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CarolynB
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Post by CarolynB »

Ladies

Did not get here yesterday and so much going on.

Lucy - hum I have posted on your test thread - I am so very sorry for you & your boyfriend - it is so dam unfair. Sending you big hugs. We are here if you do want to chat but also understand if it is too soon and you just need time out

Dania - Hope that you are starting to feel a little better although I know that it is still very early days for you - thinking of you

Cyot - sounds good news but let's keep sending you the baby dust for Saturday. Hope that the numbers pick up nicely

Sarahface - hope that you scan went well - what news?? Does sound like you have lots of follies. I could tell as I was just so swollen and bloated.

LucyBucy - Glad that EC all went well. Great numbers. Keep up the water. Hope that they all continue to grow nicely for you.

Lauralou - Hope that ET goes well. This part is fine and you know that your little ones are coming home. Take it very easy for the first few days and drink lots of water and just relax. Remember the pineapple juice which is meant to help with implantation. I had 13 eggs of which 1o fertilised but they said that 2 were 'strange' or not good fertilisation so no point proceeding with those 2. I think that it is where the eggs are too mature or not mature enough. It is a balancing act to get as many as possible in the right range for each of us. You have 6 which is great. Means that you may also have some to freeze which is good news.

Hot Water bottles - based on the Zita West bible - she says - yes when on stimmies to encourage the follies to grow. But certainly not after ET as Natalie has said. They certainly do want the womb to be warm but absolutely do not want it to get too warm as that can lead to contractions. Understand that the baths and swimming is to avoid water getting in there & possibly leading to infections

Jackoa - relax in the hot tub together will have to wait a little longer :?

Vess - Natalie - count down continues. Hope that you are not going too insane

Em - thinking of you - it does get better - promise

So - what news from me. I have started constructive programme to create a better home for my embies for next time. Zita West vitamins - 3 times per day - VitaFem - make my wee go bright green but who cares! Diet - already 6 lbs lighter than the heaviest I got with all the follies inside. Sure lots of the loss is just water but I feel like some of my clothed fit better already. Want to lose another 4/5lbs in next 2 weeks before I hit big 4-0. Continuing the no caffenine. Drinking loads of water. Went to a social event last night where I used to work - no alcohol at all!!! I am going to become boring fitness fanatic. :roll: Doing lots of walking - cannot get myself to gym as yet but that may come along too. So went for accupuncture session yesterday. £60. 1 hour intro session on Harley Street. Daniel. He was lovely. :oops: We spent 40 mins talking through my health, the ivf cycle, my AF etc etc. He quickly decided that where I needed help was implantation as rest of my cycle had been ok. Wants to make the lining of my womb much better. So needles in hands, tummy, feet and knees. Pretty painless. A bit weird but did not really hurt at all. Left me there for about 10/15 mins. I need to go back each week for 4 weeks. £40 per go. Then probably less frequently depending how my next AF is. He will be able to tell from colour and texture (sorry tmi). 95% of his patients are ladies on ivf. He will also give me herbs during AF but do not know what they will be as yet. It cannot do any harm & guess that can only help. Only issue is more cost! :shock: I shall keep you all posted. If any London based ladies want more info then just let me know. Feel much better as I am taking positive steps to help my chances. Last time, we were a bit blind and rushed into things rather than thinking about helping ourselves before we started.

Baby dust to you all.
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Sofia
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Post by Sofia »

Hello

I'm still here - just been rushing back and forth to the clinic for blood tests and scans and injections....feeling fed up.

Well I was told today that my E level is a sky-high 4000. But I hope that just reflects the 20 follies I have. Could anyone else remember their estrogen level before trigger? I have been stimming for 13 days now, and I hope the RE hasn't overdone things. I trigger tonight, and not a moment too soon. I'm so bloated I feel pregnant already! EC on Sunday morning.

Great to read everyone's posts and catch up on news. Hopefully will have more energy (and time) to do personals after EC.

