October buddies??

Jen J · Post by **Jen J** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 6:10 pm

Congratulations Ophee!! I am sorry for your OHSS but so happy for you!

Em-Congratulations to you as well! I am sure your positive will keep getting stronger. I caved the day before my blood test and got my positive but I didn't believe it for sure-it's so shocking!! I can't wait to see your official results!

Jen-Good luck with EC on Monday-I'll be thinking of you and wishing you great eggs and excellent fertilization!

Full of Faith-I am so sorry that you got negative HPTs. Has AF arrived? I agree, maybe you have a late bloomer? Hang in there-it's not over until you see AF!

Hope all of you are well!

lori · Post by **lori** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:14 pm

Hi gals,
I got a 2nd opinion and RE thinks I should keep trying. So, I guess good news. He did tell me that he wanted to me to do a 10 week Mind Body Program to help me deal with stress. The bummer is that it doesn't begin until mid January and then it takes 10 weeks. He doesn't want me to start another cycle until I'm done.... i.e April! Has anyone else tried this or know anything about it? It's based on the same program at Harvard in Boston. Let me know.... it kills me to think about waiting 5 months before starting again. So, I'm not sure how I feel about this..... but I do think the program would be helpful.

Lori

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:40 pm

Hey Ladies!

First off I wanted to thank all of you for your wonderful support, I couldn't have made it thru this cycle without you all...

I started spotting on Tuesday and I so happened to be going to the clinic for blood work that day so while I was there they did a scan and saw the sac in the uterus but my hcg had not increased like it should, so they told me to come back today for another scan and beta. I continued to spot off and on and had bleeding yesterday afternoon. When they did the scan today, they could no longer find the sac, so as I suspected I miscarried yesterday... I am a little sad but I am more so frustrated then anything... My doc was out of town so I have a follow up with her on the 13th...

We have not made any decisions as of yet... I know that we have 8 frozen but I am getting emotionally drained from all this... and really ready to move on with my life... We might consider doing the FET cycles if we find the money but we will most likely start the adoption process also... Will not make any major decisions until after the holidays because my clinic shuts down anyway...

Thanks again for everything and I truely wish you all the best.... All of you that have gotten your BFP's I wish you a happy, stress free pregnancy and those of you the did not, I wish you the best in what ever path you decide to take next... I know there is a special plan for each of us and sometimes we have detours and get off track but it will all work out in the end... I have come to the realization that life is like a never ending train ride and sometimes we fall off and sometimes we even get run over but the train of life is going to keep going wither we are on it or not and our part is to jump back on and make to most of it and enjoy what we do have...

Lots of love and prayers
Jessica

thook · Post by **thook** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:48 pm

Jeck- I'm so very sorry to hear your news.... I wish I could jump through the computer right now and give you a HUGE HUG! However, I'm amazed at your strength... I only wish I could be as strong as you. Your right there is a special plan for each and every one of us and the only thing we can do is accept that plan and do the best we can. I wish you all the luck in the world in whatever you & your DH decide to do. Please keep us posted on your plans.... and stay strong (your such a fighter and we all look up to you so much).

Hugs For You....
Tasha

cmoscar · Post by **cmoscar** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:54 pm

Jessica,

I am so very sorry. I worry everyday about this type of problem, because I have had so many. I was so excited to hear your BFP and I am truely grieving with you for your loss. I hope your journey is not over and that God has baby plans for you. Try to remember, I had 5 m/c 's before I had Daniel. That is why he is named Daniel (messenger from God). He was my first angel to appear before me. Your angel is there somewhere and I know you will find it. It might not be in the same place you have been lloking, but you will find it.

I am sending you lots of love, as you need some right now.

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:54 pm

October BFP's!!!!

June/July Babies

thook!!! +ve Oct 3rd!!
1st Scan Oct 20th!!! Went Great!!
cowgirlclass!!!+ve Oct 10th!!
Beta*412* 12dp3dt
Beta*844* 14dp3dt
1st Scan Oct 31st!!!
gina.s!!! +ve Oct 12th!!
1st Scan Nov 2nd!!!
brit10!!! +ve Oct 16th!!
Beta*246* 7dp5dt
cmoscar!!! +ve Oct 17th!!
Beta*86* 13dp2dt
1st Scan Nov 2nd!!!
txpacotaco!!! +ve Oct 18th!!
Beta*75* 11dp3dt?
Beta*1782* 18dp3dt?
Believebaby!!! +ve Oct 19th!!
Beta*132* 12dp3dt
Beta*1365* 16dp3dt
1st Scan Oct 30th!!!
JenJ!!! +ve Oct 23rd!!
Beta*245* 12dp3dt
1st Scan Nov 8th!!!
rparsons!!! +ve Oct 23rd!!
Beta*67* 8dp5dt
Nance!!! +ve Oct 23rd!!
Beta*79.8* 8dp5dt
Ophee!!! +ve Oct 23rd!!
Beta*918* 13dp3dt
BecP!!! +ve Oct 25th!!
Beta*210* 12dp2dt

