The worst day of my life

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Traci
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Speachless, Gutted I really do not know what to say, Im so sorry , You have my number if you want to phone me <br>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<br>Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
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jackiey
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Tracey<br><br>I cannot believe this has happened to you, I am so so sorry I don't know what else to say apart from how cruel life is sometimes.<br><br>I'll be thinking of you both tomorrow<br><br>Jackie
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dear tracy and ian<br> i have not spoke to you before, but i just wanted to say how sorry i was to read your post tonight.<br>thinking and praying for you both.<br>take care of each other.<br>jackie T
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tracey and ian<br>im so sorry for you both. I cant believe this. you are in my thoughts and prayers.<br>im just so sorry tracey.<br>lots of love<br>kathryn<br>x<br>
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Oh Tracey, when I saw your strand I was hoping so much that it wasn't this, and that you'd just had some sort of dreadful scare but that everything was OK now. I can't believe that this is happening to you.<br><br>As others have said, you always come across as so strong and so positive - your posts have made me laugh when I couldn't imagine laughing. I feel so inadequate as there's nothing I can say or do now to take away the enormous pain you must be suffering. But I want you to know you're very much in my thoughts. With much love<br><br>Alison x
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Dear Tracey,<br><br>I haven't been on the boards much lately but had to post when I saw your sad news. You were there for me with so much help and info when I went through my first IVF....you were like the big sister I don't have...and you took the time and trouble to email me privately too, for which I was very grateful. <br>I now don't know how to comfort you at this terrible time and for that I feel inadequate. All I can say is that much of life is a gamble and many things in life are unfair - and this is one of the cruelest. How any of us cope with these things I don't know, but I guess in the end you have to and with time will be able to look forward with a smile again. Please take all the time you need to grieve and lean on all your friends, family and us strangers who feel we know you so well. As Alison says above, you and your husband and baby are very much in my thoughts and I truely hope you find some peace in the coming days and weeks. Take care of each other,<br>with love and heartfelt condolences,<br>Helen B.
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Tracey,<br><br>I am just so sorry! I don't know what to say. Your messages have kept so many of us going when we have had difficult times.<br><br>Thinking of you and Ian.<br><br>Donna<br>XXXX
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Tracey,<br>Just wanted to add my sincere condolences to you and Ian. Be good to yourselves at this very difficult time. Can't imagine what tomorrow will be like for you both but hope that knowing we are all thinking of you will help in some small way.<br>Di
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I cannot think of any words that could make this time any easier for you, but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, and praying for you both.<br><br>Much love<br><br>D x<br><br><br>
Me 34, DH, 37. Married for 11 years, ttc for 6+, failed 4 x fresh IVF tmts. 5th attempt at Lister Hospital gave us Megan on 5 April 2004 with a very straightforward pregnancy and labour. Attempt number 6 to start hopefully September 2007!
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Tracey I'm so sorry to read your news especially as you have kept so many other people going through their hard times. I know nothing I can say will make you feel better but everyone here is thinking of you and sending their love and prayers<br>Take care of yourself and DH <br>Love, Kat x
Me & DH both 41
ICSI #1 - abandoned
#2 - cancelled - DH accident
#3 - 1 transferred, bfn
#4 - 2 transferred, bfn
#5 - abandoned
#6 - no eggs at EC
#7 - DE in Barcelona - bfp but lost Dec'05
#8 - DE UK - bfn
#9 - FET Sept/Oct '07....
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Post by louli »

Tracey,<br>I am so feeling your pain. Life is inexplicably unjust. Your strength and support have helped so many others including myself on these message boards. I know you will need every ounce of strength and courage now. My thoughts are with you and Ian. <br>Lou
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Tracey,<br><br>I am so sorry to hear what has happened. I wish I knew what I could say that would help but I wish you and Ian much love and hope you get through your awful experience. <br><br>Love Allison<br>x<br><br>
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Tracey<br><br>Just wanted to say how sorry I am. I havent "spoken" to you a lot, but I have been reading everyones stories/dilemas for about 18 months now, so sometimes feel like I know you all.<br><br>So Sorry<br>thinking of you<br>karenxx
Me 31 Poor responder, DH 37 failed vasect.reversal.
1st ICSI 3 eggs, 1 embie - neg
2nd ICSI 4 eggs, 3 embies - neg
3rd ICSI 5 eggs, only 1 egg mature, 1 x embie -POS, Miscarried early may 04 at 9 wks
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tracy<br><br>im speachless..........you was a great support to us all....and now we are here for you mate.<br><br>im so sorry to see your news...please take the time you need, but remember we are here for you<br><br>xxbeckxx
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Post by bubblymichelle »

Hi Tracey<br><br>I have posted on the other thread, but just want to say my thoughts are with you and Ian. If you need me you know I am just a phone call away.<br><br>Love Always<br>Shell.<br>xx
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