September Hope's and Dream's

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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jackoa21
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Post by jackoa21 »

Hello ladies
I am sorry I have been gone my mom has been here and we have just been sitting and spending time together. She left today to go back to Arizona and I cried the whole way back to work.. I am so sad without her here but I feel so blessed she got to see little nugget and the heartbeat..

I wanted to say I promise to do a proper follow up but I had to post about Aunty.. I truly think this is crap.. I am so mad and honestly I have half the mind to drive to NY and talk to someone.. I really think if they try to pull this crap we should all write letters to her clinic and tell them that we are on a IVF board and this is the last place they want a bad reputation..Aunty is the kindest caring person I know and It just so wrong and I will not stand for anyone to be cruel to someone that kind and loving..
Aunty please know we are all here for you and your journey to mommyhood is far from over.. You will get your babie(s) and I can just tell you that I know this from my heart....
Love and hugs and prayers
Jackie
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
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souris
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Post by souris »

Hello girlies,

Aunty, i cannot believe what is happening to you. I am so sorry and wish there was something we could do for you. This is unacceptable from your clinic and please do not let them get away with it. I would be mad and go crazy and threaten them. I raelly hope they will at least pay for your next cycle, but even then, it will not make up for the time lost and all the worries. I really feel for you. Sending you a big hug...

Nimble, congratulations!!! Cant wait to hear more details! How come you do not have a blood test??

Dh is gone now, but it was really nice to see him. My 2nd beta is on wednesday, I will have a 3rd on the wednesday after and then I do not know what is happening... hopefully a first scan!
I hope you dont mind me staying here for a while, i dont feel like going to another thread for now, i wanna stick with you guys...

Love to all
xxx
souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Hi ladies,

Sorry no personals at the moment - i have been reading and keeping up to date with everyone and everything .... Souris - dont u dare go anywhere young lady - we all stay together untill everyone has their BFP's :D Nimble - Yooooooo hooooooo - well done girlie, im so pleased for you - i have posted u in message in ur well wishes thread :D xxx

But basically i came here today to give my love and support to our 'Aunty Debz' i cant beleive you are going thru this hun, im so bloody annoyed at the clinic for 'forgetting' to give u that scan - ur paying them for a treatment that they DIDNT perform. They have no right to tell u that 'NO' they wont pay for ur cycle next time around - they have to - its their mistake, their cock up - they pay for it!!!!

I know them paying wont make up for the fact that you have to cancel your cycle - nothing can make up for that, just know that we are here for you to rant and rave for as long as u want.

Im so annoyed, this should never have happened. IVF is bad enough and stressfull enough without their mistakes put in also! I cant beleive this is happening to you - you of all people. You are such a wonderful loving and giving woman - u are there for us all when we are down and when we need you - this board wouldnt be the same without you and i cant put into words how sorry i feel about all this!! I literally feel the tears and the lump in my throat forming when i think about what u must be feeling, i wish i could put my arms around you and give u a great big well earned hug xxxx

We all want you to know hun, that we are here 110% for you and when u get your BFP - we will ALL be celebrating in style (i think we should all start saving for flights for the celebration lol)

You WILL get there hun, you will have your dream, and i wanna be here when u do to pop the champagne!

Keep ur chin up , and as you once said to me - you maybe bruised (and a little battered) but ur still standing - your a fighter and you will go on - let us know how ur appointment goes.

Love now and always,

Becky Xxxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by Macca8 »

Aunty,

Woops!!!! I meant I could KICK their ass for you not Kiss.

Lisa XXX
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Post by zirly »

Nimble...CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you! Enjoy a happy and healthy nine months. Please keep us posted.

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Post by sadmommy »

Nimble,

CONGRATS!!!! I hope all goes well.

My scan is tomorrow and I have no symptoms. I feel a little sick to my stomach, but nothing. Tummy is getting big. Right now I am either 6w1d or 5w5d (egg colelction) - not sure which one is accurate. Is this normal? My numbers were good, but where are my symptoms. No bleeding (still on aspirin, prog shot and suppositories, and estrace). Has anyone else experienced no symptoms?
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Post by angelamw »

Nimble - congratulations on your BFP. I am really pleased for you.

