I am so sorry to heare that. A lot of people get BFN with home test and end up with BFP.. So do not loose hope. I know friday seems like forever.. I wish you all the best...
rhonda01-were in the same boat I just got done crying on my husbands shoulder and had to come on and read or chat something...
I did my 1st FET 9/7th and I have no symptoms what so ever and I have an appointment 9/21 Thursday that I kind of dread. I will do a HPT tomarrow but I feel like I know the outcome. I too want to know when it will be my time...will I be the Aunt forever or will I have kids of my own
35yrs old DH-41
ttc-4yrs.
6mnths clomid=BFN
iui=BFN
1st IVF/ICSI=BFN
2nd IVF stop days b4 ER-DH w/test. cancer-sperm banked
2nd official IVF/ICSI =BFN
FET/ICSI =BFN
3rd IVF ICSI/AH=3/2007 BFN
Rhonda i think that is to soon for test heard maybe couple days before test could show but keep calm stressing out won't help you. You will have baby it just takes time (Sad to say) i am impatient to good luck on Friday
Luvbabies
thought you would test early let us know how things go
Thanks for all the common sense ladies! I just hate feeling so sorry for myself. I often wonder if it's in my life plan to have a baby? I'm trying so hard not to be sad all the time because our IF issues are all MF and DH already feels so guilty about it and I don't want him to feel like I blame him because I don't. I'd rather be with him and have no kids than have kids with someone else. I know he knows that but I have to keep reminding him because he feeds off my moods.
But these boards have been so great because I realize that I'm not alone in all this and it's so much easier to talk here than to my friends who really don't have a clue what it's like to desperately want a baby.
anyways Hi to all and good luck to everyone!
Rhonda
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
I have had 2 blasts transfered on 9/10 and was supposed to test on 9/22. But this morning I started spotting, so I called my nurse and she said it could be bad news or it could be bleeding from implantation or from medications... Has anyone heard of implantation bleeding on day 15 post egg retreaval? I don't think it's possible so late in the game, most likly is the period at this point... And HPT was negative this morning I moved my test to 9/21 (one less day to wait) amd they still want me to continue projesteron shots until we know the Beta results.
This is my first IVF+ICSI ,I am testing on 23rd Sept.They had put back 2 embies it was natural cycle FET.I had a moderate OHSS after my egg retrieval (19 eggs ,11 fertilised and frozen)in May so ET cancelled.I didn't want to take any more drugs so I've waited 2 normal period and tested my LH surge and 3 days after FET happened.I don't feel any symptoms at all not even sore boobs.Only sometimes mild cramps like PMS.
I am quite positive.I had 11 embies but lost 4 of them in thawing process and 2 put back in ,still have 5 more frozen embryos left in the storage.
I wish you the best of luck and everyone who is testing this week.Be positive and get BFP....
Aster i was told when 2 embies they have to still test even after bleed incase one has made it they have to make sure . I went through same in April but sadly got BFN Let us know how you get on Good Luck
Kate the 2ww is awful isnt it hope it goes in quick for you it is good you still have 5 frosties i have just used mine good luck with test let us know how you get on i test on 22nd
Well I started spotting last night and it's continued today heavier so I'm pretty doubtful for a positive result tomorrow. I'm so depressed I can't even explain. My siser in law did IVF with me and she got a positive result yesterday and she already has 2 kids and I still have none. DH is so sad and I don't even know what to do or say to cheer him up. He's still thinking I might get a positive tomorrow but I don't think so. My last failed cycle I spotted as well and it was negative. Anyway I'll see what happens tomorrow . Best of luck to everyone
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
I creid myself to sleep last night because AF came in all it's glory and i knew a bfn was to follow.
my SIL did ivf same cycle as me and she got a bfp. every time i think about it i cry because i'm going to see her all the time and it's going to be a reminder that mine failed. she already has 2 kids natural and this was her first ivf attempt. go figure it'd work for her
anyways really upset right now
all the best to the rest of you
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
Unfortunately I had BFN this morning.I was spotting yesterday morning but turned into a period alst night so I knew that it was negative but I still did the test .I didn't want to see in writing " not pregnant" but I am not pregnant just like my digital HPT says.....
Thinking of you both this is really a bad time for us all but we will get through this and we will have a baby to hold someday.
I am thinking of having few months off and starting afresh in the new year ( I have feeling 2007 going to be good for us all) please take care and keep in touch cant wait till see your names with beside them
Love Shona
I'm definately taking a break until 2007. I talked pi over with dh last night and we are going to try IVF in January again. I'm just so sad right now thinking about it and I don't know how emotionally I'm going to handle this again but I want a baby so bad I know I will keep trying
Best of luck to everyone else!
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07