Sofia

PS. For the (kind) person who asked why does a polyp ruin your chances, its because the womb thinks the polyp is a foreign body, and creates a hostile environment in order to destroy any 'intruder'. Unfortunately, this makes it an unfriendly place for embies too.
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Post by vessi »

Sofia,

I wish you tons of mature eggs!!!!
BTW, I am originally form Bulgaria. I live in the USA, NJ now. Where are you from? Sofia? Glad to find another Bulgarian.

Vessela
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Post by LauraLou »

Just got a call from the lab and they want to move the ET back to Monday. They said of the six eggs, we have 4 excellent and 2 average, so we can wait until Monday to choose the best.

All of the back and forth is making me nuts! First the ET was to be Monday, then Saturady and now back to Monday. I guess it's good that we can wait until Monday but it is all so confusing and the constant changing of dates makes my blood pressure shoot up!
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Post by jackoa21 »

Laura
That is great news (about doing the 5 day) my doctor has only ever mentioned the 3 day. I was going to bring this up but I thought I would wait to see how I do with the stims.. I guess some doctors may not even consider the 5 day (or maybe my doc just thinks the 3 would be best) oh well...

I know the back and forth but be crazy but just think soon you will have healthy embies on board and well on your way to a BFP...

Sofia
good luck for lots and lots of embies....

Carolyn you are always so helpful thank you for the info on the water bottle......

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Post by Natalie Anne »

Vess

see you are testing the same day as me. how are you feeling? any symptoms one way or the other? how are you finding the 2ww?

Natalie
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Post by vessi »

Natalie,
Yes, i am having my beta blood test on the 24th. I am going insane!!!! OMG, I cannot think of anything else. i am overanalyzing any pinch and cramp and modd and everything!!
Somedays i think I might be preggo but then get scared of the thought that I wished something that is not happening. Then I go to no, I am preggo and feel guilty becuase I need to stay positive. it's a lose-lose situation no matter which way you decide to go.
2-3 days ago I stated having watery mouth, salivation which makes me hungry all the time. SO, I eat all the time. I hope it's worth it. Immagine BPN and 5 extra pounds to deal with.
I had a b/w this morning to check pr and Estr levels. No call so far, so i guess all is fine and I keep the 2 pills Estrace a day +1cc PIO.
I know I will POAS just cannot decide when. I was doing the math and if implantation occured on day 7, Wednesday, then HSG level is 1, Tue-2, Thur-4, Fr-8, Sat-16, Sun-32. I guess I will test on Sunday. I know I can get a false negative but I cannot wait any more!
My boring job does not help the time go away.
I will prbably rent some movies for the weekend.
Do you have any symptomes? Anyone with watery mouth??

Trying to stay sane: Vessi
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Post by sarahface »

Hello Everyone :D

We got back from the clinic a little over an hour ago a 2 hour drive each way and am tired now but the news was good we have about 16 follies and everything looks good including the lining of my womb.
They have given me my single dose of Pregnyl to take sunday evening and then thats it for the meds! horrayyy. EC is on Tuesday 23rd and Hopefully ET on the Thursday.
Im being sedated and the procedure is going to take about an hour and they have suggested bringing in a soothing cd to listen to.

Hubby said to me today i cant believe this is almost it, we had talked about it for a while and he said if you would have asked me how far we would have gotten i couldnt see the day when it was time to collect the eggs and now its only 4 days away, bless him.

Im still bloated and i too an staring at the supositories (however you spell it) LOL and im useless with the dang things they have a habbit of floating away! :shock: :oops:


VESSI good luck to you pet i hope you get a BFP, sprinkling lots of baby dust your way!!

what am i to expect after the EC will it be quite painful?

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Post by Natalie Anne »

Vess

it's hard on the 2ww isn't it? i've got really full boobs with loads of veins showing (ugh!) and am absolutely exhausted, i can barely stay awake and have to lie down every afternoon. my skin is also a nice mix of dry patches and spots. been getting the occasional period pain type ache but am trying to stay postive and hope it is early uterine stretching as so many girls who get positives experience this. not had any bleeding or spotting at all.

my clinic doesn't do blood tests so i do a home test on Wednesday. i'm not going to test early as i want the result to be true.

hope you get through the next few days with me and hope we both get BFPs!

