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Em - You bad girl. Keep peeping! 12.5mm is really good for this early stage. It took me nearly a week to get to that size if I recall correctly due to all the down regging that I did on the long protocol. I am really hoping that tomorrow's scan will go well for you, I am sure that it will. I am sure that you have been doing all the injections and sniffing pefectly and tomorrow will just reassure you. I was told that ideally they like to get around 10 follicles that get to over 18mm so you may have a few days more to go yet. Lots more and the quality might not be so good. It is such a delicate balancing act. It was really after a week that I started to feel more bloated. We will be looking out for your news tomorrow sweetie

Dania - It is so nice that you have stuck with us and now as Laura says are more than 1/2 way. That really is amazing. It must be so exciting to find out whether it is a girl or a boy. Wow. Thanks for your words of wisdom about things with my dh. It is good to know that I am not alone and that others have issues too. I hope that you have had a lovely Thanksgiving weekend with all your friends and family around. Sure that the dreams are due to all the hormones - how fully!??? :wink:

Laura - Was thinking of you yesterday even though I did not get to post. Line getting darker is terrific. You do sound further ahead than last time in terms of what you are seeing. Just hoping that the little ones are clinging on for you over the weekend. I so hope that you are going to have a really strong beta tomorrow. Thinking of you and sending you loads of babydust hun. The waiting must be really hard on you right now. Tomorrow is almost here. Glad that you managed to get out of jury duty. One less thing to worry about. Sorry that you are on a busy spell of shifts but may be it is a blessing in disguise as sitting around would just make every hour drag on and on

Vero - How is my pal? How are you doing on your de-stressing? Hope that you have had a lovely Thanksgiving weekend. When is your next acu session?

Jackie - I am sure that you do get concerned about every little twinge but sure that it is all your body adapting to having a little one on board. Issue with our consultant is that he said that we must wait until after Xmas when we saw him post-tubal op. So I am trying to persuade him to do something sooner so not sure that we can do that without going to see him. I am ok. I may be able to start down regging pre-Xmas and then do the stimmies in Jan. It is EC and ET that they like to avoid around Xmas close down. I may follow your advice and at least call his office this week to see whether they have had any cancellations.

So we went out to the country to see our race horse. He is called LOrient Express. He is huge and really dark chocolate brown. We stayed over night Friday at a quaint hotel, with a good friend of mine. It was nice to see her although my dh had quite a lot to drink and passed out - so not quite the romantic evening away that I had hoped for!!!!!! The stables were amazing. We were with a different trainer before whose stables were not as posh. We have the top lady trainer in the country - girl power! She is so professional. Horse looked in fantastic shape and should be ready to run in about 3 weeks time. Something to look forward too. I should find a photo and post on the photbucket site so you can all see him!

I didn't post much at the end of the week as our 12 year old niece was taken into hospital on Thursday. We were not going to go up to the stables but Mike's sister told us to go. We came back earlier yesterday to see her. They think it was just a grumbling appendix but it is still a concern as she keeps passing out for no apparent reason. She was released from hospital yesterday. So dh is of course worried. Plus it is a year on Tuesday since he lost his Dad. So I think that he has a lot of stress to deal with right now.

I need to hold it together and not place him under more stress. Am making lots of plans and trying not to wonder if I will (ever) be pregnant. Booked to go to the opera with my best friend next March. Booked to take my parents to the theatre in London at the end of January too.

Looks like I may have picked up my first piece of freelance work. Need to ensure that I do not over commit. But it is quite exciting.

AF will be here by next weekend. I know this time so have very low expectations wich will mean that the fall is not so bad. Have acu on Thursday. Then only just over 3 weeks until our consultation so have that to focus on.

Have a good week. I so hope that Laura is going to get a great beta and that Em's scan will go well.

Lots of Love
Carolyn xxx
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Post by veronika »

Hello all you wonderful ladies!

