New user - my wife and I have just been through our first (sadly unsuccessful) course of fertility treatment. We have recently been to our follow-up appointment to talk about the findings and possible next steps, and I just wanted to get the views of the good people here on a couple of things that came out of it.
All throughout the course of treatment we understood that we were having IVF with ICSI - this was always the method of treatment described to us and indeed before the egg collection and transfer this is what we were billed for.
However at the follow-up session it transpired that we actually "just" had the IVF. This was not explained until we mentioned to the consultant that we were under the impression we had gone through ICSI, at which point the consultant said that sometimes the embryolist would change the method of treatment at this point depending on the situation (and the condition of the eggs and sperm), and that this was of course to give us the best chance of fertilisation.
We were shocked at this because:
a) we weren't told that this was even a possibility in the lead up to the treatment
b) we weren't told of this change of procedure at the time
c) we had subsequently been billed for assisted hatching which was part of the treatment, however the fact that we had paid for and not received ICSI was never mentioned
Whilst we are now aware of this, and the clinic did then hastily refund our money and give an explanation (however accurate) of the reasoning behind the change in treatment, I have serious reservations that this would ever have been picked up by the consultant had we not made her aware that we were expecting ICSI - indeed, had we not attended the follow-up session for whatever reason we would be none the wiser to this day.
Can anyone shed any light on this - is it standard protocol to amend method of fertilisation at this late stage, and what about the communication breakdown with the clinic - should we take this further? Has anyone else experienced this?
Any advice gratefully received as we just don't know what to think.
