Not Looking Good!

DonnaFi · Post by **DonnaFi** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 4:46 pm

I am due to test on Friday and it doesn't look as if I am even going to get to that stage. This morning, completely out of the blue, I started bleeding. Up until now there had been no sign of it and I was really hopeful! The really odd thing is that on my last attempt I started bleeding exactly 7 days after ET and guess how long has gone this time round? You got it 7 days. DH and I spoke to the Clinic this morning who said that I had to come home from work immediately and use another pessery, and although that did stop the bleeding temporarily, it is back again now. I know that you can get bleeding and still have a successful result, but this is like a carbon copy of the last time and I really think that is it. I am really down and can't stop crying and really am beginning to wonder if it will ever happen. Sorry to sound dishartened. Love Donna

Nikola · Post by **Nikola** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 5:15 pm

Oh Donna, poor you Try not to give up all hope. You KNOW that you can bleed and still be pg. Please try not to get upset. It will happen, for all us, sad thing is for some of us it takes a lot longer and more effort than others. Wait until Friday before you completely right this one off - there is still another four days of hope left. Thinking of you and here if you need someone to talk to. love nikola.xx

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 6:22 pm

hi donna try and stay positive i know it is so hard. lots of people have had bleeding and still get a positive. every tmt is so different. make sure you get lot's of rest. will be thinking of you july ann

fi · Post by fi » Mon Sep 15, 2003 6:49 pm

donna, hang in there babe, we will be thinking of you and try and keep that PMA going, luv fi

Zed2003 · Post by **Zed2003** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 7:00 pm

Oh Donna, I'm so sorry you are going through this. But the others are right - don't give up hope yet. It's hard not to compare with last time, but every time is different, so take it easy and know we're all thinking of you. Zoe x

DonnaFi · Post by **DonnaFi** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 8:06 pm

Thanks for all your support, but I really do think that this is it. The bleeding is getting worse rather than better, and I am in quite a bit of pain. I just know that this time it hasn't worked. I guess like we all do, I will just have to give myself time to get over the dissapointment etc. but I know something, I will be back!!! This is not going to get the better of me. Thanks again, and I will keep you updated if anything changes. Hugs to you all. Donna

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Mon Sep 15, 2003 11:47 pm

hi donna just a quick note to say i am sorry for what you are going through right now, it is so disheartening, but, the girls are right, you have a few more days yet. i hope you will have beter news soon. i am keeping my fingers crossed for you and DH. love jackieT

SBROWN · Post by **SBROWN** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 11:38 am

Donna, just to let you know I am thinking of you, try & stay positive, its not over yet Sarah xx

Di · Post by Di » Wed Sep 17, 2003 8:34 am

Hi Donna, So sorry to read your msgs - as everyone elae has said try to stay positive til Friday although I'm sure that feels like months away! If the news then is not good give yourself time to come to trems with it, see your consultant and get back on that rollercoaster! - you have the strength! And know that we are all here for you, Di

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