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Post by Nikola »

Jackie!!<br><br>They were my wise words - and what fantastic wise words they are too!! Now you listen to me young lady, there will be NO early testing from anyone this next week. You must all WAIT!!! Lesley & Sue this includes you both too! There is nothing to be gained from testing early - if its -ve you feel like sh!t, if its +ve you feel sh!t scared that it might not be true. Now I reckon this means the only outcome of testing early is sh!t, so unless you are all constipated, leave the hpts alone!!!<br><br>Feeling feint and nauseous is an early sign of being pg. So don't write these things off as being bad. Just try to take it easy and relax. Jackie the best thing you can do is go to bed earlier!!! No wonder you are tired you posted at midnight!! I'd been in bed 2 hours by then. <br><br>I've been suffering really bad fatigue, where I need to sleep in the middle of the afternoon. So prepare yourselves for being pg and get lots and lots of rest now!! <br><br>Are you all drinking your water??? Going to the loo a lot?<br><br>Its bloody ages since we've had some good news from the SCB so I'm hoping that you three manage to finish us off with fab news all round!!<br><br>I'm thinking of you all and hoping and praying like mad that you come and join me, wibbs, di and val on the other side!!!<br><br>lots and lots of love and ++++++++ve vibes for you all.<br>nikola.xxxxxxxxxx<br><br>ps I'm here if you need me!
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Hi July Ann<br>Glad your'e back.....keeping an eye on everyone, When are you going on Holiday? is it before Xmas.?<br><br>We need some good old Postivie vibes comming through I have a feeling everyone getting down..........the PMA has to come back!!!<br><br>I watched Maybe baby, made me cry is it on again next week ? I was looking for my car in the car park, not that I have ever seen any film crew when I was there.....I would be sure to have had my Lippy out just in case.<br><br>Take care<br>Love<br>Wibbs<br>xx
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Just been to M&S and came back with 'Percy pigs' and 'percy pigs and pals'. Like the orange sheep best. No molly moos but Durham M&S not very big. My son ( who is nearly 10) bought chocolate to tease me with!<br><br>Is anyone else really tired on the 2WW, I fell asleep at 8.15 last night and slept through till 7.30 this morning! The longest sleep I've had for a long time. I even missed Estenders which is not like me.<br><br>Take care everyone, whatever stage you are on<br><br>Lesley xx
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hi gang<br>nikola thanks for your proverbial kick in the bum.. but you just have to listen one more time.{i sorta promise}<br>the nausea is gone!{maybe it was just down to my mum's bad driving}<br>no AF pains. boobs are not as sore. i just don't FEEL pregnant, i did last week, DH thinks i am not pregnant too, but am not telling him something.<br>i have also got PMT symtoms, ie. mood swings. wind and a period poo{now i know that is too much info}, also what feels like a dragging feeling at the end of my tummy.<br>oh i just feel bad this morning!! am ready to give up now.<br>sorry for being so negative. perhaps i will be better tomorrow<br>take care love jackieT xxx
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Hi Jackie T<br><br>You seem to be having exactly the same symptoms and feelings as me. Last week I felt on top of the moon thinking about my little babes inside me and now I feel really despondant and have had a slight discharge (light brown) and period poo! I felt like testing yesterday and got really angry with everyone including DH. He has been so sweet and I am being such a cow- PMT?? Please dont give up, I wont if you wont. You test 2 days after me so we MUST hang in there.<br><br>Be positive and keep on smiling<br><br>Lots of love<br><br>Dagny xx
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1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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hi everyone<br><br>I'm still reeling from the shock of poor Wibbs' post. Did you all see that she m/c this weekend? This is her third m/c is just so bloody unfair! <br><br>Now listen to me all of you still on 2ww (has this been the longest 2ww ever??) especially Jackie. Do NOT give up. As we are being so graphic and discussing 'period poo' (I thought only I had such a thing!!), if it helps I'm STILL having period poo and I still get occasional period pains even now!<br><br>As far as feeling pregnant - I didn't 'feel' pg once during the 2ww and I never thought for a minute I was pg. Now 2 weeks later, I still don't feel pg! I'm not sure there is a definitive 'pg feeling'. <br><br>Just take it easy, keep drinking the water and get some sleep (jackie!!) and test dates will soon be here. Am I right thinking they are:<br><br>Dagny - 8th<br>Jackie - 10th<br>Sue - 9th<br>Lesley - 9th<br><br>Anyone else???<br><br>Now remember, right now you are all pg, keep thinking healthy positive thoughts and I hope you all get the confirmation you all deserve this week!!!<br><br>lots of love to each of you<br>nikola.xxxx<br><br>
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Just checking up on my cycle buddies..<br><br>Period Poo!!!! what on earth is that???<br><br>Come on girls, you know the drugs mask any PG feelings, try & stay positive....<br><br>Good luck to you all<br><br>Sarah<br>xx
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Hi Girls<br><br>Worried now, I am not getting period poo, and what the hell is it?!?<br><br>Like Dagny had a bit of a scare last night/this morning as had a brown discharge and thought my period had started. Seems to have stopped now tho so dunno what that was all about. <br><br>Cant believe poor Wibbs post, that is awful, life really is a sh!t at times. Cant imagine how devisated she must feel.<br><br>Would at least like to get to Thurs to test without a period, even though I am not feeling any more +ve. <br><br>Hope you girls Dagny, Lesley and Jackie are all ok. <br><br>Sue xx(only 4 more bloody pessaries to go!)
