Not my turn

SQUEW · Post by **SQUEW** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 6:31 am

Hi Guys I know I have tested early but I called my clinic on Mon re the discharge and they said I could test today. Any way its negative which is what I suspected, but I must admit after having had a really tearful night with dh on Mon Dagnys fantastic news yesterday, did get my hopes up. However started bleeding last night and like I say negative for me. Seems cyclogest actually brings my af on early! Counting on you now Lesley to end the SCBs on a good note. Feeling pretty grim at the mo,thankfully have today and tomorrow off. Good luck Nikola for your scan, sure you are having twins. Sue xx

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 8:23 am

Sue I know how you must be feeling at the moment but please dont give up hope, look at all the positives...it will be our turn next Take some time out & spend some quality time with your husband Take care Sarah xx

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 8:35 am

Oh Sue I have just left a message on the other thread before reading this one. I really am so sad for you and your DH. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Take care Sue. Much love Dagny x

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 8:46 am

hello sue, so sorry to read your post this morning, thinking of you and your dh. take care and look after yourselves, lots of love kathryn x

Nikola · Post by **Nikola** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 9:01 am

Oh Sue Its really not fair and no matter how much you think you've prepared yourself for getting a -ve result, it always really hurts and nothing can take the pain away. you've been such a good cycle buddie and so supportive to everyone else, I really hoped this would work for you. You should take some time away, watch daytime tv, eat chocolate, have long baths and drink lots of wine and hopefully you'll start to feel a bit better. When you do and are ready to come back for another go, we'll all be here ready to hold your hand and cheer you on. In the meantime take really good care of yourself. love nikola.xx

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 9:12 am

Hey Sue, sorry you got a negative this time, it is just awful and lays you really low for a time. Your turn might take a bit longer but I'm sure it will come. It's such a struggle this IVF and so stressful, you need to take time to get over what the drugs do to you as well. Take Care - lots of love, Jo. XXXX

Di · Post by Di » Wed Oct 08, 2003 12:14 pm

Hi Sue, So sorry to read your news. I'd posted earlier on the SCB7 wishing you all the best before I realised that you'd posted this. Am thinking of you and know the heartache of failure - had 8 failed tmts and a miscarriage at 10 weeks. Am now 7 weeks - so don't give up hope, just give yourself and DH a chance to grieve and come to terms with the loss and then you'll be ready to start again. And as Nikola says (oh, wise one!!!) we'll all be here to support you when you decide that time is! Di

GB · Post by GB » Wed Oct 08, 2003 12:24 pm

Hi Sue! Sorry to hear your news... Don't give up...your time will come! Meanwhile, pamper yourself and take care! Lots of luv Gila x-x-x

Wibbs · Post by **Wibbs** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 5:23 pm

Hi Sue Sorry to hear your news, have some time out with DH and lots of Hugs your time will come and we will all be logging in to read your post saying your are ++++ve, it will happen...I'm sure of it. Take care and get plenty of rest for the next time. Love Wibbs xx

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Wed Oct 08, 2003 7:53 pm

sue so sorry to read your news, i really hoped you were going to be positive, i do hope you will try again, after you have given you and DH time to heal from this. i think this just has got to be one of the most stressful times in our lives, but your time will come soon, and i will be keeping an eye out for you. please take care of each other and don't forget your buddies from time to time.. love jackie xxx

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