Septembers Hopes and May babies

nimble · Post by **nimble** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 3:33 pm

hi

had our follow up scan this morning and there was still no heartbeat and no growth since last week so we have lost our little one. I've been told to stop taking the pessaries and wait for the m/c to happen naturally, if not have to go in for a d&c. I think this will really make reality set in and make it all so final.

I want to thank you all for your support and words of encouragement and PMA's for me. We are going to take some time out, get xmas over with and hopefully start again in Jan/Feb. I couldn't have got through any of this without you girls.

love & hugs to all
Nimble xx

Casy P · Post by **Casy P** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 3:35 pm

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Take care of both yourselves. Big Hugs.
Sorry just don't have the right words to say x

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 3:37 pm

Nimble,

I am so sorry! I know how you feel and no word can really give you comfort! I am sending you a big HUG! Take care of you and DH! Its just not fair and I have no idea why it had to happen and I know that really sucks!!

I hope you and DH can take time to get away and heal together!!

Lots of love and prayers!!
Jessica

souris · Post by **souris** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 3:56 pm

Hello girls!!

WOOHOO, the list did grow. COngratulation to all!!

Sorry I have been away so long, i did not have internet access and I missed you guys!

I went for my first scan at 7 and half week. I have one baby, measuring 1cm3 and with a heart beat of 152. I am over the moon but I cannot wait until the 12 week scan which seems ages away... I am terrified of loosing the baby and for the moment, I do not really enjoy my pregnancy...

Apart of being extremely tired and feeling nauseous, I am fine. I am not sick for the moment so I cannot complain!!
I arrived this morning in Dubai , where we are going to stay for 4 months (and maybe more but nothing is sure at the moment). So i need to find a good clinic, and hopefully I will find a french gyne.

That s all for now girlies, I am going to bed now.
I will catch up with all your post tomorrow

love to all
souris
xxx

zirly · Post by **zirly** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:05 pm

Nimble,

I am so sorry to hear your news. You and DH are in my thoughts.

Zirly

PebblesUK · Post by **PebblesUK** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:11 pm

Nimble,

I am so so sorry. I wasn't expecting to read that. There's nothing I can say to ease the pain. I'm sending you both a big hug. Here if you need me.

xxxx

jackoa21 · Post by **jackoa21** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:13 pm

Nimble
Please take some time for you and DH and know that we are all thinking of you both. I am so very sorry for your loss. Love and hugs to you both and if you need anything let us know
Love and hugs
Jackie

jackoa21 · Post by **jackoa21** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:14 pm

Souris
Honey its good to have you back. We missed you.. Congrats on your scan.. I know the waiting is hard.. did you get picks..
Love and hugs
Jackie

PebblesUK · Post by **PebblesUK** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:58 pm

I forgot to say the hospital phoned and I am going for my scan on Thursday at midday so technically I am having it earlier than my previous one (that was at 2pm!).

Feeling a bit better. Trip to my mum's was good, makes me realise how much I like being at my house! lol

Hope you are all well.

Jo
xxx

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 5:55 pm

Nimble:

Ive left a message for u in Sept hopes and dreams - but again i'd like to say how sorry i am - words arnet really enough at a time like this, please take time out for urself and DH - spend some quality time together - but dont give up hun, come back when ur feeling up to it, u know we are always here for you...

Im so sorry,

Becky Xxxx

islacraig · Post by **islacraig** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 6:32 pm

Nimble sweetie,

I''ve PM'd you.

Ange x

angelamw · Post by **angelamw** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 10:45 am

Nimble - I am so sorry to hear your news. I went through a very similar situation 10 years ago, after conciving naturally. The heartbreak you feel is awful but I just wanted to say give it time and you will be able to move on.

Take care
Angela

nimble · Post by **nimble** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:34 pm

hi, just wanted to say thank you for your support and kind messages. I feel better than i thought i would emotionally however got a stinking cold yesterday afternoon so suffering more from that at the moment. DR said probably a build of stress from the last few weeks. She has signed me off for 2wks. Now in the waiting game for the m/c.

I still hope that they have made a mistake

Jo - i'm so pleased you got your appt , I will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Souris how lovely to see you back, we have missed you. Hope everything is ok.

hugs
nimble x

jackoa21 · Post by **jackoa21** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 4:33 pm

Nimble
Its good that you are off work. You need some time to take care of yourself and get healthly... I am truly sorry you are going through all of this and please know we are all here for you....

Jo
That is great news that you have your appointment all set now.. Glad that being with mom was good.. Was the drive hard? You said it was a couple of hours right?

For me nothing new.Just feeling normal still.. 12 weeks is approachin soon (next Sunday) I still wish I felt something but I have sore bb's so I guess thats all I get. My next appointment is Nov 17th so I guess until that point I will just grope my own bbs to make sure they stay sore.. i know I am crazy but that is all I have for now.

Lvoe and hugs to you all
Jackie

islacraig · Post by **islacraig** » Thu Oct 26, 2006 4:22 am

Hi Everyone,

JUst a quick one to let you know we had our scan today, and saw the heartbeat....it was the most amazing thing! I asked the specialist what our chance of miscarrying now would be and he said less than 5%...so we are really relieved.

WE have been discharged from the fertility clinic and now in the care of a midwife.

Hope every one else is well

Ange x

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