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Wibbs
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Post by Wibbs »

Sorry Girls<br>I have bad news..............I lost the baby on Saturday 1pm<br>I have to go back to hospital on Monday for a scan but I think this will only confirm its gone.<br><br>To upset at the moment to go into detail and dh is devistated, this is our 3rd mc can't seem to carry them past 6 weeks.<br>Maybe they should put them back after 3 months.<br>anyway dont' now what else to say.<br><br>Take care<br>Love<br>Wibbs<br><br>xxxx
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Post by Traci »

OH Wibbs <br>I havent posted to you before but I would just like to say that I am feeling for you today , how awfull for you to get to that stage each time . I cant imagine the pain, Well take time out to grieve ONCE AGAIN! :( Life just isnt fair somwtimes<br>Heres a big cyber hug{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}<br>Trace x
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Post by JackieT »

wibbs<br>i can't believe it, you both must be in shock and sooo much pain. what a cruel blow to you and DH. i just don't know what to say to make you feel any better, will keep you in my prayers.<br>love jackieT. xxx
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Post by Annie »

Dear Wibbs<br>Im really sorry to hear about your loss. My partner and I are still in shock after our second mc following FET (last monday)I too dont seem to be able to get past 6 weeks ( it failed for us on the same day again, 5 weeks and 4 days)<br>Again my heart goes out to you both <br>love Annie
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Post by fi »

what a cruel cruel world, wibbs i am so sorry for you both, hope you are surrounded by your family and friends,<br>as trace says take time to grieve,<br>thinking of you,<br>luv fi<br>XXXXXXXX
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Post by Kat »

Dear Wibbs, that is so unfair, I can't believe this has happened. You have been so kind to me and you really don't deserve this. I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Look after yourself and your DH and don't forget we are all thinking of you <br>lots of love <br>Kat xx
Me & DH both 41
ICSI #1 - abandoned
#2 - cancelled - DH accident
#3 - 1 transferred, bfn
#4 - 2 transferred, bfn
#5 - abandoned
#6 - no eggs at EC
#7 - DE in Barcelona - bfp but lost Dec'05
#8 - DE UK - bfn
#9 - FET Sept/Oct '07....
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Post by Dagny »

Oh Wibbs, my heart really goes out to you and your DH. You must have a good cry and let all that hurt out. Life sometimes deals us blow after blow, it's so unfair. No one deserves that.<br>I am praying for you and your DH and hope you feel better in time.<br><br>Take good care and rest a lot and be strong.<br>Much love Dagny x
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1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Post by july ann »

oh no it is just not fair.Do not know what to say, so sorry<br><br>from july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july
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i am so very sorry.<br>phil
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Post by Nikola »

Oh Wibbs, no, my dear dear friend. This is absolutely devastating news. I'm so terribly sorry for you and your dh. God this is just awful. How can life be so cruel to one person. I'm so upset for you both, I really don't know what to say. thinking of you both.<br>lots of love and a huge hug<br>nikola.xxxxxx
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Post by SBROWN »

There is nothing I or anyone can say that will make your pain go away....I just want you to know I am thinking of you....<br><br>Sarah<br>xx
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Post by SQUEW »

Wibbs, <br>I am so sorry, its not fair, really dont know what to say.<br>Thinking of you both.<br><br>Sue xx
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Post by kathryn »

dear wibbs, <br>just to let you know Im thinking of you both, its so sad, and so unfair. Im just really sorry.<br>look after yourselves<br>lots of love<br>kathryn<br>x
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Post by Grace »

Dear Wibbs<br><br>Nothing I can say except how truly sorry I am that this has happened. So unfair. I hope you can take some strength from each other. Thinking of you.<br>Gracexx
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Post by Dawn Blake »

Dear Wibbs<br><br>So very sorry to hear your news, take care.<br><br>D x
Me 34, DH, 37. Married for 11 years, ttc for 6+, failed 4 x fresh IVF tmts. 5th attempt at Lister Hospital gave us Megan on 5 April 2004 with a very straightforward pregnancy and labour. Attempt number 6 to start hopefully September 2007!
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