2WW

leap.of.faith....Testing Oct 19th.....
fulloffaith....ET Oct 14th....Testing Oct 28th.....
shelton....ET Oct 16th....Testing Oct 28th.....
xrayem....ET Oct 18th....Testing Oct 31st.....
jstrandlund....ET Oct 21st....Testing Oct 30th.....
lisa@bellasales....ET Oct 23rd....Testing ??.....

Egg Collection/Egg Transfer

Jen1d...EC Oct 30th....ET Nov 1st....

Stimming

Kolo....IUI!!!
Jen1d....Oct 20th...EC pos wk of Oct 30th!!!

Downregging

Nictor....Oct 2nd.....Buseralin
CasyP ....October 13th.....
Dory....Oct 17th.....Lupron...FET Cycle ET Nov 17th
AMD....Consultation FET cycle....Oct 27th

New Cycle

cheekymonkey Dec. cycle!!!
Aunty Jan. cycle?!?!?!

In Our Prayers!

Lori...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
Haylie...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
Charity...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
Malinka...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
Jenn...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
ampmed1...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!
Jeck...Keeping you in our thoughts & prayers!

cmoscar · Post by **cmoscar** » Fri Oct 27, 2006 9:13 pm

Jessica,

I am sending you a little angel of your own, love.

Ophee · Post by **Ophee** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 3:54 am

Jessica - I am so very sorry for your lost. I really feel so bad about this ... you are so strong and even continue to do the update ... I really want to give you a big bear hug!! Hang in there ... put this behind for awhile and enjoy the holiday before making any new planning.

Keeping you in my thought!!

Ophee

Xrayem · Post by **Xrayem** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 7:34 am

Jessica I am so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself and your DH. Come back to us when you are ready.
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I did another test this morning and got a definate positive. I am in shock! My first thought was OMG, I'm not ready for this - which is silly as I wouldn't have out myself through the last year of tmt if I wasn't.

Good luck to the last of the 2wwers.

Em

Nance · Post by **Nance** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 11:15 am

Jessica -

I am so sorry for your loss. There are things in this world I just don't understand and this is surely one of them. You are an incredibly strong person and I know you will find the strength to get through this. You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers.

xxxoooo
Nancy

jeck · Post by **jeck** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:12 pm

Shelton-- Good luck testing today, I am praying for a strong BFP!!!!

xrayem--Cheater, Cheater, Pumpkin eater!!! I can't wait to hear your numbers on Halloween!!! Good Luck, I am so happy for you, I remember you from your IUI cycles and I am so pleased you were able to do IVF and it has worked for you!!!

Thanks for all the thoughts ladies, I really appreciate it!!!

Jen J · Post by **Jen J** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 3:52 pm

Jessica-I posted to you on the other thread but want to tell you again how very sorry I am for your loss. I am thinking about you and your DH and wishing you the very best.

Em-Congratulations!! I can't wait to see your numbers!!

gina.s. · Post by **gina.s.** » Sat Oct 28, 2006 9:25 pm

jeck- i was so sorry to hear your sad news and can only imagine how disappointed and frustrated you and dh must be. i cannot say anything im sure that will make you feel better but just know that i wish you happiness some day soon. im sure whatever decision you make will be the right one. also you should know that you have made such a difference to peoples ivf experience by being so kind and supportive on this site. please hang around and lets us know how you are. remember the old (but true) cliche that "what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger". xx

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Sun Oct 29, 2006 11:13 am

Oh Jeck, i was so sad to hear your news.

This ivf is so hard and so unfair. Wish i could do something to help you but its true what they say, time does heal and if there is anything positive to come out of your cycles its that you know are able to get pregnant. Your day will come, its just going to take some time. Hang in there buddy and try to stay strong, get pampered and have a rest. You will get your bundle of joy

Love Jen x

nictor · Post by **nictor** » Sun Oct 29, 2006 4:14 pm

Jessica,im so so so sorry for your loss,you've been a true friend to me through these boards,and also with your PM's,nothing i say will help right now,but i do believe that you'll have your own baby to love,you just gotta keep the faith,and it was you yourself that instilled this into me..Im thinking of you and DH..Take care my friend ..Nicola..xx

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