Laura,
I am so happy to hear that your line is constantly getting darker. I have to repeat Em's joke: YOU SEE. Your official announcement tomorrow will be so exciting. I keep sending tons of baby dust your way!

Dania,
I hope you are enjyoing your Thanksgiving weekend and didn't have too much cooking and preparing-stress :wink: I can't wait to hear if you are having a boy or a girl. Your poor DH who can't quite stop worrying... And it's true, with all that you have been through before - it's just not possible to forget about these struggles.

Em,
I am sure your were sniffiling and DH was injecting perfectly correctly. This sounds like a thought that could appear in my head and start to worry me out of the blue. I remember, I obsessed about not having done the hcg shot properly and drove DH up the walls.
I hope you get a good number of well growing follies tomorrow!

Jackie,
October 19th...the waiting does seem to never end. I hope you can enjoy the time until then anyway. Those twinges are sure to be signs of your little miracle beanie settling in.

Carolyn,
I am sorry that your DH is having a difficult time. I hope your stay in the country made him feel better. And I hope your niece will be well again very soon.
It's great that you have picked up your first piece of freelance work. Way to go! And you are right, life just has to be planned and lived, pregnant or not. It's always hard for me to plan ahead (say starting my new job in January) and picture myself not being pregnant by then. But it's so very well possible and starting my new job will nevertheless be a great challenge, or going home to see my family for Christmas, or my holiday next summer...or whatever. It does feel so at times, but it just can't by all worthless without being a mom.
I hope you can succesfully talk to your consultant and convince him of an earlier start into you next cycle. Once our mind is might up about something it becomes hard to wait patiently... I really hope he'll let you downregulate before Christmas (a good time for the weird feelings of downregulation because so much is going on and there is no time for depression!).

I am having a busy weekend. Got the corrections of my thesis back, so I will be working on this for the next week. Then I only have to await my defense in december. But all this is nothing compared to before. So I am just busy, not stressing!
I had acu on friday, ovulation-acu. So once more I am starting a natural 2ww. Let's see. I think I figured out the plan. I have been trying naturally/with acu for a month now (this is the second). I will go for alltogether 6. And try to not put any pressure of it having to work on me...gonna be hard. Then I'll go for 3 IUIs. And then I'll try another IVF. So I'd be 32 when trying IVF again, but with all that I learned about it and myself I think chances are better than with 30 anyway. It does freak me out though, to see this timeline in front of my inner eye. Time passes so quickly.

Hope you are all having a wonderful weekend, Many hugs from Vero
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Post by Xrayem »

Hi girls,

Well just a quick one to say that I had the scan and my doc was REALLY pleased. He counted over 10 follicles on my right ovary, all over 12mm. They were all exactly the same size which is what they want. My pesky left ovary sat a little too high to be seen clearly on the Trans-vaginal scan so he didn't bother counting them as he was thrilled with 10 on my right.

My bloods yesterday were excellent and so the plan is as follows:

Wed 11th - Bloods and scan.
Fri 13th - Egg Pick up.
Sun 15th - Embryo transfer.

I'm all booked and ready to go. The doc acctually asked if I had been taking an increased dose as I have responded so well.....there goes my paranoia of not doing it properly!

So very excited! Am a little tender in the tummy though and found it difficult sleeping last night as I normally sleep on my tummy but it was too uncomfortable and I kept waking myself up.

Love to you all!
Em
TTC 5yrs - Unexplained Infertility
3xIUI's (April, June & Aug 06) - BFN,s
1st IVF - Oct 06 - Jasper & Finlay born 07/06/07
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Hello laides

Dania
It is so nice to see how well you are doing.. I still remember the day you posted.. You wrote that nice long message and mentioned how you went away with DH and than Wammo "BFP" it was so exciting.. We have not really thought about much of planning.. For me its funny too since I am still in my normal clothes.. I have a little bit of a tiny bump but not much just yet.. I also have been feeling really well no sickeness. I will take whatever this gives me so bring it on...I bet your sex dreams are the hormones. Lucky DH right? Your supper sounded so good it made me hungry just thinking about it.. One of my really good friends is also preggers ( I think around 20 weeks also) and she is gettting those sharp pains too..OOOH the 16th will be here before you know it and you will know.. We cant wait to see....

