July Thread

[lara312]

Good luck Em and let us know how things go .Well i feelin much better today thanx girls and just cant wait for july to come i have been trying since yesterday to sort out my cycle but they told me they would phone me today but did'nt then all afternoon i tried to phone but just got answer phone never mind will try again tomorrow. Hope your all ok . Rachel x x

[Moritsha]

Hello ladies. Another beautiful day in Aberdeen. Hard to believe! Welcome Jackie. Good luck Em tomorrow.
Rachel hope yo're feeling better. I feel awful. Got the most horrendous AF just now. I'm so upset because I'm going to have one on holiday. Last holiday I got tablets to stop my af but obv I can't this time as it'll interfere with the IVF cycle. I suppose it's for a very good reason. I'm so excited. Fly down to Manchester on the 2nd and leave for Cuba on the 3rd. Speak to you all soon. Paula x

[nictor]

Hi All,how is everyone? Just a week till my review and i cant wait,i just want to know exactly when my FET can happen Confusing time or what!! I was reading an article that says this is the best time of year to concieve and more girls are conceived at this time of year than boys,so heres hoping that each and everyone of us have BFP's..i've decided that this time im doing nothing in the 2ww,and dp can do it all!!! Will it be 3rd time lucky for me,my god i hope so...lots of love and baby dust to everyone..Nicola..xxx

[Xrayem]

Hi girls,

Feeling blue so just a quick one. Had my IUI this morning but they also did a BT just to check I was ovulating, but then I got a call from the clinic that I hadn't ovulated and so I had to rush in after work for a shot of hcG and then we have to do the whole IUI again tomorrow. It was so painful this morning and I have had cramps all day. Now I have to go and do it again tomorrow.

I'll be back tomorrow.
Em

[poochie]

Hi Girls

Not been around for a few days.

Maureen - congrats fantastic news take care.

Em- Sorry your feeling down, hope you ok after this morning, hope tomorrow not to painful and a big positive comming your way.

Nicola - I heard that summer was the most fertile time too, lots of positives for the July group I feel. Not long to your review.

Paula - Cuba nice, have a fab time bit of a bummer about AF timing.

Jackie - Welcome good luck.

Hi to everyone else hope you all OK.

Vicki X

[Moritsha]

Hi all. I'm a bit p****ed off today. I had my BT today and the nurse made up my protocol. My baseline scan and BT should be on Tues 18 July but as we're on holiday it'll be the 19th. When she was working out my protocol it looks like DH will be away the day before ER!!!!!!!! I siad that we were freezing a sample but she siad if it's not good enough it might not survive the freezing process therefore resulting in cancellation of ER. She suggested waiting till next AF but again we could be in the same situation. I just don't know what to do. I've tried to get an earlier flight into Aberdeen before midday so I could go to the clinic to get my tests done before luch time. No flights. I don't think we'd make it driving - our flight gets in at 6.20 am and we'd need to be at the clinic before lunch time. Is it possible? I could hire a Ferrari. THere's no way my DH can change his dates as he's on a strict rota. Help! What do I do?????????????
Em -don't worry. It'll all work out. I'm so sick my AF came late coz if it had been on time I wouldn't be in this situation. Has anyone heard of anyone starting the FSH without getting the bloods and scan done. I thought they'd know by my last treatment. Sorry for the long message just about me but I know I can talk to you all. DH is away. Paula x

[nictor]

Hi Paula,Im sorry you're going through this,the whole bloody ivf thing is a nightmare..Does the appointment at the clinic have to be morning,cant they give you a later appointment,knowing the circumstances,or what about a train home to aberdeen..Pm me if you want to meet for a chat..Take care,thinking of you..Nicola..XXXX

[Xrayem]

Hi Paula,

What a stressful situation. I hope you get something sorted out. I'm feeling better today. I was just so tired and sore from being poked and prodded all day long.

Oh and my test date has been pushed out until the 30th June which is 2 weeks and 1 day away.

Em

Jeck- 22 June - start Estrace.
Jackie - 23 June - start stimming
Nicki - 27 June - AF arrives.
Rachel - 27 June - start Lupron
Maureen - PREGNANT!!
Em - 30 June - Test date
Jackie - 3 July - ER
Rachel - 4 July - Estrogen Jabs
Jackie - 7 July - ET
Jeck - 10 July - FET.
Rachel - 13/14 - US
Lara312 - 17 July - Downregging.
Rachel - 20 July - FET
Vicki - 28 July - starts cycle
Rachel - 3 Aug - Test date

[jemima]

Hi Everybody...
May I join? My name is Jemima from Indonesia. I will start first IVF on this July around 12. It will in Singapore, no family there and I hope you are all can be my family.
I never been pregnant. Married for 4 years. So nice to know all of you

