December-January Cycle Buddy's Our New beginnings

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 7:07 pm

Laura dont really know what to say i just hope that your baby can keep proning the dr's wrong will be thinking of you .
Carolyn glad your weekend went well this time next year your dh will be playing with your baby we all will .I thunk ben was really good saturday but i really like ray i hope he wins .
Becky hows the diet going i have been really bad this weekend bought a tin of chocolates and just had to open them (had to check if they were ok) .Jackie i know how you feel i just think yes i will do this then i just get pissed off and feel like eating everything hehe.
Aunty how are you feeling hope af comes soon .Angie hope those 5 days fly bye and you get sorted and can start soon you can be one of the first with a BFP .
Hugs to everyone
love Rachel x x

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:21 pm

LauraLou,

I hope and pray that this babyy will prove the docs wrong - he/she sounds like a little fighter so far - im with u all the way hun - praying hard for u ....

Becky Xxxxxx

mom20 · Post by **mom20** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 11:06 am

hi welshgirl ive took your advice and posted here. id just like to wish everyone luck i about to start ivf/ IUI not shure after 4 failed IUIS 1 failed IVF at christmas o5 after a break still no luck so were trying again so here it goes

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 11:14 am

Hiya Mom,

How u doing? Welcome to this thread, im glad u came, u will find so much support here, these ladies are lovely - Fingers crossed for ur next go - im sure we will be hearing all about ur BFP soon

Becky Xxx

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 1:49 pm

Welcome mom you will find great support here the ladies are great .
I will say sorry before i start today has i'm on a downing today on of my friends has just had a baby girl today i am happy for her but just wish it was me so another of my friends wants us to go and see them friday i said i would but dont know if i can face it i came home from work and phoned dh to tell him and have a few tears and he said that we will have a baby one day he always thinks positive not like me i just keep thinking why not me sorry this was all about me . Becky good luck today hope you have lost a few more lbs but it doesnt matter if you havent you have had a good excuse the

***** has been present
hugs to you all
love Rachel x x

Haylie · Post by **Haylie** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:08 pm

Laura - am thinking of you and hope and pray they Doctors are wrong.

Rachel - you are entitled to being on a downer, we all know exactly how you feel. We are all surrounded by babies and others tales of pregnancy and not our own. For some reason life is so unfair and we are being made to wait for our special bundle but you will get there. one day your friends will be coming to visit you after you've given birth. I know it's hard and horrible being surrounded by such happiness but have faith, it will happen to you. Fingers crossed this time next year you will be getting ready for your baby's 1st christmas!! Take care hun x

becleo · Post by **becleo** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 5:13 pm

I am hoping to do a FET in December too. have my follow up with my DR next tuesday. 3 IVF BFN & 1 attempted FET transfer but no embies survived the thaw (3 little guys) a bit nervous about trying the FET again, worried that the 2 I have won't thaw like before?
any advice???

LauraLou · Post by **LauraLou** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 8:38 pm

My miracle baby is truly a fighter!

They just called me and told me that my beta is now 5181. That means it has doubled every 2 days since the beta last Wednesday!!!

I am in a state of shock! I can't believe this is happening. They've gone from telling me I miscarried, to telling me I've got an ectopic, to telling me that I have an unhealthy pregnancy that will miscarry, to telling me there is some hope this baby will make it.

I go back tomorrow for another beta and have a second sono scheduled next Monday.

Thank you all for your kind words and support. It means so much to me.

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 9:41 pm

LauraLou

WOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO - i told u it was a little fighter

Im so happy for u hun - let us know 2moro what ur beta etc is ..... thats lovely news for me to go to bed on ...

Nite Nite (and once again)

CONGRATULATIONS

Luv Becky Xxxx

AuntyPebbles · Post by **AuntyPebbles** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 10:05 pm

Hi Lady's sorry ive been MIA been busy....
like to welcome the new lady's
Mom20 and Becleo a big

its great to have you and i know your going to get some wonderful support we will do our best to help with all your questions

LauraLou i am so happy i cant tell you you must be over the moon you really do have a real fighter there and will be sending all the prayers i can your way im so looking forward to hearing your beta and cant wait for your scan now...big hugs

love to all Aunty

AuntyPebbles · Post by **AuntyPebbles** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 10:24 pm

...