Laura honey you will make it through and this will work.. How are you feeling (other than nerves) have you tested again? Its just the right time and its just going to be prefect...

Em
That is so very neat that you get to scan yourself.. I was just like you and so afraid that the meds were not going in properly but you have responded so well you are going to have lots of strong embies.. Grow babies grow...

Carolyn
I am so so to here about your niece. How is she doing now? That must be very scary.. Do you think it could be hormonal (as isint 12 a normal age for the hormonal changes to start) I was weird and was a late starter.. Its good that she is home but your poor DH (and you) have been through so much this year.. We will be thinking of you both and sending you love and hugs...
Let us know when you post a pic of your horse he sounds so lovely.. That must have been an very nice weekend.. Your DH proably needed the time to tie one on and just go to sleep..Hopefully he is feeling a bit better.. That is one thing I did not miss about drinking (the hangovers) I miss wine but I could care less about beer...

Vero
I think your plan looks wonderful and to be honest from what I have read acc takes a good couple of months to be effective. I know I went for almost all of June and July and August..Your time line looks really good but I bet you will just do this on your own and no IUI's or IVFs will be needed...Dont work too hard on your thesis....


Em I just read your last post..Congrats on your counts they look so wonderfull.. OOOOH I cant belive it will be so soon.. It will be here before you know it... Drink lots and lots of water and stay as non stressed as possible.. You have done so well...

For me nothing new.. I had company all weekend and just relaxed with DH and puppy.. Now back to work..
love and hugs to all
Jackie
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
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Post by LauraLou »

Okay, you can all say "I told you so". You were right.

I just got the call from my doctor's office. My beta was 157!!!!! I am so, so happy. Last time my beta was 78, so I am thrilled that my level is high this time. I go back on Wednesday to see if the number has doubled.

Jackie- I am having all these twinges and weird aches in my uterus. Did you feel anything like that?

Em- those are great numbers! You are the follicle queen!

Veronika- that is a good plan. I've also read that accu takes at least 3 months to work, so giving yourself lots of time to try naturally makes good sense.

Carolyn- I wish you could get in to see your consultant earlier. I want to see you with a BFP for a Xmas present.
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Laura
I wont even say it because you know that we all just new it in our hearts..Oh honey you should be so happy..And yes I got all the twinges and I just will be completely honest They freaked the heck out of me and scared me to death but it was all ok. They keep happening.. but I have been totally assured they are totally normal..
Oh honey you did it.. Your number will double and its going to be so great...

Love and hugs
Jackie
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Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
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Oh Thank God Laura! I am so pleased!!!! I can't wait to see how much your beta has doubled!

Carolyn - I am so sorry to hear abouut your neice. I hope she is better and that DH is doing ok.

I am feeling pretty crappy at the moment. Very tired, bloated and crampy. I have also been a little nauseous. Is this normal? I have another lot of bloods and scan tomorrow so I will mention it to my doc.

DH's aunt and uncle rang last night to say that they were flying in (from New Zealand) for a wedding this wednesday....could we pick them up from the airport? And would it be alright if they stay until monday? I am furious. Of course DH said yes....but with ER on friday and ET on sunday, I don't think I will be in any state to have visitors....much less ones I have never met before! I have told DH that I will be doing no cooking or cleaning and if I feel like staying in bed and watching DVD's, then I will. I think its incredibly unfair of DH to put this on me on top of everything that will be happening this weekend. GGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!

