Message for Fi

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Mon Sep 01, 2003 3:38 pm

Hi Fi How you doing? How is the 2WW are you relaxing and putting your feet up. Hope it's not too much for you. fingers crossed thinking of you Aly

fi · Post by fi » Mon Sep 01, 2003 4:35 pm

thanks soo much for thinking of me you are a love! yep not too bad, working so thats keeping me going. generally feeling quite pessimistic since thats my safety mechanism. how are you doing? take care, luv fi

Helen G · Post by **Helen G** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 9:27 am

I'll set Tracey S on you with the birch twigs if you do too much of the pessimism stuff!! PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA!! Hope you're OK. thinking of you. LOL Helen xx

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 2:38 pm

Hi Fi Read you message about your test date, think positive and do the test, putting it off we only increase your stress and that's not good. I have an excellent feeling about your test i'm sure it will be the positive you want. I'm not doing too bad at the moment I've been reading everything I can find on OHSS and polycystic ovaries I guess being informed is my way of dealing with things. I'm hopeful of starting again before Christmas but not too worried if we don't as it takes the pressure off. Helen hope your doing OK any plans yet? Aly x

fi · Post by fi » Tue Sep 02, 2003 4:55 pm

tell tracey to get out the twigs then ASAP!!!!!!! luv fi

Helen S · Post by **Helen S** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 7:44 am

Hi Fi Now come on - all this negativity won't do you any good at all! You have to think baby (ies), imaging that they are nicely implanting and that you are already pg. You have to Fi, I know what you mean about your safety mechanism and I have always thought -ive on all my previous cycles except the last one. I know that ended in a -ive, but I felt able to deal with it more easily - somehow? I feel ok about it all now and am ready to go for the next one. So, I am sure that +ive thinking does help along the way. Now, I must speak to Tracey S about the birch twigs - she did put them away in her cupboard, but I know her mobile number and I can get her to get them out at any time... So, come on girl, you can do it. PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA, PMA.. I have to say as well that all your messages have been really sweet. Thanks for thinking of me. I have been thinking about you too and I know how hard it will be to get that result on Monday. Do you do a pg test at home or is it a blood test at the hospital? Only you know, when you will be up for it. I don't know if I could put if off until friday - I would probably burst from anticipation. Remember it could well be +ive and why put yourself through the agony for 4 more days of not knowing? Anyway, that's up to you honey. So, no more -ive thoughts, you get back on the PMA bandwagon or else! Now, where it TS's number..... Love Helen. xxxx

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 3:55 pm

FI honestly I have now spoken to Helen S on the phone and am just debating my birch twigs out - I am giving you one last chance before I get them out. I have used them on Nikola and Jo and Melanie in their time and threatened Helen with them on a couple of occasions. It worked for Jo - it can work for you! I know what you mean about safety and defense mechanisms - have loads of them. After my 3rd negative (admittedly I had the ectopic on the first so sort of knew they could do something with my embies!) I was like "it's never going to work - what is so different this time and I am destined to be childless and I think good things and it does the opposite so if I think bad things I might get lucky" - you know the sort of thing. I gave myself a kick up the backside and really chilled most of the time (small blip when got AF pains) thought positive all the time - found time to laugh and imagine myself pg - I was back at work day 5 post tranfer. Fi try and do the same - it does make a difference - there is no reason to believe this won't work this time - 4 goes is 25% when you roll the dice. Think positive and GOOD LUCK Thinking of you - remember the twigs are lurking. Love Tracey xxx

fi · Post by fi » Wed Sep 03, 2003 6:45 pm

hi girlies, thankyou thankyou!!! especially helen, since i dont know if i could be offering such good advice after what you have been through. i am really pleased that you are thinking of the future, any chance of you getting a holiday? think i might be needing a telephone chat with you next week.... tracey, please please get the twigs out for me, i need any help!! i am thinking positive thanks to you girlies, and thinking implantation and growing chantras!!!!!!!!!! lots of love fi PS can i ask....i have been having right sided pain, like niggly cramps difficult to describe, i am thinking hoping they are positive

Helen S · Post by **Helen S** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 7:17 am

Hi Fi That's it - you go girl, get into the +ive spirit! I am feeling really +ive about everything - don't know how, after my previous -ive cycles, I have been a complete mess! Maybe it's having you guys around that helps? We are going on holiday actually - in 2 weeks to Northumberland in a nice cosy cottage - me, DH and puppy dog - Bliss! So we don't even care if it rains, we are going to chill out and enjoy ourselves. Just waiting to hear about when I can have the NK cell blood test - and where (!) and then we are probably going to change clinics to Care in Sheffield. I have the info pack and we're hoping to start a new fresh cycle in November. Now niggly pains - that could be good and I am sure is good - so you just keep on thinking +ive and before you know it, there'll you'll be a pg lady! If you want to talk next week, no problem, we'll have to exhange numbers over a private email or something. You just let me know. Take care honey Love and hugs Helen. xxx

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 8:36 am

Fi have dusted off the twigs especially - they are on FI alert!! Must say well done on the pma in the last message. Niggly pains - did get those and in my right side - just hard to say as we all get different pains and some get away with none.I did keep getting these odd pains in my side and look what happened. Keep up the chantra - we are all willing you on. Take special care Love Tracey xxx

fi · Post by fi » Thu Sep 04, 2003 3:30 pm

cheers tracey, did look briefly on the other side to see what you been up to!!! helen - have a fantastic holiday with dh and bliss....how old is bliss now? yep keeping up the chantra, doing OK luv fi XXXX

Helen S · Post by **Helen S** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 4:18 pm

Fi Good girl. I am really impressed you are back on the straight and narrow!

Now, I want to hear those mantras all the way from - is it Norfolk / Norwich without looking at your profile or have I got that completely wrong? We will have a fabby holiday, Bliss is 7 months old now - bless. She hasn't been a well puppy this week. We think it is soemthing she ate! So she's been on pasta and rice! Now don't forget I will be here for you before I go on my hols, so let me know if you want to chat. Keep up the good +ive vibes! This is the one! Love and hugs Helen. xxxxxxx

Helen G · Post by **Helen G** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 9:24 am

Fi Glad to hear the girls have given you a good talking to and the threat of birch twigs is making you think positive!! You still getting niggly pains?? Only a few more days to go and you'll have your answer! Thinking of you. Helen xx

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 3:34 pm

Hi Fi Its just a quicky to wish you luck on your PGTest , I will light my lucky candel for you over the weekend , I am having my councilling etc and Im sure Tracey s is having her next scan that day to so we will all be busy on Monday! Thinking of you Trace x

fi · Post by fi » Fri Sep 05, 2003 5:17 pm

thanks again girlies, feels like the longest two weeks ever. yep still niggly pains and have been feeling very sick in the early evenings which i think is bizarre, very very tired....??? i think i may actually have a bit of a bug!!! well going to keep busy over the weekend, and do lots of chanting!!! only kidding i am sane really!! wishing to be joining those on the other side, but if its to be it will be????!!! love as always, fi XXX

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