Aunty,
Im so sorry to hear! I posted on your board that I 'm just going to miss ya! And I wish you the best with whatever you decide to do.
You were so great on here and so supportive to everybody!
Your time will come soon! Hugs to you! I know your DH will take good care of you especially, being a nurse! Have a few beers and relax! Everybody needs that once in awhile and im sure you can use that now!
I hope to see you pop on here sometime and keep us posted as to how your doing. Take care!
Jess xxx
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Jess ... how you feeling?
i truly think my time wont come now how freaky i never in my life imagined NOT being a mom, i was born to be a mom from the age of 6 i have taken care of kids...what on earth will i do now?????? i have looked into adoption and OMG i dont have 26,00-40,00 so i think that makes me a bad mom according to agencys ive seen so far... well smack my legs and sack me ...lmao
anyway i still wish you the best with lots of love best wishes Debz
i truly think my time wont come now how freaky i never in my life imagined NOT being a mom, i was born to be a mom from the age of 6 i have taken care of kids...what on earth will i do now?????? i have looked into adoption and OMG i dont have 26,00-40,00 so i think that makes me a bad mom according to agencys ive seen so far... well smack my legs and sack me ...lmao
anyway i still wish you the best with lots of love best wishes Debz
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Aunty,
Im feeling okay...not really feeling much of anything so its scaring me. Alittle bit crampy now and I tooK A HPT today and negative but I know its still very early I still have 6 days to go. But, I think like you said after you putting 4 back why the heck didnt it take? I put 3 back and knowing that it may not take is very upsetting. Its amazing how some of us can put 1 back and it works but then 3 & 4 back doesnt is unbelievable!!
I know its a tough road and hoping and praying for a happy ending and then it ends in sadness really stinks!
But, you dont think you will try again?
I know adoption is so expensive!
But, whatever you decide to do lots of luck you deserve the best!
I think for me if I get a BFN it will be over for me! I cant handle to go through all of this again and getting a BFN all over!
Take Care Aunty! JESS XXX
Im feeling okay...not really feeling much of anything so its scaring me. Alittle bit crampy now and I tooK A HPT today and negative but I know its still very early I still have 6 days to go. But, I think like you said after you putting 4 back why the heck didnt it take? I put 3 back and knowing that it may not take is very upsetting. Its amazing how some of us can put 1 back and it works but then 3 & 4 back doesnt is unbelievable!!
I know its a tough road and hoping and praying for a happy ending and then it ends in sadness really stinks!
But, you dont think you will try again?
I know adoption is so expensive!
But, whatever you decide to do lots of luck you deserve the best!
I think for me if I get a BFN it will be over for me! I cant handle to go through all of this again and getting a BFN all over!
Take Care Aunty! JESS XXX
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noooo Jess dont say that, im 1dpbfn and feeling like i refuse to let my body not do this... hey look you want food and bubble baths you give me my child....
it is a crazy hard road i think though for me its made harder trying to deal with the finacial aspect if i could afford to id do it till it worked ...and yeah im soooo shocked there is no way on gods green earth we could afford adoption its anything from $26,000-$40,000 can even go up to $60,000 who on earth can do that now i know why there are so many kids living on the streets and eating from piles of rubbish.... because people like me who could provide a loving home didnt have thousands of dollars....how stupid is that...i dont get it...
i hope you dont decide to give up but lets pray you still get your BFP i will be praying for you big time...if you need me im here anything i can do i will.....
lots of love hugs Debz
it is a crazy hard road i think though for me its made harder trying to deal with the finacial aspect if i could afford to id do it till it worked ...and yeah im soooo shocked there is no way on gods green earth we could afford adoption its anything from $26,000-$40,000 can even go up to $60,000 who on earth can do that now i know why there are so many kids living on the streets and eating from piles of rubbish.... because people like me who could provide a loving home didnt have thousands of dollars....how stupid is that...i dont get it...
i hope you dont decide to give up but lets pray you still get your BFP i will be praying for you big time...if you need me im here anything i can do i will.....
lots of love hugs Debz
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Debs x
Big hugs honey. I am so gutted for you. I have read your views on the next step and it is unbelievable to think you have to pay to adopt a child - I am totally niave to this??? Surely giving love and support throughout a childs life is pricelss and when you can offer that , like we all can then money should not be involved. The nasty "bleeps" that don't look after their children should have them taken off them and they should pay to get them back if anything! Do you have to pay to adopt in all countries???
I'm so gobsmacked. We put more than financial investment into all our treatment then we get that as a "second choice". I'm sooo on my high horse now. Feel like writing to the P.M !! If it is so expensive then only the rich can afford it and they are the ones who can afford to keep trying ivf. The poor kids, like you said eating out of rubbish bins who have no value of money.