Love one very cranky Em
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3xIUI's (April, June & Aug 06) - BFN,s
1st IVF - Oct 06 - Jasper & Finlay born 07/06/07
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Post by CarolynB »

My Dear Laura

Image

It was just meant to be. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Those little ones must be made of tough stuff. I shall never hold too much store by the grading again.

That is a great first number. 1 or 2 sweetie???????

I came on first thing this morning to see as there was no news when I logged off last night due to the time difference.

I am sure that you & your dh are so very very happy.

Let's keep pushing that beta skywards over the next few days. Take it easy and try to relax and start enjoying being pregnant.

You made it!!!!
Lots of love
Carolyn xxxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Dear Em

The main thing to focus on is you right now. Try not to let the visitors arriving drain you as you need all your energy right now for you and making your follies grow.

The hormones will be playing havoc with your feelings and you will be up and down right now. That will make your feelings feel more accentuated and extreme than normal.

I understand exactly what you are saying. I sleep on my tummy and found it hard after a week of stimmies. But if your tummy is swollen then that really is the price to pay for a good number of follies. I felt pretty bloated and my tummy hurt too. Cannot re-call feeling sick but other than that sounds like we felt pretty similar.

You have great numbers. That is just right and the fact that they are even in size so they'll be able to get a good number to the right stage together.

There may even be extras on the other side that they cannot see on the scan but may well be there at EC.

Your dh probably did not know how to say no. I would be completely mad too. But like you say don't cook or clean. Your dh can always take them out to get something to eat if required. Main thing is to focus on you now. We are around when you need to vent. May turn out that having someone there stops you obsessing about what is going on in the end.

Drink lots of water and keep up the protein too. Try to stay calm as that will help.

Your EC and ET are going to be great.

Sending you hugs.
Love Carolyn
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Vero - sounds like you have a very wise plan. You are young - you do have some time on your side. I wish that I could feel as patient as you but am freaking because of my age and knowing that my eggs will not be any good for much longer (even if they are now). After Em gets her BFP then it will just you and me hanging around together until we both make it too..............You are so right that our lives cannot be nothing without little ones. We have to carry on and do stuff rather than putting our whole life on hold. The acu must be helping us both. I have been going since May!!!

Dania & Jackie - Glad all is well with your lovely bumps. Jackie - I don't miss the hangovers either :wink: I had those drinks when I left my job but other than that have been totally dry since 12th May. That is 5 months - WOW! Scarey how time passes. Cannot wait for your scan news Jackie and for you Dania to know whether you have a little girl or a little boy. So exciting

Thank you all for asking. My niece seems to be better. Jackie - sure that you are right that she is at the age where her body is changing and that is moving things around down there. Just scarey when she keeps collapsing. She is out of hospital and has gone back to school so we just have to hope that everything will be ok. They ran every test in the book so not sure what else they could have done?

Tough day today as 1 year since my dh lost his Dad. We have lit a candle that will burn for 24 hours in remembrance. Need to try to be strong for dh especially today.

Love & hugs to you all.
Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Post by LauraLou »

Thank you for all for the kind words. I so want all of us to have a BFP before Christmas. I am praying for natural BFPs for Veronika and Carolyn and that Em's IVF is a success on the first try.

Carolyn- what a hard time for your DH. I am so sorry for his loss.

Em- I got really bloated from stimming. Ended up with a mild case of OHSS, but it was worth it!

I hope it isn't insensitive of me to bring this up. Nothing worse that someone who got a BFP whining and complaining, but I don't know who else to talk to about it.

As you can see from my profile, my DH is 14 years older than me. He never really wanted to have a baby. We actually went to see a counselor about it. He finally agreed to have one child, since having a baby was so important to me.

Then we had all these male factor infertility problems. He never said anything but I'm sure that had to make him feel bad.

The point is, I'm afraid he isn't excited about having a baby. I am so excited and full of joy and he seems so disinterested. When I told him about the beta level, he was like "Well, we'll have to wait and see." Not exactly the response I was looking for. I am also afraid he will be upset if it turns out to be twins.

