Thanks Suzhan. I have to say that I wasn't feeling old until I started seeing these doctor's this year about trying to have a baby! I sure hope your RE is right, the stats are so discouraging. And to be honest, I'm still feeling so discouraged right now. I'm not ready to stop, but like you said, between my age and my first negative ivf - I'm fearful now and that's not helping the stress level at all.
I'm really sorry about your m/c. I can only imagine how hard that had to have been.
The encouraging thing is seeing that some women our age and older are successful. I'm so glad because it's really the only thing that's giving me hope right now.