The worst day of my life

Tracey S · Post by **Tracey S** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 11:01 am

I am so sorry to tell you the baby was dead when they scanned us - lots of fluid in the abdomen. Clearly Ian and are I devestated and I have to go in to labour tomorrow so feel like shit as you can imagine. I can't imagine the way to pick up all the pieces but hope that you all continue where I left off and go on to have the baby or babies you all so deserve and I did too. I am sure you will understand that I need time away from the site to got through labour and post mortems and cremations etc. Love to you all Tracey xxx

GB · Post by GB » Tue Sep 09, 2003 11:13 am

Dear Trace and Ian My heart and soul goes out to you both on your devastating loss. I am truely gutted for you and feel your pain...especially after all the trouble we all go through to conceive in the first place! Take as much time as you need to come to terms with this all.... and only hoping for good things for you both in the future. Thinking of you both. Love Gila.

alisonb · Post by **alisonb** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 11:18 am

Tracey & DH Words fail us all at a time like this but our hearts go with you xx I truly am devastated for you both. Lots of love Alisonb x

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 12:30 pm

I do not have the right words to say to you.........I can imagine how you are both feeling at the moment.... Just to let you know although I have not posted to you before I have been following your threads & and am thinking of you both at this time. I am sure you will both find the strength to help each other through what must be a very emotional time... Take care & I am sure the angels will take care of your little one for youxxxxx Sarah xxx

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 12:42 pm

Tracey, Although I havn't posted to you before - I just wanted to say how truly sorry I was to read your post. Thinking of you both at this sad time. Dolly

Jo Radley · Post by **Jo Radley** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 12:51 pm

Tracey, I just wanted to post and express how truly sorry I am for you and Ian. As Alison said, words fail everyone at such a sad time. My thoughts are prayers are with you both. Love Jo xx

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 1:11 pm

Hi Just wanted to express my sorry for both you any your dh at this time, I hope you find a way to get through this time together my thoughts are with you. Aly x

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 1:31 pm

Tracey I can not think of any words. This is so cruel. You, who has been there for so many of us at our darkest moments, it is so unfair. Will be thinking of you and Ian all of the time. Love Gracexxx

Nikola · Post by **Nikola** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 1:48 pm

TS I don't know what to say, as I've already said to you, nothing is adequate. I'm truly devasted for you both. Its all just not fair. I want you and Ian to know that I'm thinking of you both and that if you need anything, just ask. lots and lots of love to you both. n.xxx

bertie · Post by **bertie** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 1:55 pm

Tracey & Ian I dont know what to say. As Grace has said you have always been there for us when we've needed someone. We are all there for you both. Luv to you both. Bertie x

fi · Post by fi » Tue Sep 09, 2003 3:29 pm

tracey and ian, everyone has said it but just wanted to say that i am thinking of you both, what a cruel cruel world. i'll be holding your hand tomorrow and thinking of you, much love, fiona and jason

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 3:34 pm

tracey my god it is not fair, i'm crying as i type sorry do not know what to say. you have alway's been here for me and i wish i could help you both.i'm so so sorry.I think this has got to be one of the saddest day's on this site. sorry i'm not helping i'm here if you need me, but i'm sure you have got your family there. july ann

caz1 · Post by **caz1** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 4:30 pm

O tracy, I am so so sorry for you both. I cant imagine what you must be feeling. My sister in law went through the same thing and I saw how painful it was for her. Give yourselves time and a break from it all. But if you do feel you need a chat or a shoulder to cry on I'm sure you know where to come to. Take care of yourself Cazxx

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 4:41 pm

Oh Tracey I am so, so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself and your DH My love and very best wishes Lorraine G

sharon · Post by **sharon** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 5:25 pm

Tracey, Life can be so soooo cruel at times but some how we always get through the tough times and eventually begin to smile when we never thought we ever would again. You have been so strong for other people on this site for so long but now it's time to be strong for yourself and Ian. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Be strong, Sharon G xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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