He is doing nothing wrong; I knew before we started trying that having a baby was my deal. He was doing it to please me, but I didn't realize how alone it would make me feel.

Okay, I am probably being overly emotional. I watched Emergency Vets on Animal Planet yesterday and a puppy died. I started to cry, so I switched to a Disney movie. Then the baby dinosaur's mom died and I started to sob. I mean a full out crying jag over the cartoon dinosaur's mom.

I am hoping that DH will get more excited as the pregnancy progresses. It probably doesn't feel real to him yet. I also hope my emotions get more stable or I'm going to start crying at Hallmark commericials.
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Hello laides

Em like Carolyn said dont feel bad about how you are feeling. I think you were right to tell DH that you felt it was imposing having company when you are going through all this.. Also the bloated and overall general cruddy feelings are normal.. You have a lot goin on in there and your body is just adjusting to all the growing and goings on in there.....I hope you are feeling better honey..

Carolyn
Oh honey I feel so for your DH it must be so rough on him. That is very sweet about the candle and I know that you will be such a strength to him. He is very lucky to have you . I am glad to here your neice is a bit better and its great they are being so proactive on the testing they are doing with her. Just take care of you and DH today and know that we are all praying for you all...

Laura
Your story sounds so similar to mine.. My DH was also not sure about if he wanted kids at first and we also went and got some counseling.. I know how you are feeling but your DH's calm attittude towards the beta could just be his nerves for you and what happened before. I know that my DH wants this baby now more than I think I even did (if that was possible) and he was the same after the BFP.. Very calm and just relaxed and he actually said "well we will have to wait and see" that was his way of dealing with it.. I think he felt if he was so calm that it would help me.. I would sit down with your DH and just talk to him honey. Tell him your concerns and worries. I bet you will find he is just as excited he is proabbably just nervous and worried about you both.... As time goes I am sure his excitement will grow.. When do you test again.Its going to be so great...

Dania and Vero
thinking of you both laides.

Love and hugs
Jackie
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Laura -

Sweetie - Of course you can share with all of us. We have been through such a lot together - we are a team. You have been so much to get this little beanie then you simply cannot understand why your dh is not beside himself with excitement as you are. I weep at anything normally so lord only knows what I will be like if I ever get a BFP. I will be in floods the whole time. Think that it is natural after all you have been through - some of it is probably relief coming out too.

I am sure that there are several factors at play with your dh. As Jackie says maybe he is being a little cautious for you both after what happened last time around. So may be he is trying to stay calm so you don't both get too carried away.

I have heard most men find it really hard at the start as it seems so completely unreal to them. It is v v v early days for you both/all. Just seems so long for each of us because of the journey that we have been on to get this far. I don't know a single bloke who has not been thrilled when the little one has come along. I am sure that your dh will come round to the idea - just give him a little time.

My dh is 10 years older than me. Part of our last melt down was because his life just seems to carry on as per normal - drinking, playing golf, watching footie - and I am the one whose world has gone crazy with hormones, giving up my job, two lots of surgery etc etc I was like the only thing that you have to do for me is baby dance and you cannot even be bothered to do that - how much can he possibly care about having a baby. But as you all told me, they do care. But they just have such different ways of showing it. He also did not show much emotion when I got my BFN. But I know that he had his own cry away from me and then tried to be strong when he was with me. He is a great support but I feel more of the onus to have a family is on me and I guess that is accentuated by the fact that I am the one that has the problems and all is ok with him.

If it turns out to be twins then he'll just have to get on with it! :wink: I am sure that he will be fine. They just take longer than us to adjust to any sort of change and are way less good at expressing their emotions. Just wait until he goes to the scan and I am sure at that stage it will start to get real for him.

