You can do it…I know it!!! Good luck and all the best for Friday…my fingers are crossed for a BFP!!!!!!!!

CarolynB-thats brilliant news...wow...can’t believe it...you are flying girl. Good luck for tomorrow…my fingers are crossed for you. Remember to drink loads of water after EC and maybe a protein drink (like athletes drink them) wouldn’t go a miss if you are in danger of OHSS. I will not be in London until next week…shame really…was hoping we could meet in Hammersmith.

CYOT-hope you are doing ok with the stimms. Drinking water before EC is important for the lining of the womb. After EC to avoid OHSS its drinking water and eating protein. Don’t exactly know why (someone told me before but forgot *g*). It’s got to do with the empty follies that fill with fluid and to flush it out or something like that.

LucyBucy-good luck with the acupuncture. Hope you are doing ok.

Sofia-good luck for your scan on Thursday.

Missprissy-loads of rest sounds good. You take it easy girl. PMA PMA PMA!!!

Beth-try not to worry too much. Sometimes it does take a while for the follies to start growing. Good luck.

Luby-hope you are feeling better by now.

Mitzy-really don’t know what to say/write. I am sooooo sorry for you and your partner. I hope the both of you will find the strength to pick yourselves up again. Please remember we are here for you if you need us. Sending you a big hug. Image

Sita-good luck with your scan next week. Hope DR is going well.

Hello and hugs to everyone else I have forgotten.

My blood wasn’t too good yesterday. E2 levels to low so they told me to go from 75 IU of Gonal F to 112.5 IU.

Quick update on the list with my next scan + blood on Friday.

Have a nice sunny day everyone.

Lucy - Flare cycle starts 22 April
Sofia - Stimmies - 22 April
Heather - Start Lupron - 22nd April
Beth - ER - 23rd April
Mitzy - 2ww - Test Date is 24th April
Danielle - BFP - - 1st HCG - 24 April

Natalie - Baseline Scan - 25 April
LucyBucy - Scan & Bloods - Start Stimmies - 25th April
CarolynB - ER - 26 April
Wendy - Baseline Scan - 27th April
Brenjamie - 2ww - Test Date is 28th April
Dania-1st stimmies scan-April 28
Lucy - 1st follie scan - 28th April
Sally - Scan + blood - 28th April
Sammy - 2ww - Test Date - 29th April


Vess - ER - 1st May (ish)
Dania- ER- 1st May (ish)
Prissy - 2ww - Testing Date is 2nd May
Cyot - EC - 2nd May (ish)
Jess - EC - 3rd May
Sita - Buserlin Scan - 3rd May
Gail - 2ww - Test Date 4th May
Claire - EC/ER - May (no exact date as yet)
Sarahface - Baseline Scan - 9th May
Heather - ER - May 10th
Jennifer - Start tmt - May 10th
Jess - AF/Start Treatment - May 17th

Jess - Start Stimmies - June 2nd (ish)
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Post by Natalie Anne »

well i had an awful morning. Had my baseline scan and although it's ok to start stims tomorrow, the scan was really painful (have had loads of internal scans over last 2 yrs so know how they're supposed to feel) and they said that one ovary had a cyst on it and the other was polycystic (lots of little cysts). as if this wasn't enough, they said i may have endometriosis! this would explain all that awful stomach ache i had problems with the other week.

all of this seems to have occurred in the last 2 months and they think it may be due to the 2 years i've just had of hormonal messing about.

they took a blood sample and said that as long as the hormone levels aren't seriously abnormal, i can continue with this attempt.

still feel very down though.

please can someone update the date list for me? i start stims tomorrow (26th), have a scan on May 2nd and another on May 5th. no date for EC or ET yet though. thanks.

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Post by Sallyc »

Natalie,

poor you... Image
What an awful start to the day. But...the main thing is you can start your stimms.

Have updated the list for you. Goold luck with your injections.

