AMY & KD, Sweeties, i am so very very sorry to hear your sad sad news.
It is so heartbreaking to have this wonderful gift given to you then taken away in a heartbeat..... sorry perhaps not the right word, but it basically is....
I haven't had a +tive with the IVF, but i have had 3 misscarriages, 2 ectopics and 1 baby taken from me an hour after he was born, so i know all too well how you are feeling at the moment.
I can tell you it will get better, it may take time, but it will....
You will never get over your lose, but you will learn to live with it, and please believe me when i say, it will make you a stronger person...
Look at me my hubby says i'm as hard as granet and a right stubborn *****, that doesn't give up, and i'm telling you, it's all because of the knock backs and heartaches.
I pray that you get your dream come true, and in the not too distant future you are holding your own precious baby in your arms....
Kd - You were on about try again straight away, the choice is yours and DH, but my Dr told me after a fresh cycle of IVF to leave it 3 months before trying again, so your body can get back to normal and you can get fit again, your bady has been through a lot of stress and need time to recouporate (spell).
Pat - hun, how are you holding up, i hope and pray it's all turning ot for the best...
Jovigal - Hold in there girl, the 2ww will be over before you know it and your be announcing your BFP!!!!!
Nneal - The same goes for you take it easy let DH do all the work and relax, we want a strong bF from you too.....
Sam - I hope you are taking it easy too, and enjoying every moment of your wonderful gift....
Not much to report on my end, having a quiet couple of weeks, trying to get back in shape and also arranging a nice relaxing holiday in Mexico for me and hubby to relax and find each other again - I think this break is a great idea and well needed.
If you don't already know, we are living in Ohio for 3 yrs as part of DH job. I don't have to work so i'm a lady of leisure
which has been lucky with all this treatment.....That's why i'm on here a lot i've got a lot of free time.....
We have a house which were letting out, back in St Neot's Cambridgeshire, when when we go back we hope to sell that and move back near our home towns in Glos & Wilts.
Hope everyone else is holding out ok..
Take Care
Rachel OXO
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Me-35 DH- 37
2 Ectopics, 3 Miscarriages, 1 New born Death 94
IVF - Nov 05 BFN, FET - May 06 BFN
FET - July 06 BFN, FET - Nov 06 BFN