It will be just fine hun. 8)
Lots of Love
Carolyn xxx

PS - On today of all days, my dh saw some paperwork from his business partner that indicates that he may be trying to push him out of their business. I cannot believe that this has happened to my dh on today of all days. He sounded so gutted and kicked in the stomach when we spoke on phone. I never liked his business partner - he is so self centred. Just in it for himself. I'd punch him if I could see him now. :evil: :evil: I also think that he probably left the paperwork where it could be spotted as he is such a coward that he probably thinks my dh may jump rather than waiting to be pushed. ARRGGGHHHH. I am so cross. Need to be super duper supportive. I have banished all pre-AF testyness away from me!!!!

We'll manage but I just feel like it is time that something good happened for us both.................................
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Lauralou-YEAH!!!CONGRATULATIONS its official!!!I’m so happy for you- 157 is great! I had a feeling you had a little fighter too. I am so happy for you, what seemed like such a rocky road has a beautiful result! As for worrying- its sooo normal. I have had a few of those sleepless nights as well and I have been filled with worry that everything will turn out ok throughout the pregnancy so far- even now- I’m at 20 wks and wondering when « baby » will kick hard enough for me to feel. I think its is all the negative emotions we have dealt with that makes us worry so- sometimes it feels like it is not real still- like I will wake up from a dream. My DH is always wondering why when we watch TV at night that I rub my belly. I am so impressed and amazed to see what my body looks like with this bump. All the twinges are normal- I was worried for the first 2 mths thinking it was AF cramps. But as my friend told me its all new for your body and it is getting adjusted to the change.

Em- That is excellent news that your follies on well on their way! Yeah! It’s all happening quickly now until next Sunday. Start eating those pineapples and bresilian nuts- to get your uterus all sticky for next week!!!

You are definitely not imagining you’re bloating- its all part of the treament. The last four days I was so bloated I had a hard time sitting down and could only fit into my yoga pants. That’s why they say its so important to stay hydrated- be weary of sports drinks tough they have a lot of sugar- try to find a children’s diarrhea rehydrating drink at your pharmacy (ex : Pedialyte) or you can create your own sports drink- 1 glass of water and one glass of orange juice and a teaspoon of salt- mixed well together is good for rehydration. I’m sure you are aking the meds properly. How great only 3 days to grow those follies!!! I wish lots of great BIG follies!

Carolyn- Your horse sounds beautiful. Thats great you have a girl trainer. Too bad your DH passed out but from what you have said I do think that he is under a lot of stress and that heped him relax from it all. Dealing with his Dad’s anniversary of his passing is difficult along with your niece’s health (I hope she gets better soon) and your own challenge right now- its alot one’s plate to manage. You can vent all you need to us, we are here for you. I’m sending you a great BIG hug, hang in there, sweetie!!
Congratulations on your first freelance job! That’s really exciting! I too have been talking with my cousin about creating a real website for her, I can’t wait to get things rolling.
I agree you should keep calling your clinic- I’m keeping my fingers crossed that they’ll have a cancellation soon.I can understand that you want things to be moving again soon.

Veronika- Your plan sounds great- you’ve got all the angles covered. With the help of acu and the fact that you are less stressed giving it a go for 6 mths is a good idea- when I started at Sinocare they told me 3 mths for certain. As for starting a new job and planning all the details of the following year- I think you should make plans as normal- if they are to be changed then it will be for the better. In the beginning of June my DH and I had made detailed plans of our lives until Jan 07 with various deadlines. Who knew they would should change! Do you have a lot of work to do for for the revision of your thesis? Try not to get too tired.

Jackie- Thanks for letting me know about your friend- its reassuring. You’ll see around 12 wks your jeans will start to get tight. Your belly must be so cute now with its tiny little bump. I’m glad to hear you don’t have any morning sickness- and your symptoms are at a minimum. What date is your friend due in Feb?