Natalie
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Sofia - glad that you have EC now scheduled for Sunday. It must be such a relief. I stimmied for 11 days and that was plenty! You sound like you will have a really great number of follies and hopefully lots of them will hold precious eggs. Keep drinking the water especially to ensure that you avoid any risk of OHSS. Think that I saw on my notes at the last scan that my E level was over 3,000. I don't know how many follies there were in the end for me but we did get 13 eggs so sure that E level is a good sign although they don't want it too high because guess then they worry more about OHSS. Thinking of you

Natalie - sounds like the signs are really good for you. Feeling tired. Sore breasts. Patchy dry skin. Some period like stretching pains. I am so hoping that this is going to be your time. Baby dust for u to help you through the weekend. Image

Sarahface - sounds like you have a really great number of follies & hopefully lots of them will hold good eggs for you. Good luck for EC on Tuesday. It is so good when we get to our last injection - quite a milestone. I did feel sore after EC and I had lots of follies & 13 eggs. I drank lots of water & tried to lie around and rest to get by body ready for the embies to come back home.

Vessela - I am sorry that it is driving you mad. It is very hard to think of anything else when you are living through the 2ww. Try to wait as long as you possibly can before you use the HPT. They are really bad at giving people a -ve and then a +ve when you do the 'real' test. Sunday will still be quite early. Thinking of you & sending you baby dust and sticky vibes for your little ones. Image

Jackoa - First time through the only option presented to me was 2 day transfer. But it is one of the questions for my review appointment. When do they use 3 day or 5 day? I am not sure. Hope that stimmies are ok and that you are using the hot water bottle. I used when they told me that my follies were too small and it did some good for me with no upping of meds.

LauraLou - They have moved it back so that they are able to see which of your embies are in the best shape for you. I know the uncertainly is a killer but it will mean that your little ones are doing well so they want to see if they can get them better on their way before
they come back home. Rest lots of the weekend if you can so that you are ready for ET on Monday.


Cyot - fingers crossed for your follow up tomorrow. Really hoping that you get a BFP.

Em - guess that you are taking some time away from the boards? Do hope that you are doing ok. Stay in touch.

baby dust to all.
Love Carolyn xxxx
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Post by jackoa21 »

Carolyn
I used the hot watter bottle last night and I will again up until the er.....I am on the follistem and they said to lower my dose.. I was on 300 the last few nights and now I am lowering to 150 for tonight.. I am kind of glad because that must mean I am responding ok (with the blood levels) I also feel like my heart is about to jump out of my chest...ugggg
I have my first u/w tomorrow morning....


Natalie your symptons sound promising sending you and Vess loads of baby dust
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Post by CarolynB »

Jackoa

Good luck for the scan tomorrow. You probably know already that they are looking to get as many follices as they can to about 16mm for trigger shot so they are then about 18mm+ by EC. At the first scan, I did have lots of follies but the biggest that I had was about 13mm. I was scared to ask too many questions but the girls on here said that they are your follies so make sure that you ask how many on each side and how big they are!!!!

Let us know how you do.
Love Carolyn xxx
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HELLO EVERYONE-----------------WELL IT'S A BFP FOR ME----------I CAN'T BELEIVE IT-----------I AM STILL SPOTTING BUT VERY LITTLE NOW------I AM PROOF THAT YOU CAN STILL GET A BFP WITH SPOTTING----WITH EVERYTHING WE GO THROUGH THE SIGHT OF SPOTTING PUTS US IN PURE PANIC--------WELL GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE AND THANK-YOU FOR ALL THE WONDERFUL SUPPORT------I COULDN'T HAVE MADE IT THROUGH THIS ORDEAL WITHOUT YOU
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Post by CarolynB »

Cyot

Congratulations. That is terrific news.

Enjoy being pregnant.

Love Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Cyot

that's wonderful news, congratulations!

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