Lucy - Flare cycle starts 22 April
Sofia - Stimmies - 22 April
Heather - Start Lupron - 22nd April
Beth - ER - 23rd April
Mitzy - 2ww - Test Date is 24th April
Danielle - BFP - - 1st HCG - 24 April

Natalie - Baseline Scan - 25 April
LucyBucy - Scan & Bloods - Start Stimmies - 25th April
CarolynB - ER - 26 April
Natalie Anne -start stimms - 26th April
Wendy - Baseline Scan - 27th April
Brenjamie - 2ww - Test Date is 28th April
Dania-1st stimmies scan-April 28
Lucy - 1st follie scan - 28th April
Sally - Scan + blood - 28th April
Sammy - 2ww - Test Date - 29th April


Vess - ER - 1st May (ish)
Dania- ER- 1st May (ish)
Natalie Anne-stimmies scan - 2nd May
Prissy - 2ww - Testing Date is 2nd May
Cyot - EC - 2nd May (ish)
Jess - EC - 3rd May
Sita - Buserlin Scan - 3rd May
Gail - 2ww - Test Date 4th May
Natalie Anne-stimmies scan - 5th May
Claire - EC/ER - May (no exact date as yet)
Sarahface - Baseline Scan - 9th May
Heather - ER - May 10th
Jennifer - Start tmt - May 10th
Jess - AF/Start Treatment - May 17th

Jess - Start Stimmies - June 2nd (ish)
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Post by DaniaBB »

Mitzy,

I'm so sorry. After reading all your posts I can tell you are a strong person. Take all the time you need to grieve with your DH. You can be proud of yourself that you took this hard and challenging journey. I'm certain life has beautiful things for you in the future. May God bless you with peace and happiness.
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Post by DaniaBB »

Hello everyone!

Coyt-I am ex cited as well that we are cycle buddies- thanks for inquiring about me.I am having two injections a day too. 20 units of Buserelin(a.k.a. suprefact) and 225 units of Gonal F pen style. The second injection of the pen cause a big 1x 1 inch bruise. You're lucky your clinic sounds very service oriented and concientious.It made me decide to page my Dr. and ask questions. thanks. Hope you have lots of follies!!!

Carolyn- CONGRATS!!!!! wow youre oone day ahead of schedule. I am feeling quite tired since last sunday(23rd)And my tomach is sore!!!

Lucy- I am happy that your cyst is gone. Thanks for the follie fairy that is really sweet.Try to be positive about the miscarriages- if you can try to counter each -ve thought with a beautiful happy one. The book I read says to do that and they've done many studies on IVF results and emotions.

Lucybucy- welcome!(got your name from the movie "50 first dates"?that's really cute)I was pretty down too when I started down regging but keep coming back here- it will make you feel better. The support is great.

Brenda- hang in there! Only a few days to go... you've been strong this far. HAPPY THOUGHTS! That's what my psych. says to do.

Natalie- Sorry to hear that thay discovered endo and that your scan was painful. No woder you were saying that your AF was so painful. Please try to bring your hopes up- they know what they are doing and they have faith it will all work out. I wish you lots of follies as you start your stimmies.

Prissy- hope you are getting lots of rest and doing stuff you enjoy.

Beth- hang in there! The follies will grow.. just a liittle extra time. Be strong.

Sally- that's good they increased your dose. Good luck with your scan on friday.

Sita and Sofia- Good luck with your scans!

Heather, and Sarah- welcome !!! you'll find the ladies on this site are amazing. ITs great to have such support. Good luck with your treatments.

Hello to anyone I might have missed.


Well as for me, I do my injections in my tummy which is starting to get sore every night when we do the inj. I too am unsure about injecting in my legs. I got worried when I saw that most of you were getting blood work and scans done regularly- on thursday was my 1st scan- they cancelled the one expected for today and said to come back only next friday the 28th (after 8 days of stimmies). So I paged my Dr. she verified and its OK that my next scan is friday. Good! I asked about the bruising and tiredness and she said it was OK it does happen.

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