7 weeks,no heart beat

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tony
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7 weeks,no heart beat

Post by tony »

hi.....well to day did not turned out to be how we expected ...
we whent for our u/s and the doctor did not found an heart beat yet...
he told us that the sac grew from the last time ,he also found the yolk
but that it....ho boy.....when he told me that i started to have a cold swet
i felt like my blood left my body.....so right now we're so worried....
we had to take the day off from work....
this is a complete agony......but then i was reading some treads on the message board that there is pepole that had/have our same problem
and for some of them the scan (7weeks) is just to early....
anyway next monday we have to go back to the clinic for an other scan...

hmmm and we thought that the 2ww is a long time :? :shock: :?

but first we need to wait for today(hcg) blood results hopping that the level did not dropped
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by Claire »

Hi Tony,

Sorry to read your post. A similar thing happened to me last year although when I was scanned, our embryo hadn't developed any further than five and a half weeks.
So if yours has grown, that should be a good sign I think. Sometimes a heartbeat isn't always detected at 7 wks. My hospital doesn't do it til nearly 8 wks.
Good luck though, hope everything works out for you.
Claire x
First IVF cycle Feb 05, 7 frosties waiting.
1st FET Aug 05 -ive
2nd FET Oct 05 +ive sadly ended in m/c at 7wks
3rd FET May 06 -ive
4th FET Nov 06 +ive praying hard every day x
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Post by tony »

thank you Clarie...well the only thing that we can do is wait....
and i do hope that all is going to be ok for you to.....
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by DolceVita »

Hey Tony

Im so sorry you guys were disappointed today... I AM SURE IT WILL BE OK NEXT WEEK..The embryo could have implanted later. Please dont give up hope stay positive and just pray... Prayer is the only thing that keeps me from becoming a night mare...

My ultrasound was good, thank God i will be going back in two weeks, but my doctor got on my nerves he was so quick, he just said good you are pregnant and he said there is a heartbeat and before i could say anything he was out of the room...considering i paid 350 dollars for a 5 min visit i was ticked off because i had a bunch of questions. i have no idea how the heart beat is...nothing he just said good and left ... im :evil: at him but happy with the outcome.

Oh Tony i really wish you guys had good news today, i hope her beta numbers are really good at least that will give you a peace of mind.
With Gods Blessings BFP!

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Post by ogr1 »

you hang in there.. everyone is different. and sometimes it is hard to hear there little heartbeats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know it is pointless to say but i am going to say it any ways
try not to worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it is horrid thou that they are going to make you wait another month. cant they do anoter scan sooner?
when i was going to spokane wa they had me in there every wk for the first 8 wks. so we got to see our little ones alot.. :D
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Post by hellokitty »

I've been keeping up with your posts since you first came on board. I always thought that all of us should be lucky to have a husband like you. I am so sorry to hear your news and I know that it is nerve wrecking. I had a similar experience a year and half a go. Please stay prayerful. I will keep you and DW in my prayers.
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02/05 m/c @ 8wks
6/06 - FIRST ATTEMPT AT IVF
7/06 - BFP!!
7/06 - M/C @ 4 wks
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Post by tony »

hi DolceVita...so happy to hear from you,actually today i was thinking about you...good for you....doctors...well this is old news,they have the power to make us feel miserable ....but don't worry step 2 is done....welldone


hellokitty.....hi thank you...let me ask you what happen to you a year and
half ago...it turned out to be ok??

ogr1 ...hi there...no is not an other month is 1 week from today,,,but yea it shure feel's like a month
thank you for yours positive thoughts.....we are tryng not to worry, we are still waiting for that phone call for today blood results...
.thank you all so mutch...............
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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hi is me again.....
finally the avf nurse called back and she sayed that the level of the hcg is at 15724 and raising....so i think that so far we have a chanse.....
hooooo this is killing meeeeeee !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :?
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by Zed2003 »

Aways a chance Tony - keep the faith...

I posted on your other thread too. Things will be fine and we're all sending you positive vibes for next Monday. You look after that wife and babe of yours - they're lucky yo have you.
Zoe
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2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
3rd IVF Summer 2003 - pos with beautiful baby boy
April 2006 - miracles happen - positive naturally day after receiving IVF letter to start again! Another beautiful boy
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Post by DolceVita »

Tony thats good news!!! Thank God!

Even when they give us tiny hope we get so much relief... I hope monday will come around really quick!

But thank God her beta numbers look good. stay positive!
With Gods Blessings BFP!

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Post by tony »

man...i'm tryng to be positive and have some relef.....but is soooooo
hard..................................
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by CarolynB »

Hi Tony

Read the thread name and had to come and see what had happened.

Was so sad to read the top of the post but it is great news that levels are rising.

I will say a prayer for you & your wife and the little one. I will cross everything until Monday for you all.

Love Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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i will also pray for all of us here...........monday shure looks so far away
the ol' 2ww is nothing compare to this one here.....
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by souris »

Hi Tony!

I am sure that if the levels are rising, everything is fine. Sometimes the babies hide and it is hard to find the heartbeat! Did they call someone else to double check? someone not properly train could miss the HB or have difficulties finding it!

Wish you the best
xxx
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Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
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Post by tony »

hi souris....our md was the one that did the u/s and he tryed few different ways to find the h/b ...but nothing.....but at list the sac grew alot since 2 weeks ago..................
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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