girls...sad news

fi · Post by fi » Mon Sep 22, 2003 2:16 pm

dear girls, i spent last week in hospital, went to epau after early bleeding and pains and they scanned and showed left side ectopic pregnancy. so rushed to theatre and they removed my left tube and the 6wk old embryo. at the moment, it is too raw to come on here, and too painful. we have some frozen follies so we should be back, in the meantime good luck to all and thanks for all your support. luv fi and jay

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 2:20 pm

Hi Fi, Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you both........I was really pleased when you got your +ve as had been following your threads, youve been on a real rollercoaster...... I understand you wanting time out from here. Take all the time you need & spend some quality time with your husband. I really cant think of anything to say that will help at the mo, just that I will be saying a prayer for you & hope you heal soon Sarah xx

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:16 pm

Dear Fi So very sorry to hear this. I was thinking of you and hoping all was well.It seems so very unfair Fi. I can understand completely how you feel about not coming on here. Will be here for you though if you need us. Thinking of you both Love Gracexxxxx

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:37 pm

dear fi and jay Im so sorry for you both. totally understand you wanting time out from the site. But everyone is here if you need someone to talk to. take care of each other kathryn x

scorry · Post by **scorry** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:45 pm

Hi Fi, We are so sad for you & Dh, we know what it's like to be so full of hope and excitement...and then to have it taken away. I understand that you won't feel like posting for a while, we have 8 frozen embies left and are now looking to start again, but are full of trepidation, like you, we wouldn't be thinking about going down this road again if we didn't have some hope for the future. Make sure you give yourself enough time to grieve for your baby, and most importantly, talk all the time about it with Dh, it's having each other that will get you through this. Take care, Scorry & Dh xx

Nikola · Post by **Nikola** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:46 pm

oh Fi, I'm so sorry to hear your tragic news. Life is so god damn unfair sometimes. Noone can say anything to take away your hurt right now, but know that we are all here for you when you need us. lots of love to you both nikola.xx

fiona_lk · Post by **fiona_lk** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 3:46 pm

Oh Fi, I am so so sorry to read your news - I cannot tell you how gutted I am for you, this should not have happened to you. I think it is the worst thing to have a positive, only for it to be taken away. I will fully understand if you don't want to meet next week, I know how you must be feeling, but I will be thinking of you in the next difficult few weeks. You and Jay and in my prayers. Lots of love Fiona xxxx

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 4:12 pm

Fi What can I say , Im absolutly gutted for you both , what an emotional rollercoaster for you . I dont know what to say as I cant imagine how you are feeling. here is a big {{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}} Love Trace x

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:26 pm

You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers, much love Lorraine G

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:46 pm

hi i'm so sorry to hear your new's.I followed your threads back in august and it is just not fair.. sending you lots of luck for you next tmt from july ann

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 5:57 pm

Fi and Jay I can truely say this has really upset me, as one of yout ACB I'm gutted, you went through so much when you found out you were pregnant I was over the moon! I,m really sorry for you both, give yourself some time to grieve my thoughts are with you both. Love and hugs Aly x

Lynned · Post by **Lynned** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 8:58 pm

Hi Fi and Jay, So so sorry to hear you news, my thoughts are with you both. Sending a huge hug. Lots of Love Lynne

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Mon Sep 22, 2003 10:25 pm

Dear Fi I was so sorry to read your news. After the long path you and Jay have travelled I really hoped and believed that this was your time. I hope that physically you are on the mend - I'm sure emotionally it will take much longer, but know that you have the strength to get through this. Thinking of you and wishing you lots of love, Alison x

Kate W · Post by **Kate W** » Tue Sep 23, 2003 4:58 am

Dear Fi I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. I too followed your threads through August and will include you and Jay in my prayers. Thinking of you both. Love Kate W

fi · Post by fi » Tue Sep 23, 2003 11:10 am

thank you girls, no one ever said ivf was fair. for what we are going through and for tracey and scorry and everyone else who has been through so much shit, all i can say is that we will not be defeated and its so much support from you all that really helps get through the day. i will be around, maybe not as regularly, but will keep my eye on everyone! thanks again, hugs to all, love fi and jay XXX

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