all over?

fi · Post by fi » Sat Sep 06, 2003 8:57 am

girls, hate to say it but think all over for us this time. i am cramping and af symptoms like no other, no bleeding yet think matter of time. feeling totally crap and hormonal. will test mon just to put my mind at ease but fear that this is not happening this time. trying not to dwell on pains, hugs, fi XXX

suzanne · Post by **suzanne** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 9:14 am

Fi, definitely try not to dwell on them, because I and lots of others have said how we thought AF was due because of the cramping pains, only to find that we were pregnant. I've got everything crossed for you for a positive result. Take care, Suzanne.x

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 9:22 am

Poor you.... HAve not got to this stage yet but can understand how frustrating it must be. Read over some of the old threads of ladies who got ++ve-a lot of them said the same and look at them now!! Hard I know but try & stay positive, its not over yet........ Keeping everything crossed for you on monday Sarah xxxx

Zed2003 · Post by **Zed2003** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 9:24 am

Oh Fi, Don't give up yet, you may be feeling hormonal because you are

(and maybe in a good way). I felt dreadful before my test with a stomach that could have been mistaken for being 6 months.. I've had some form of bleeding every day since week 5 and am now almost 12 weeks, so don't give up hope yet. So many people on this site seem to feel like you are so as Suzanne says - don't dwell too much - you'll only drive yourself crazy. I know its hard, but I just wanted to say I'm thinking about you. Take it easy this weekend Zoe x

Helen G · Post by **Helen G** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 9:52 am

Fi PMA, PMA, PMA - it ain't over yet honey!! Cramping and AF pains do not necessarily mean that AF is on it's way. Our bodies can be very cruel to us at times! You spend the weekend chilling out and thinking positive. Monday will come round soon enough and I'll be praying that you get a positive. Take care, Helen xx PS - thanks for your note on the other side. I think you've got enough to worry about without me adding my sorrows.

Catherine · Post by **Catherine** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 3:46 pm

Don't you dare think it's over yet! Even if you do get blood, think of all of the others who have shared the same story, thinking they were through, only to find out they were pregnant! Ask women close to you about their own (natural prego) stories, and I bet you'll find women who bled as well. My sister bled her first month with her dauther and my girlfriend (due to deliver next week) bled through much of her pregnancy - practically every month! I'll be thinking about you and sending you lots of PMA. Hang-in there!

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 4:11 pm

NO NO NO NO NO DONT THINK NEGATIVE its not allowd this weekend PMA PMA PMA PMA I have everything crossed for you Candels are lit too! {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Love Trace x

fi · Post by fi » Sat Sep 06, 2003 4:23 pm

cheers guys, been to coast and played with dog who cheered us no end! just a note - but i have the dreaded hpt as well as the one clinic gave us - should i do one tomorrow????? i sooo dont want to test on mon when have to work all day, prob is how reliable are they?i have predictor test am i a hormonally imbalanced crazed woman or what!!!!!!!!!!! lots of love fi XXX

caz1 · Post by **caz1** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 4:43 pm

HI Fi try to stay positive so many people have had af type pains and still been pg. What day are you on - I think some hpt tests you can do from about day 12 - if I remember correctly- that is of course if you really do want to do a test this weekend. I kind of know I would tho! Remember tho IF it is -ve it maybe that you have tested too soon. Sure you know all this - but thought I'd just chip in to send best wishes cazxx

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 5:20 pm

Hi Fi Just wanted you to know am thinking of you. These last few days before "D" day are a living hell. The treatmeant I can cope with but I know how hard it is for you waiting and wondering and wanting it over yet at the same time balancing all these emotions. I don't know what you should do re the test...tricky is n't it? I am always inclined to leave it until the day itself but to be honest am always bleeding heavily by then anyway. What about Monday after work? or don't you want to wait that long? Whatever you decide am keeping my fingers crossed for you and as everyone else says all these aches and pains mean nothing. By the way yes you are a hormonally imbalanced and crazy woman, but we are all in that boat! Love Gracexx

Lottie · Post by **Lottie** » Sat Sep 06, 2003 5:45 pm

Fi, Dont give up hope, I had AF pains, on day 11 thought for sure I was going to come on, but didnt got to day 14 and did a predictor test, and it showed the feintest of pink spots, so still didnt dare hope, but on day 16 when I went for blood test, it was possitive. And since then I've been having Af type pains on and off, and I'm 7 and half weeks. Keep Happy Charlotte x

fi · Post by fi » Sat Sep 06, 2003 5:58 pm

thanks girlies, yep guys this has to be the worst time the last few days.....i am hopeful looking and hearing at some of your stories...i have looked on ff website at hpt and levels detected, teh test i am to do monday tests 25iu hcg, and predictors 50 so think i shall wait. my doggies birthday tomorrow so going to be doing something special to take our minds off! just to say though, that without you girls i think i would have totally lost the plot by now and if this ever works our babe may have the longest name in honour of all of you girls!!! praying that our embies have been growing, hugs, fi XXXX

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