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Sue<br><br>I wouldn't worry about period poo! You will have it, but perhaps haven't been so vulgar as to give it a name, unlike some....!!!<br><br>I have some bad news for you, the pessaries won't stop on Thursday if you are pg!!! You will have to carry on with them - what joy.<br><br>Discharge is normal - ignore it. YOu are still here and test day is looming......keeping everything crossed<br><br>love nikola.xx<br><br>ps sarah - good to see you posting and keeping an eye on everyone too! I'm glad, I can't keep them +ve on my own! They are hard work, this lot!!!
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hi girls <br>have to say this post has really cheered me up this afternoon, i fell around laughing at the discussion about period poo{ even though it was me who started it}yes nikola, i know i am vulgar for mentioning it but...}<br>yes we are all going to be fine. we are all going to get +++ results. we are all going to have lovely little babies. is that positive enough for you nikola and sarah????<br>have to go now<br>speak soon love jackieT xxx
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hello girls<br><br>I just wanted to say Happy Monday to everyone and a special fingers crossed to everyone testing this week! The last of the SCBs. Now we've had enough sad news for one month, so I'm expecting lots of ++++++++ves and for you to come and join me - its lonely on the other side without you all!! <br><br>Lesley -how was the wedding? Hope you stayed sober!<br>Jackie how is the period poo?<br>Dagny/Sue how is the discharge?<br><br>My morning sickness kicked in this weekend, so period poo and discharge is not a good discussion point for me at the moment....<br><br>Keeping everything crosed.<br>love nikola.xxxxxx
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Hi Nikola,<br><br>Wedding do was nice but I wasn't really in the mood. Couldn't find anything to wear, lost temper with Hubby and kept crying.<br><br>I'm convinced Thursday will be -ve. Got all the signs of PMT, depressed, crying alot and hate my job and boss. Been getting funny pains last night and had to take paracetamols which I didn't want to take.<br><br>Did you feel like this? I really want to test myself before Thursday but I know I can't so don't tell me off!<br><br>I'll try and be more cheerful tomorrow, at least the wait is nearly over.<br><br>Go for blood test on Thursday morning but don't know when or how I get results, if the clinic are to ring, DH will have to take the call, I won't cope. <br><br>Hello to Dagny, Sue and Jackie hope you are having a better time with it all than me.<br><br>Lesley xxx
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Hang in there Lesley, try & stay positive, just concentrate on yourself & your embies at the moment, stuff your boss & your job at the moment, they are way down your list of priorities!!<br><br>Good luck for thursday & good luck to jackie, Sue & Dagny<br><br>Take care all<br>Sarah<br>xx
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hi girls<br>no nikola i am not still up, i have just woken up and can't get back to sleep so thought i would do something more enjoyable than ironing!!!<br>can anyone believe wibbs story? is'nt it brill? and also sad at her loss. they must be afraid to breathe.<br>lesley i hope you have cheered up a little, saying that i too have the same symptoms as you, but it's likes wibbs story, it ain't over till you know who is singing.<br> iam now totally leaving it in the man above's hands, i am trying to belive if it's for me, it will happen.<br>i am not listening to my body anymore{it lies}<br>the more i read everybody's stories, the more i am convinced there are no classic signs and we just have to wait and see.<br>my DH is totally convinced it has not worked and has been so snappy since sunday morning. i think he is pulling away from me to protect himself from bad news on friday. i can;t get through to him that we still might get a positive, so i have decided to leave him in his cave.<br>anyway going to go back to bed to try and get some sleep.<br>take care everyone, love jackie xxx<br>p.s all the +++++++++++++++++vibes in the world to us now.
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hello all<br><br>I'm taking time out from saying hello to the big white telephone! <br><br>Jackie I'm starting to like your philosophical attitude. Its exactly how I was during 2ww. Dh and I had both written it off as a none starter and now look at me being sick like its going out of fashion!! I had to keep saying to him during the second week, you know it might work and he would say don't be stupid and don't get excited. So I didn't.<br><br>Lesley, whilst I was on my 2ww I went out for dinner with friends and nothing would fit and felt fat, ugly and spotty (to be fair, I didn't just feel it, I actually was all of these things!) Then when I got to the restaurant I couldn't have half the things on the menu! So by the time I came home I was in a right old strop with myself. Its NORMAL, I promise you.<br><br>Try and look at it like this, you've done everything you can possibly do to make this thing work. Its out of your control now!! For someone like me who is a bit of a control freak, this is not an easy concept to deal with!! Just try and sit back and see what happens.<br><br>I promise you nothing good will come out of testing early. Whatever the result it will not make you feel any better - it will either send you into even more of a panic or a fit of depression. Leave hpts well alone!!<br><br>I really feel for you all and if I could do anything to help I would. If it makes you feel any better, once you get past this stage you then have another 2ww which is equally horrendous until you have your first scan, because until you see something on the screen no matter how many hpts you do, you still don't believe it!!<br><br>Its a big week for the SCBs and I'm thinking of each and every one of you and hoping like made that we have some more good news (like Wibbs' miracle!) to celebrate!!!<br><br>love nikola.xxx
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