Aunty - I just want to echo what everyone else on here has said, what the clinic are putting your through is the pitts and as it is their fault they should cough up. I really hope you get some answers tommorow.

Sadmommy - Good luck with the scan. If you click on the pregnancy calender on the left of this board you can enter your egg collection day that will give you your EDD and tell you how far gone you are.

Souris - I feel the same as you and I think that most of the girls who have got BFP's are going to stay on this side for now and then all move over together.

Love to everyone else
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2nd IUI mar 06 -ve
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Post by islacraig »

Nimble:-.....woohoo Congratulation!!!. Brilliant news. look after yourself and enjoy this exciting time with your DH

Ange xx
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Post by jeck »

Hey Ladies!!

Just a quick note, I am home and doing fine, just still really drugged up!!

They collected 28 eggs!! Image

I am really excited to get my report on them tomorrow!!!

They said my blood pressure was high through out the procedure and that I should get it check out... Image So since I am off work for the next 2 weeks I will have that checked out!!!
Jeck
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FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
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Post by nimble »

Hey Jeck, 28 eggs wow thats fantastic, you must have been so uncomfortable!! So pleased for you. :D :D :D Hope yr resting and that blood pressure of yours goes down. Now its down to the swimmers, go swimmers go!!

Sadmommy - I've absolutely no symptons either and the clinic told me earlier to expect AF type aches and also aches around the ovaries. She also told me to expect a little spotting now and some around 8 wks.

Souris - no idea why my clinic doesn't do bloods - they said that the test they gave was so sensitive that they don't need bloods to find out....???? So have to go with it unfortunately. I have double checked again and again and I'm definitely pregnant.....wwwoooooohoooooooo

I have my scan booked for the 17th Oct so I guess its another 2ww until then to make sure all is still ok.

Big hugs to all
Love Nimble x
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
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Post by jackoa21 »

Hello laides
Souris like everyone said you are not going anywhere. You are stuck with us.. I am sorry DH is gone he must have been so excited with you.. You are with your mom right?

Sadmommy (happy mommy and happy baby)
I have nothing symptom wise except the cramping twinges and pulls.. I think a lot of ladies dont get any symptoms for quite some time...
We can not wait for your scan keep us posted...


Jeck
Well done honey.. You are a egg factory.. We will all be crossing fingers and toes for the GREAT eggie update tomorrow...

Love and hugs to all
Jackie
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
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Post by Moritsha »

Congratulations Nimble. I'm so happy for you.

Aunty - hope you're bearing up through this nightmare situation.

Hi to everyone else. Paula x
ME 36 DH 31
TTC 3 yrs
ICSI April 2006 _ive
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Post by angelamw »

Nimble I have just got in and checked the board and I see that we are both having scans on the same day so would you like to be scan buddies.
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2nd IUI mar 06 -ve
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Post by hopeful-in-LV »

Congrats Jeck, 28 eggs, WOW! Good luck with fertilization!

Congrats Nimble!!! I'm so happy for you!! Take care and enjoy!

Aunty, I wanted to wish you luck with your appt tomorrow. I will be out of town for a couple of days starting tomorrow. I'll check to see how you are when I get back. Take care.
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Hi Ladys...i first wanted to give a big heartfelt thank you to you all for all of your support i really have no idea what i would have done had i not been able to talk to you all....thank you.
i have my appointment and scan tomorrow so we shall see what if anything happend because of this...also my Dr told my DH that we should coast with Lupron for a week after the scan but the two Dr's on the day told us to start up Gonal that night now i cant wait to see what we should have been doing....what a mess... :roll:

Jeck woohoo way to go on those eggies...ooo im so excited to see how many embies we get will be praying hard and cheer the swimmers on for you...

Happymommy...ooo how exciting your first scan its very normal to feel nothing right now your little one is only a dot it will kick in before you know it...please let us know how you get on and what we saw of Happy Baby....send kisses from cyber auntys please

Mia have a good trip take care of you we will miss you ...hugs

Angela Nimble scan buddies thats so exciting....

Paula hun im getting there...will know more tomorrow

Macca lol big time Kick ass i am going to be stronger tomorrow and a flippin mental case if i hear that we should have been coasting and got told to take Gonal...oooo watch this space you will see me on the news

i really do appreciate you all so much mental hugs all my love Aunty
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