Im so sorry hun, that is devastating news - i wish i could make it better for u, i dont know what to say. You have been so brave, i agree that u need time out, u can have a great xmas and come back refreshed and raring to go again.
Life is so unfair
My love to u and DH, take care hun
Becky Xxxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Ohh Nimble honey - i'm so sorry to hear your news. How can life be so cruel? To make you go through this to give you so much hope and joy and then snatch it away again! I don't know what to say, I know there is nothing anyone can say to to take away your pain except you are a strong person to have even made it this far and I think it's a good idea to take some time out and try again in the New year. Take some time for yourself and DH to try and get your head around things, take care of yourself and you know where we are if you ever need us.
Will be thinking and praying for you
xxxxxxxxxxxx
Me 33
IUI Nov 05 - BFN
IVF Aug 06 - BFN
FET - Jan 07 - BFP!!!!!!
hello, thought i would pop in - just wanted to say thank you for your kind messages and words of support, it really means so much to me...they made me cry.
now full of cold so feeling sorry for myself but feel quite strong about it all and look forward to the future where we can try again. Went to the Dr's this morning and she has signed me off for 2wks, and we also spoke about looking at getting funding on the NHS. We didn't realise first time round that you could!!
hugs
nimble xx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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Lisa thats fantastic 9 popsicles
i think your cycle day 7....not long now until your test is it how are you feeling?...any symptoms at all.....im so pleased for you.
love Aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
Woke up this AM and peed like 800 cc which is amazing for me since the ohss, the bad news is that if the ohss is subsiding then it looks like the embryos didn't stick, as your ohss gets worse if you are pregnant.
No more bloating at all,& Boobs are not sore anymore either.
I know I sound like a downer but when you have been through this as many times as I have you know.
I just feel like that window of opportunity has passed and that is life. Any educated woman going through this knows that at dpo8 with 5 day blasts they have already made their way out to implant.
I think God just has other plans for me and I need to find out what they are. Thank you all for your sweet thoughts and I will post if by any miracle that test comes back positive.
Until then Ciao, and good luck to all of you....
Bella
It sounds to me like uve given up already!! Dont u dare young lady - its not over till the fat lady sings - and i am not about to start singing!!!!!!!!
PMA - get it back, there are ladie son here that feel no symptoms u know that - please dont give up on ur embies - they need u to stay positive ...
Pretty pleaseeeeeee
PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA
Becky Xxxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Lisa
I am with Becky and the other ladies.. Where did your PMA go.. You have done so well and I have seen ladies with OHSS stick around and they are not preggo and about the symtomps not everyone is the same. YOu could not have made me belive I was preggers.. Still cant some days.. Keep up the PMA honey.. it will be great..
love and hugs to all
Jackie
me 34 DH 34 1st ivf 06/06 + lost at 5 weeks
Natural BFP 09/06 by the grace of GOD
Kennedy arrived 05/2007 and we are loving every moment...
I also had OHSS after transfer. I went to the hospital for 3 days and I was on a strict diet (no salt) . It worked and after 3 days I felt much better. As you, I was expecting to have to OHSS back if I was pregnant and I did not... I was more than surprise when the pee stick showed a +!
Sending you a lot of patience for your 2ww
xxx
souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH LADIES..... I AM JUST SO DISGUSTED.
SO NERVOUS AND TIRED OF THE MENTAL DRAINING. I STILL HAVE A GLIMMER IN MY HEART BUT I THINK IT IS EASIER TO EXPECT THE WORSED SCENARIO.
SOURIS, THANK YOU FOR THE PMA, I JUST ASSUMED THAT IF THE OHSS WENT AWAY THEN THEY DIDN'T TAKE. GOOD TO HEAR THAT.
First off I wanted to thank all of you for your wonderful support, I couldn't have made it thru this cycle without you all...
I started spotting on Tuesday and I so happened to be going to the clinic for blood work that day so while I was there they did a scan and saw the sac in the uterus but my hcg had not increased like it should, so they told me to come back today for another scan and beta. I continued to spot off and on and had bleeding yesterday afternoon. When they did the scan today, they could no longer find the sac, so as I suspected I miscarried yesterday... I am a little sad but I am more so frustrated then anything... My doc was out of town so I have a follow up with her on the 13th...
We have not made any decisions as of yet... I know that we have 8 frozen but I am getting emotionally drained from all this... and really ready to move on with my life... We might consider doing the FET cycles if we find the money but we will most likely start the adoption process also... Will not make any major decisions until after the holidays because my clinic shuts down anyway...
Thanks again for everything and I truely wish you all the best.... All of you that have gotten your BFP's I wish you a happy, stress free pregnancy and those of you the did not, I wish you the best in what ever path you decide to take next... I know there is a special plan for each of us and sometimes we have detours and get off track but it will all work out in the end... I have come to the realization that life is like a never ending train ride and sometimes we fall off and sometimes we even get run over but the train of life is going to keep going wither we are on it or not and our part is to jump back on and make to most of it and enjoy what we do have...
Lots of love and prayers
Jessica
Jeck
1st IVF 3/06 lost @ 8w3d
FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
Became a Mommy through Adoption!!!!
I am so sorry to hear ur news. Life is so unfair and words dont come easy for any of us at a time like this.
Im so glad that ur looking at other options too, like u say u have 8 frosties - left but ur taking ur time to make a decision, and this is good. I wish u well Jessica in what path u decide to take, u are a strong woman who has the love and support of ur DH.
Good Luck, please take ime out, enjoy the hoilday season, and most of all, take care of yourself and DH. Thnak you for all the support u have given to us these past months, u truley are a remarkable woman. Hugs.
Love Becky Xxxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
m/c @ 8 wks 