As for me Thanksgiving Dinner was a lot of fun! Our Turkey came out well this year not dry at all-we poked holes in it so the broth would seep in. Once we were serving it to our family did we notice that there was turkey juice all over the ceiling in the kitchen!! We laughed.. but it tasted great that’s what matters. It was a really sunny weekend so we spent monday walking outside in a little mountain town in the Laurentians with our friends shopping at quaint boutiques. It felt like the last warm weekend for this fall.

Have good day!! Hugs to you all!
Dania
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First IVF ICSI May 4th,2006 -ve
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Post by CarolynB »

Hello Ladies

Em - Hope that the scan and bloods went well today and all is on track for EC on Friday. Will all start to move very quickly this week :lol:

Laura - Hope that we were able to provide some reassurance about youd dh's reaction to your wonderful news. Hope that you are as excited & happy as you should be :lol:

Dania - Really interested to hear all about how your web design business is going. Hope that you can get started with your cousin. It is so exciting starting something out yourself. If I ever get a bump, I am sure that I will rub it all the time just to check that it is still there!!

Jackie - Hope that you are staying positive for your little one. Counting down the days to your scan. So exciting :lol:

Vero - Hope that the corrections on your thesis are not too bad. No increase in stress level allowed for you my dear. 8)

Have done some looking at stats on this site of ladies in my age range - as age is the biggest determinant of % success for ivf. I look at this thread and see so many people getting a +ve at the 1st or even 2nd attempt. But all of you are younger than me - some of you by quite a long way. So may be I need to be more realistic about the population that I am comparing myself to. Mathematician in me coming out.

I could see around 18 ladies who were 40+ per their tickers. NONE had got a +ve at their first attempt. That made me feel sad for every one of them but at least in the same boat. Just 1 was successful on her 2nd attempt. 4 on their 3rd attempt. 1 each on 4th, 6th and 7th attempts. 3 on their 9th try - how amazing is that. So 11 had had a positive. Of the balance 3 ladies had 3 -ves. 2 had 2 -ves. 1 had 6 -ives. I only counted ivf/icsi/FET, no iui as that is not an option from me. So what do I deduce from this analysis. 11/18 ladies have been successful. That is not a bad % for my age range. However, thinking that I will need to be realistic about the number of attempts that I'll require. The average for these ladies is over 5 attempts for those who got a +ve. I guess that stacks with what I know in person. Two friends - both age 42. 1 expecting now on attempt 5. One m/c now on her 5th attempt.

So guess that I feel that as the old lady in the group that it is going to take me more time. DH and I agreed before we started that it would probably require and we would look to do 4-5 attempts. I guess if the money for 1 cycle went on the op and I have done 1 then that means that I should be steeling myself for another 3 goes at ivf. If I could get one in before Xmas that would make be feel better. Then may be another 2 or even 3 next year? Have said that 4-2 is probably the point at which I draw a line. That is now only 20 months away.

Way way too much planning..................

Love to you all.
Carolyn xxx
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Post by jackoa21 »

Carolyn
You are right honey you and DH deserve some good news. I am so sorry to here about his horrible partner. How is your DH doing. Yesterday must have been so hard on him.. Just know that we are here for you so that you can be here for your DH.. Take care of you both honey...

Dania
Happy late thanksgiving. My DH is from Edmonton so we called his family yesterday and wished them a happy turkey day too.. Your turkey story acutally made me hungry thinking about it.. I just loved hearing that you rub your bump nightly I think when I actually start to show I will be the same just so amazed by the whole thing... Did you have sickeness in the begining.. When do you have your scan again to find out the sex.

Carolyn I just read your other post. We are so much alike I love the mathematician calculations.. BUT I think your nubmers are not accurate. Just think out of all of those ladies a lot of them (or most) have not had the opp so although the age may be the same you have a leg up on them. So see its great that the overall nubmers were good but yours will be even better since you had the OPP..

Vero
I hope you are not working too hard on your Thesis.. How are you doing. Thinking of you

Laura
How are you honey? When is your next bw..

Love and hugs to all
Jackie
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Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
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