Well we are sorry to say it was a BFN for us...............
We are very upset this time, we really were hoping this would be our time.
Dr says there is no reason he can tell us why it didn't work. It could be genetics with the embryos.
We have one chance left as we are running out of embryos. We are going to take a couple of months break and hopefully do a FET in November.
Thank you all for your best wishes, you are an amazing bunch of people, you have helped me no end to get through all this, and i know you will be here to suport me in the future.
Good luck to you all, with testing, transfers, retrivals and anything else you are going through at the moment.
Hugs Rachel OXO
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Me-35 DH- 37
2 Ectopics, 3 Miscarriages, 1 New born Death 94
IVF - Nov 05 BFN, FET - May 06 BFN
FET - July 06 BFN, FET - Nov 06 BFN
Dory, so sorry to see your news. This sucks.
Nothing I can say can take away your pain. I wish I could. Just know that I am thinking and praying for you.
You are such a great support to everyone here and now it's our turn to support you. We are here for you.
Hugs to you and dh
Take care
Anna x
Me 44, DP 42 ttc 3yrs
7 cancelled IVF cycles during 2005/6
ED tmt at IM June 06 BFN
ED tmt at IM July 06 BFP
Matthew born 23/3/07
Oh Rachel, I am so sorry that this wasn't it!! I will continue to keep you and DH in my thoughts and prayers. Just take time for you, to get your thoughts together. I took 2 days off from work and just took time for me and it really helped!!
Good luck!!
Jeck
1st IVF 3/06 lost @ 8w3d
FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
Became a Mommy through Adoption!!!!
Sorry to hear your sad news. I really thought we would be congratulating you this time.
Don't give up. You will do it.
Lisa XXX
Me 37, DH 51
Twin Boys - Sean Alexander & Samuel Robert
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Oh Rachel, I am so sorry to hear about your BFN. Treat yourself like a queen the next few days as you deserve it. You are one strong lady and my thoughts are with you.
Jennifer
Me 29/DH 32
DS 9/DS 12/DS 15
1st IVF Jul/Aug 2006 BFP
i am so sorry to hear your news, i really hoped it was going to be good news for you this time.
Look after yourself and we will all be thinking of you - at least you still have some embies for another try, relax and try not to get too down - ...easier said than done!
Again, i really am sorry and still hope to see you on the message boards.
Lots of love
Vickie x x x x
Me-25,DH25
3x IVF - BFN
IVF NO 4 - Finally BFP!! Elliot Michael born 20.08.08, love him to bits x x x
Thank you so much for all your support and kind words.
We are starting to feel a bit better, to be honest we are getting use to the bad news and beginning to think it's not mean't to be.
We have 4 frosties left so we are going to use them and then most likely say enough is enough...... There is only so much heartache we can take!!!!!
We have already decided we are going to adopt whichever way it turns out, but we have to wait till we get back to England to do that, as we don't have enough time left living over here to do all the proceedings.
We also intend on fostering.
We have got 1 year left over here after we have done our last FET, so we are going to enjoy it and travel when we want, and do whatever we want when we want to without IVF dictating when we can do things. We have been in IVF world since we got here, so we need some fun!!!!!
Thank you all again for your words of encouragement, it has mean't so much to us both.
Good luck to you all
Hugs
Rachel OXO
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Me-35 DH- 37
2 Ectopics, 3 Miscarriages, 1 New born Death 94
IVF - Nov 05 BFN, FET - May 06 BFN
FET - July 06 BFN, FET - Nov 06 BFN