Bless U all
Jemima

[lara312]

Hi paula sorry to here about your problem hope you manage to sort it out let us know what happens. Em hope everything goes ok for you today and that you feel better . Well i finally managed t get hold of clinic i have an appoitment 29th june to sort this new cycle for july out hope your all ok and looking forward to havin lots of bfp's in july and august hugs to you all . Welcome jemima this is a good place to be when you are going through ivf has we are all in the same position and these girls are very supportive Rachel x x x

[Rileydee]

Paula, I am so sorry for all the obstacles falling in your way. I hope you will get everything worked out. I hope everyone else is doing well. IVF is a nightmare. It is not fair that we have to work so hard for this, when there is people out there getting pregnant in such bad situations. For example, my husbands distant cousin that was thirteen when she got pg just had the baby and is keeping it. It is these sorts of things that aggravate me. Believe it or not I am keeping up a PMA about this whole thing. I just have to keep thinking that 1 year ago I was thinking that it was the end of line for us having a baby ourselves (maybe would think about adoption) but now there is this one more thing we can try. At least there is that. sorry for the long rant.
Jeck- 22 June - start Estrace.
Jackie - 23 June - start stimming
Rileydee- 23 June -start Estradiol
Nicki - 27 June - AF arrives.
Rachel - 27 June - start Lupron
Maureen - PREGNANT!!
Em - 30 June - Test date
Jackie - 3 July - ER
Rachel - 4 July - Estrogen Jabs
Jackie - 7 July - ET
Jeck - 10 July - FET.
Rachel - 13/14 - US
Lara312 - 17 July - Downregging.
Rachel - 20 July - FET
Vicki - 28 July - starts cycle
Rachel - 3 Aug - Test date

[Dory]

Hi Ladies,

Hope you are all having a reasonable week, sounds like a couple of you are having a bad time.

Jemima - Welcome to the group and good luck with your cycle.

Paula - I hope everything gets sorted for you to do your IVF cycle and enjoy your holiday in sunny Cuba. I'm sure everything wll work out fine and you can relax and enjoy the sun and sea and maybe a bit of sex before all the waiting.....

Em - Sounds like you have got off to a good start finally, sending you lots of sticky baby dust and PMA, just relax and take it easy.....

Rachel - Good luck in you upcoming appointment, let's hope they can sort things out for you so you can start as soon as possible.

Well i've been having a few bad days been getting really down and upset, poor DH has had the worst of it.
As much as i'm really really really pleased for all the ladies who have had BFP's in June, the little green man has reared his ugly head. I know i'm starting another cycle this month but it still doesn't make the fact that the last cycle this month failed feel any better.

I feel like it's so unfair, why can't i be one of the successful ones, why for once can't i have a BFP that makes it to the end and gives us a beautiful healthy baby. What did i do so wrong to deserve all this heartache!!!

I'm beginning to think that we should look into adoption now, we were going to adopt even if we were lucky enough to have a baby of our own.
I've, we'll i should say we've been through so much and i really don't know if i can stand another failed pregnancy or lost pregnancy.

Sorry for the rant but i needed to get it out my system, there is only so much ranting you can do to you DH.

Give me a day or two and i will be back to my usual happy, optomistic and strong self.

Thanks for listening.

Rachel OXO




Jeck- 22 June - start Estrace.
Jackie - 23 June - start stimming
Rileydee- 23 June -start Estradiol
Nicki - 27 June - AF arrives.
Rachel - 27 June - start Lupron
Maureen - PREGNANT!!
Em - 30 June - Test date
Jackie - 3 July - ER
Rachel - 4 July - Estrogen Jabs
Jackie - 7 July - ET
Jeck - 10 July - FET.
Jemima - 12 July - Starts cycle
Rachel - 13/14 - US
Lara312 - 17 July - Downregging.
Rachel - 20 July - FET
Vicki - 28 July - starts cycle
Rachel - 3 Aug - Test date

[Rileydee]

Rachel, it sounds like you've been through so much. Keep your head up, I hope you feel better soon.

[nictor]

Rachel,thats why were all here to listen and understand,i know its hard sweetheart,but we will ALL get there in the end,you rant as much as you want,and get it out your system..Take care..lots of love..Nicola..xxx

[Xrayem]

Rach,

You're only saying what everyone else is feeling! I know what you mean about the green man! I normally go on the April thread but everyone seems to have had BFP's except me and I'v just started my 2ww. I feel so frustrated and don't think it'll ever be my turn.

On a lighter note, I read a book the other day where the guy (professor at sydney IVF) said that infertility is nature's way of controlling the population and that infertile people are meerly incredibly evolved humans! I like that thought very much!

Cheers em