FET LADY'S

Angie65.....28th October....... Follow up appointment

Haylie.....21st November.......Follow up App

Macca..... 20th November ....... FET

Lara312.....30th December..Possible FET

Becleo..... 31st October .. Follow up appointment with DR

HelloKitty.....Dec/Jan ....... FET

Paula.....10th January .......Possible FET

IUI LADY'S

LauraLou...25th October Blood test.....Praying for your Little one

(30th scan)

FRESH IVF CYCLE

Vickie.....??th October.......

Waiting for NP meeting
CarolynB.....30th October.......

Appointment for 2nd IVF
Mrs M.......1st November ......

waiting for app from new clinic
Welshgirl.....16th November.....

Waiting for call from Clinic
Sully.....November.......

Appointment with New Clinic
JackieG....10th December ..

BC Dep on AF......
Aunty.......18th December ......

Baseline Dep on AF
Ems1971.....January.......

New Cycle

Mom20.....January.......

New Cycle

Birthday Count Down

Haylie...5th November
Lara ....22nd November 30th B'day
JackieG..December
Aunty....8th February
Angie.....20th March

Angie65 · Post by **Angie65** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 11:48 pm

Lauralou- I am so thrilled for you - wonderful news - hang in there and take it easy.

Welcome to the new ladies - Becleo - I am a FET lady too- my follow up appmt is on 28th and I am naturally nervous too. It is our first FET and we have 5 embies in waiting. I will let you know how we go.

Rachel - please don't worry how you feel about your friend's new baby - it is only natural feel that way and there is no obligation on you to spend lots of time surrounded by babies. Go along only if you want to and then make your excuses and do something that will make YOU happy (shopping! excercise! a nice meal with DH!!)

Hi to the rest of you lovely ladies. Auntie your list is the best on the boards - you are so organised!
A
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becleo · Post by **becleo** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 12:44 pm

thanks for the wecome, I think joining this will help alot. still trying to get used to all the abbreviations!! but getting there. I am looking forward to meeting with the DR next tuesday. he always makes me feel so much better about all this new stuff. read some of the postings for the Do's and Don't and it amazes me how different each clinic handles the process. the past few weeks been reading how exercising for 9+ years might make IVF harder. SCARED me. been an avid exerciser for 10+ years. does anyone have any input???

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 2:43 pm

Laura great news about your no's let them carry on growing and so will your baby its diffenatley a fighter

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Thanke haylie i know just been stupid has any one else been to a fourtune teller to see what they have to say well i did last year and had it all taped and when cleaning yesterday pressed the play button on stereo and what happened to me he told me that it would he had said i would have trouble with a pregancey or miscarry but he also told me he could see me with 2 babies either twins or 1 straight after another so i am thinking positive again it might be twadle but i believe it he was so accurate in loads of other things that has come true . Welcome belco this is a great thread and the ladies are wonderful we are all here if you want to laugh cry or just have a good old rant .
Becky you are doing so well wish i could be has well disiplined has you i did weigh on friday an dam going to try and lose at least 1 stone before starting my FET (could do with losing about 4 stones) .hugs to everyone
love Rachel x x

mom20 · Post by **mom20** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 2:57 pm

thankyoyu for my big welcome im on a downer today got took into hospital sat with a chest infection and an asthma attack.Still feel pretty rough on antiboitics and steriods off work for a week. just got no energy feel ok until i try to do anything and just cant.
Becleo i have been gong to the gym for the past year i to thought it could affect treatment but when i asked doc he said exercise was ok but just to avoid it after the transfer. I dont know about you but didnt much feel like exercising while takeing meds anyway.
Rachel i know excactly how you feel about your freinds baby my sister in law gave birth to a my nephew/god son last oct right when we were starting IVF it was really hard yes i had lots of tears but somehow i got through it. The worst waz at a family meal for my birthday i got a BFN the day before. And everyone waz talking about him and saying how cute he waz. I use to baby sit him at my house on weekends i found that helped me because it waz giving me chance to see what it was like to spend time with a baby so small and if i could cope. But you see i wanted this because i didnt want to punish myself by not being with him. You just need to take your time and go if you feel you can to see your friends baby and it will get easyier to be around babies. Sorry if this seems silly as you probably dont want to be around babies at min. but i felt like this until my nephew came along and although he is not mine he is the next best thing at the min to take my mind of things does that seem daft

It will happen for us all one day maybe not today or tomorrow but in the near future chin up

Lauralou- you take it easy and hang in there im keeping everything crossed for you xxx
HI TO ALL YOU OTHER LADIES XXX