Anyway, as far as ivf goes. I am on my 6th go and each time I think this is it no more, but I never can give up. I soon manage to pick myself up and go again ( I have found it actually gets easier each time, I think now I never expect it to work so its not a shock, then I question myself why do I keep doing it if I don't expect it to work). I have been really fortunate though as we had 2 free trials, 1 semi-private that cost about £900 GBP, then the other 3 have been egg share which haas cost me £500 GBP each. I don't know if there is anyway you can use a clinic in England and get these advantages. It really is an unfair system and thats me saying that who has had it lucky.
Whatever you do - don't give up hope. I have also always looked after kids and feel I was born to be a mum, it can be a cruel world. Keep your chin up and enjoy the good things in life for a while - drink !!!! Look after yourself and DH.
Jess - Don't give up honey !!! Those pregnancy tests are not reliable so early on. I hear so many stories of people testing even on their due test date and its neg and they are actually pregnant ( this happened to my cousin twice). PMA xxxxxxxx
Everybody else - PMA PMA xxxxx
I have no flu symptoms now and feel fine. Not a single twinge or anything though. Funny how somebody said you worry when you feel something and you worry when you don't !!! Think I'm coming back as a man in my next life !!
Big hugs honey. I am so gutted for you. I have read your views on the next step and it is unbelievable to think you have to pay to adopt a child - I am totally niave to this??? Surely giving love and support throughout a childs life is pricelss and when you can offer that , like we all can then money should not be involved. The nasty "bleeps" that don't look after their children should have them taken off them and they should pay to get them back if anything! Do you have to pay to adopt in all countries???
I'm so gobsmacked. We put more than financial investment into all our treatment then we get that as a "second choice". I'm sooo on my high horse now. Feel like writing to the P.M !! If it is so expensive then only the rich can afford it and they are the ones who can afford to keep trying ivf. The poor kids, like you said eating out of rubbish bins who have no value of money.
Anyway, as far as ivf goes. I am on my 6th go and each time I think this is it no more, but I never can give up. I soon manage to pick myself up and go again ( I have found it actually gets easier each time, I think now I never expect it to work so its not a shock, then I question myself why do I keep doing it if I don't expect it to work). I have been really fortunate though as we had 2 free trials, 1 semi-private that cost about £900 GBP, then the other 3 have been egg share which haas cost me £500 GBP each. I don't know if there is anyway you can use a clinic in England and get these advantages. It really is an unfair system and thats me saying that who has had it lucky.
Whatever you do - don't give up hope. I have also always looked after kids and feel I was born to be a mum, it can be a cruel world. Keep your chin up and enjoy the good things in life for a while - drink !!!! Look after yourself and DH.
Jess - Don't give up honey !!! Those pregnancy tests are not reliable so early on. I hear so many stories of people testing even on their due test date and its neg and they are actually pregnant ( this happened to my cousin twice). PMA xxxxxxxx
Everybody else - PMA PMA xxxxx
I have no flu symptoms now and feel fine. Not a single twinge or anything though. Funny how somebody said you worry when you feel something and you worry when you don't !!! Think I'm coming back as a man in my next life !!
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Oh Leanne your so funny...
as for the adoption thing i still cant get my head around it even "charitys" charge huge sums of money now dont get me wrong i know buisness have to make a profit but i think they have lost focus on what the word charity means....oooo almost pulled out my soap box again then....i read on here someone wrote all these things cost money and blah de blah waffle waffle yes i understand this but then dont claim to be in this buisness for the kids when your start it with your hand out...that goes from thinking of giving these children a loving home to filling up your wallet...so
i love your attitude you are a stong great woman i so hope this works for you....it will it will it will....me doing it in england well im a brit myself from brummie land..yeah i got the great accent... i dont think they would let me do egg share im too old i think the cut off is 35 i would share my eggs anyway no probs at all ...
when do you test now? hope to read you soon
love and hugs Debz
as for the adoption thing i still cant get my head around it even "charitys" charge huge sums of money now dont get me wrong i know buisness have to make a profit but i think they have lost focus on what the word charity means....oooo almost pulled out my soap box again then....i read on here someone wrote all these things cost money and blah de blah waffle waffle yes i understand this but then dont claim to be in this buisness for the kids when your start it with your hand out...that goes from thinking of giving these children a loving home to filling up your wallet...so
i love your attitude you are a stong great woman i so hope this works for you....it will it will it will....me doing it in england well im a brit myself from brummie land..yeah i got the great accent... i dont think they would let me do egg share im too old i think the cut off is 35 i would share my eggs anyway no probs at all ...
when do you test now? hope to read you soon
love and hugs Debz
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Hi debs, Just sent you a PM. Forgott to thank you for the irish twist " you will you will you will" !! I'm no longer in N.I anymore but I still miss it and it was a lovely reminder xx Happy days 
Any news girls ?????????????
