7 weeks,no heart beat

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Post by JESS FITZ2 »

Tony,
Hang in there! If the sac is growing and your beta is rising ITS GOOD!!!!!
It prob. is just too early to hear the heart beat!
Relax so your dw can stay relaxed and Monday Im sure you will hear it!
Because the sac is growing that really is a good sign that everything is going to be good!

Take care! JESS XXX
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tony
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Post by tony »

jess....i wish that i can just relax...but after today wow i can't eaven descrive how im feel ,i'm really down emotionally and phisically
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by hellokitty »

Tony,

We lost our little one at eight weeks. We had gone a week before and the dr thougt it kinda small. So, she took the measurements and told us to come back a week later. There was no growth at all. I saw the heartbeat stop on the u/s.


However, the similarity with your situation ends...thank God. Your baby is growing and your hcg number is super high. That is AWESOME. I know it is hard to do, but relax and continue to be there for each other. I was hesitant to post my experience but please take heart that your baby continues to grow and you and DW will remain in my prayers.

Keisha
ME 35/DH-32
DX -PCOS since 2003
12/04 BFP with metformin
02/05 m/c @ 8wks
6/06 - FIRST ATTEMPT AT IVF
7/06 - BFP!!
7/06 - M/C @ 4 wks
IVF Cancelled twice
11/07 - Trying again w/ new protocol
12/07 - BFP!!!
It's a boy (Xavier) on 07/30/08
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Post by Macca8 »

Tony,

So sorry you are having to deal with more stress. As if IVF isn't hard enough, you are now dealing with this.

I really really hope that the HB appears next week. I am so sure that it was just a little too early. The fact that the levels are growing I would think indicates this.

My prayers are with you and your wife for a positive outcome.

Lisa XXX
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Post by tony »

hellokitty...wow your is a very bad experience....sorry,but this is why we're here to support each other,but thank you for your kind words,you know how hard is it for us ...,so how are you now??are you continuing
with ivf ??
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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macca ..hi...yes all indicate that is good ,but our doctor is concern and this is killing me,he told us that on 7 weeks we should have a h/b....and not being there ......is eat me alive...
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
tony
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hello...the closest we get to monday the more nervous and anxius im getting.....is ben a week now with no sleep unable to think and unable to perform 100% at work...boy this is bad......well i like to thank all of you for all your love and support..................................Tony :roll:
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Tony hi i wanted to say you and your DW have been in my thoughts and prayers i hope god hears this ... i cant even imagine how you must feel but i wanted you to know i am still praying hard for you all....

hugs and love Debz aka aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
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Post by tony »

AuntyPebbles

hi...i know that i can count on you....thank you for your thoughts
so how you duing??are you're ready for the 3rd cycle??
is your doctor duing something different for this time around?? :wink:
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Hi Tony,
its so sweet of you to think of me, yeah im very excited now to start again didnt think id be saying that im so lucky i have Jackie aka Jackoa with me on this next cycle plus some other great ladys so i wont be alone, actually my dr is going to do the exact same protocol he said we responded very well to it and there was no reason it didnt work we did get 4 beautiful embies from it he is going to give me baby asprin im a bit worried about this as i have read it can cause miscarriage so i will need him to talk me into that... :D i also asked about eustorgen but he said mine was fine if i wanted some more hed give me some as it cant do any harm but he said that was more for my thinking than any help at all...lol (bless him) crossing fingers now that we have a few more good embies so we can freeze some as this is the last IVF we can afford to do....tak about pressure....

thinking of you love and hugs Debz
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
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Post by LISA@BELLASALES »

Tony,
Thinking of you and DW sweetie. I hope all is well on Monday....

In Bocca al Lupo!
LISAMARIE
Me 36 DH 31
April 2007 - BFP!!!!!

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Post by tony »

AuntyPebbles....well i see that you've got a busy schedule ....well good luck.....just keep us posted....


LISABELLA....i see that with in 2 months you also goin to start again.....
good for you,are you going to stay with the same clinic??
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Tony,
Yes I am staying there as I really love my Doctor, The clinic overall is ok but she is wonderful.
I am praying for your good news ....
Goodnight...
BELLA
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Post by tony »

well tomorrow is the BIG day for us.....i whant to thank all of you
for your luve and support....this time i will be a little more prepaired so we shell see......but we hope and pray for good news........ :wink:
me 35 dw 30
6 iui
2 ivf and 1 fet all negative
4th ivf... no heart beat d&e at the 8th week
5th ivf bfp....and 3 frozen ebryos!!!
2 boys !!!!!Anthony and Alessio
............CIAOBYE..........God Bless all of us
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Post by Zed2003 »

Tony & DW

Hope all goes well for you and you get the news you want. Thinking of you both...

Zoe
1st IVF - Easter 2002 - neg
2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
3rd IVF Summer 2003 - pos with beautiful baby boy
April 2006 - miracles happen - positive naturally day after receiving IVF letter to start again! Another beautiful boy
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