message for marteen

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 8:15 am

hi marteen hope you are ok, have you tested on your proper day? not sure if it was supposed to be today or if it was yestreday. I know how disapointed you were when you teted early. thinking of you kathryn x

MARTEEN · Post by **MARTEEN** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 8:38 am

Hi Kathryn How are you today?? has your great news sunk in yet?? I am really really pleased for you and I mean that from the bottom of my heart. Well my test date is tomorrow the same as Jo, but I am not going to do another test, as deep down I know what the outcome will be, I am not going to put myself through it again. I have got to give the hospital a wee sample and they will let me know Friday, so I know they will be ringing me with the result that I will know, like my last cycle!! Thank you so much Kathryn for thinking of me it is so kind of you. But I am now really rooting for Jo, I know she will have good news too! I think she will be really good and test tomorrow as Paul has hidden the pregnancy test. I am so please for yourself and Fi and I have asked Jo to email me with her goods news as soon as she can. Take Care Everyone, lots and lots of love Marteen xxxxx [Edited by MARTEEN on 10-Sep-03 01:39]

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 11:38 am

hi marteen. dont give up yet. every day counts. i know it's so hard to stay so positive in the last few days especially if you have been here before, and the outcome was'nt so good. but you just don't know -- 11th hour and all that.. keep thinking baby thoughts just for today... will be thinking of you and jo and everyone elce who is getting nearer to the dreaded time. love jackieT

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 3:00 pm

hi marteen I can not remember who it was but she tested negative the day before but when she had test on day 15 she was pg. so please do not lose hope. if you go on the other side and ask she might answer you. this is why we are not ment to test early, i'm the same as you i can not wait. wishing you all best from july ann

Catherine · Post by **Catherine** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 4:31 pm

First of all thank you for all of those kind words, which I’m going to assume were for me since it looks like the other Kathryn is just starting FET (By the way Kathryn – I’m pulling for you. Hopefully soon there will be two of us pregos with the same name!) As for other issues, don’t you dare get down yet!! It’s so hard not to test early, but you know an early negative doesn’t mean anything. In fact, my girlfriend (natural pregnancy) didn’t test positive until she was four days past due! I think it’s smart to try to hold out for the hospital test, but make sure you post your good news AS SOON AS they call. Anyway, I haven’t had much time to be on the site the last two days, but you and Jo have been in my thoughts and I’ve been sending lots of PMA your way. August has been a lucky month and I’m sure you’ll be joining Fi and I soon!

Kat · Post by **Kat** » Wed Sep 10, 2003 5:52 pm

Marteen it's not over yet -I am sure when you get your results from the hospital it will be a positive, it's so true there are lots of stories of people who tested early and got a -ve and then tested again and it was +ve And Catherine we want 3 with the same name pg v v soon because that's me aswell! Lots of love Kat xx

fi · Post by fi » Thu Sep 11, 2003 7:07 am

marteen and jo thinking of you.................. hugs PMA luv fi XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

MARTEEN · Post by **MARTEEN** » Thu Sep 11, 2003 7:28 am

Hi Katherine I am so sorry about the confusion!!! I didn't realise. But despite what I said I did do another hpt this morning just in case and again it was a negative, so I am absolutely gutted, I really thought this time was going to be it. I felt so positive all the way through and really thought it was going to be our time. How wrong could I be ????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Wishing you lots of good luck Katherine I really hope it works out for you and your dream comes true. Thank you so much again for thinking of me. Lots of love and luck Keep in touch Marteenx [Edited by MARTEEN on 11-Sep-03 00:34]

SBROWN · Post by **SBROWN** » Thu Sep 11, 2003 12:27 pm

Hi Marteen, really sorry you got a neg.... I really thought it was your turn.. Try & stay positive. It will happen for you, Im sure Take care Sarah xx

fi · Post by fi » Thu Sep 11, 2003 6:52 pm

marteen, i am so so sorry, after three cycles i know how you must be feeling gutted not being the word, just hoping that as time goes on you can pull yourself together and get on the rollercoaster again, thinking of you, luv fi {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

gem · Post by **gem** » Thu Sep 11, 2003 7:59 pm

Hi Marteen So sorry about your result just wanted to say I'm thinking of you Love Gemx

Allison · Post by **Allison** » Thu Sep 11, 2003 9:35 pm

Marteen, I am thinking of you and have sent you a mail. I wish it had been better news but it will happen for you as well. You were fantastic to support me through my bad news 2 wks ago and I will do everything I can to support you now. I know it feels like the end of the line but it isnt. Call me if you want to talk. Lots of hugs, Alli x

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Fri Sep 12, 2003 8:10 am

oh marteen Im so sorry. take your time to grieve for your little loss marteen. its such an emotional tough time, but because we have to go through such hard and horrible times, it will make us the best mummys and daddys, and one day all our baby dreams WILL come true. Take care now and look after each other We are all here if you need someone to talk to, lots of love kathryn x dont worry about the confusion!

Catherine · Post by **Catherine** » Fri Sep 12, 2003 8:27 pm

I'm so sorry to hear about the negative, I was sure it was your time. Take some time for yourself and pamper yourself like a queen, so your spirits are strong for the next try. Though the whole process is such a roller coaster with so many ups and downs, try to remember that in the end it's a numbers game and if you keep playing your hand, you'll find success. Lotsa of hugs your way, Catherine

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