Just had a lovely girlie day catching up with friends and eating out, it was a real tonic which I prescribe to you all...
Any news girls ?????????????
Just had a lovely girlie day catching up with friends and eating out, it was a real tonic which I prescribe to you all...
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Leanne
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Hey guys
Just a note to let you know that I did POAS and it does have one very faint line. I dont know if it would still be the hcg or not as I had the last shot 2 weeks ago. I did a first response and I see such a faint line but it is there. I am 7dpt today from my 2 blast babies....things are going well except for the slight cramping. Hope that you guys are doing well.
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Hi Jess
How is the wait going for you??? It can really drive you nuts ya know? Oh well we go through all of that to see about one little blood test. Hey what kind of test did you use...I was thinking it was way too early as well...we are still in the first week. Hang in there. My test is on Monday. We will meet fate then I guess.
Hi Debz
I hope that you are getting some healing time in these days. Im so sorry to hear about your BFN. That is so terrible. My heart goes out to you. I know how we pin our hopes and dreams on one day....
Tanya
Just a note to let you know that I did POAS and it does have one very faint line. I dont know if it would still be the hcg or not as I had the last shot 2 weeks ago. I did a first response and I see such a faint line but it is there. I am 7dpt today from my 2 blast babies....things are going well except for the slight cramping. Hope that you guys are doing well.
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Hi Jess
How is the wait going for you??? It can really drive you nuts ya know? Oh well we go through all of that to see about one little blood test. Hey what kind of test did you use...I was thinking it was way too early as well...we are still in the first week. Hang in there. My test is on Monday. We will meet fate then I guess.
Hi Debz
I hope that you are getting some healing time in these days. Im so sorry to hear about your BFN. That is so terrible. My heart goes out to you. I know how we pin our hopes and dreams on one day....
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Hi Everyone!
Tanya- OMG! When i tested with 2 EPT's tests they came out negative 2 days in a row. I was so upset thinking its not going to be good then I waited and took one this morning a first response and there is a faint line too!! It's not dark but, its clearly there! I was so excited but, still going to wait for my test day it's Wed.! But, I have the same as you with alittle bit cramping but, im not moody anymore but, also sore boobs!
Hopefully, its all good news for us!
How is everybody else doing and feeling?
I have been so busy the last few days havent had a chance to get on here.
Take Care! JESS XXX
Tanya- OMG! When i tested with 2 EPT's tests they came out negative 2 days in a row. I was so upset thinking its not going to be good then I waited and took one this morning a first response and there is a faint line too!! It's not dark but, its clearly there! I was so excited but, still going to wait for my test day it's Wed.! But, I have the same as you with alittle bit cramping but, im not moody anymore but, also sore boobs!
Hopefully, its all good news for us!
How is everybody else doing and feeling?
I have been so busy the last few days havent had a chance to get on here.
Take Care! JESS XXX
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Hey girls , those hpt are sounded good !! My doctor said if there is a line there - no matter how faint then it is a positive. I don't know how early you can get an accurate result though. Jess, yours sounds particullarly good if you had 2 negs first. Hoping and praying for you both.
I have absolutely no signs or symptoms. Not a single twinge or cramp no sore boobs - nothing. I have convinced myself as always that it won't work and have reached the " oh well " stage. I feel it is just a process and a motion I need to go through , like stepping stones, you can't reach the last 1 without tredding on the ones inbetween. We will see. I have 5 days until test day. I am totally relaxed though, the only thing I have changed is I have not drank alcohol - even though I spent all day in the pub saturday watching the football. Not bad hey.
lots of luck to you all xx
I have absolutely no signs or symptoms. Not a single twinge or cramp no sore boobs - nothing. I have convinced myself as always that it won't work and have reached the " oh well " stage. I feel it is just a process and a motion I need to go through , like stepping stones, you can't reach the last 1 without tredding on the ones inbetween. We will see. I have 5 days until test day. I am totally relaxed though, the only thing I have changed is I have not drank alcohol - even though I spent all day in the pub saturday watching the football. Not bad hey.
lots of luck to you all xx
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Hey guys
I just wanted to let you all know that I took 3 more HPT's and they are all positive and they are progressively getting darker lines on them! I am so excited about it and I thought that I would share my happy news with all of you...not to downplay those of you who got BFN's as I am truly deeply sorry for you as I know how I would feel. Just an update
Tanya
I just wanted to let you all know that I took 3 more HPT's and they are all positive and they are progressively getting darker lines on them! I am so excited about it and I thought that I would share my happy news with all of you...not to downplay those of you who got BFN's as I am truly deeply sorry for you as I know how I would feel. Just an update
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IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!
IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!
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Leanne- Hang in there its still early for you.
Everybody's body is different. Lots of luck to you!
Tanya- That is great news! It sounds wonderful! I took another today and it was alittle bit darker to compare to yesterdays but, I will still wait until Wed. to find out my numbers because the last time I did this i had a BFP all for 3 days and then my levels dropped to nothing so that scares me. I will feel safe when i know the levels doubled!
Aunty- How are you doing? Lots of luck at the Dr.!
Lots of luck to everyone and I hope to see alot of BFP's!!
JESS XXX
Everybody's body is different. Lots of luck to you!
Tanya- That is great news! It sounds wonderful! I took another today and it was alittle bit darker to compare to yesterdays but, I will still wait until Wed. to find out my numbers because the last time I did this i had a BFP all for 3 days and then my levels dropped to nothing so that scares me. I will feel safe when i know the levels doubled!
Aunty- How are you doing? Lots of luck at the Dr.!
Lots of luck to everyone and I hope to see alot of BFP's!!
JESS XXX
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Jess that sounds fantastic....ooo so excited for you... ok promise i wont send dancing things till you get your blood done...but oooo
me im very nervous about tomorrow i posted a q? i had hoped someone who had the same would give me some info to go to the DR's with but no luck so it looks like its just me... always been a bit odd so not really surprised...LOL
thank you for being you your a smasher and i really am happy for you (bit sulkie) but very happy....
love as always hugs and kisses for your bump Debz...aka aunty pebbles
me im very nervous about tomorrow i posted a q? i had hoped someone who had the same would give me some info to go to the DR's with but no luck so it looks like its just me... always been a bit odd so not really surprised...LOL
thank you for being you your a smasher and i really am happy for you (bit sulkie) but very happy....love as always hugs and kisses for your bump Debz...aka aunty pebbles
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Tanya and Jess - go girls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good to read some happy news
Debs - hope the doctor appointment went well and they were able to offer you some positive feedback. Didn't see a ?? you posted?
I am just beig my usual self, plodding on, been to Sainsburys now home have a skive for a couple of hours Still feel absolutley nothing !! Focusing on our Summer ball Saturday night rather than test day Fri.
Hope this is a great week for all of us - the sun is shining so thats a good start
Debs - hope the doctor appointment went well and they were able to offer you some positive feedback. Didn't see a ?? you posted?
I am just beig my usual self, plodding on, been to Sainsburys now home have a skive for a couple of hours
Still feel absolutley nothing !! Focusing on our Summer ball Saturday night rather than test day Fri.Hope this is a great week for all of us - the sun is shining so thats a good start
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Jess
That is so great-I started testing from like day 4 just to see that the HCG was out and then I was addicted and bought a ton of them! I have been testing every day and when I saw that faint faint line I was like no that cant be maybe it is just the test and then every day it got darker..I know what you mean about the numbers doubling. I just went today to get a blood draw and then they will call by 3:30 to let me know and then I will feel even better when I get a second set done to see how they are progressing!!! Congratulations to you as well....
I am still having slight cramping still and I worry every time it happens but I am hoping it is just my baby(ies) growing!
Hey Leanne
Hang in there it is coming up and you will know shortly....We are rooting for you! Bring home some more good news girlie!!!
Tanya
That is so great-I started testing from like day 4 just to see that the HCG was out and then I was addicted and bought a ton of them! I have been testing every day and when I saw that faint faint line I was like no that cant be maybe it is just the test and then every day it got darker..I know what you mean about the numbers doubling. I just went today to get a blood draw and then they will call by 3:30 to let me know and then I will feel even better when I get a second set done to see how they are progressing!!! Congratulations to you as well....
I am still having slight cramping still and I worry every time it happens but I am hoping it is just my baby(ies) growing!
Hey Leanne
Hang in there it is coming up and you will know shortly....We are rooting for you! Bring home some more good news girlie!!!
Tanya
Tanya
IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!
IVF #1- 6/2006-DH had vasectomy
VERY SADLY ended in m/c of a beautiful baby girl at 12 weeks on Aug. 28, 2006.
FET 1/2007 -ive
#2 IVF/ICSI-4/2007 BFP!!! 1st beta 708!!!!
Sophie and Riley Arrived Dec. 10th 2008!!!