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Wibbs · Post by **Wibbs** » Fri Sep 26, 2003 5:57 pm

Sarah There is nothing I can say that anyone else has'nt already said. Time is a great healer......and you must have faith for next time, it will happen...lots of PMA needed with all c buddies. Hug each other lots you still have each other.. Take care. I will watch out for you future happy postings. Wibbs XXXXX

Kat · Post by **Kat** » Fri Sep 26, 2003 6:43 pm

Sarah I was so sorry to read your news and I know it makes it all the more difficult with so many positives around. But it's true, it does get better in time and you will be stronger for next time Thinking of you and your DH Lots of love Kat xx

SBROWN · Post by **SBROWN** » Sat Sep 27, 2003 1:02 pm

Thank you all for your kind replies and words of wisdom Nothing really prepares you for a negative, I kept saying to dh I thought it had not worked but deep down I thought it had & wanted to surprise him on test day..... Anyway, am not giving up, have a follow up appointment 9th october & will find out when we can do another FET. Its not just the emotional side thats hard but also the money side...Im not a materialistic person but I am a realist & as you all probably know money does not grown on trees & IVF is so expensive, unfair I know but thats how it is.... Am keeping busy at the moment, catching up on the housework & all those jobs left over the last 2wws..... Am not looking forwards to going back to work but I think its is the best thing, if I go sick I will be at home all day on my own dwelling on all the negatives..... Gonna try & be positive as like a lot of you say, people whose tmt works 1st time are proably in the minority.. Good luck to all those yet to tes, all those going through tmt & also to those mummies to be's Take care all, Sarah xx p.s on the +ve side I can now have a bath, cup of real tea, chocolate & a shag!!

Clara 1 · Post by **Clara 1** » Tue Sep 30, 2003 6:56 pm

Hi Sarah Sorry it didn't work for you this time - it's so so tough, but you will start to feel a bit better as the days go on. Hope you enjoy all the things you can now have! Take care, Claire

Di · Post by Di » Wed Oct 01, 2003 1:18 pm

Hi Sarah, So sorry that this time wasn't your turn - but you sound to be so much more postive between your 2 postings. Go girl - you've still got those frosties and you can start to think of them. Take all the time you need though first. Di

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Wed Oct 01, 2003 9:03 pm

hi sarah just thought i'd wish you well for next thursday, you are great to keep posting to everyone, we might be the last of the SCB, but at least we don't feel neglected with all of you still keeping in touch with your positive thoughts for us, we do appreciate it. bye for now and take care love jackieT xxx

Janeya · Post by **Janeya** » Thu Oct 02, 2003 7:54 pm

Dear Sarah Sorry haven't posted recently and so sorry to log on to find your sad news.As everyone has said use it as a trial run and for those of us that it worked first time are in the minority. I haven't been able to start at the Chalybeate yet,as I have been having lots of tests done at Odstock on my heart and lungs as I keep getting chest pains,and Mr Masson has said I cannot do it until I get a clean bill of health.So I think we are going to wait until after Christmas to try.I might see you there you never know. Chin up enjoy a very large glass of wine,followed by a large box of chocs.Thinking of you in our thoughts!!!!! Keep smiling Love Jane XXXXX

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