NOV 06 IVF girls....

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cheekymonkey
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Post by cheekymonkey »

Hi All,

I am just back for a quick update, I know I have not been on much lately but everytime I come on with the intention to write to you all I have about 6 pages of posts to catch up on and then dont get time and so I have just checked the list and will work from that today!

To all of those who have got a BFN I am so sorry for you all and I hope that you will soon be able to have another go or give yourself sometime away from it all and just spoil yourself for a while! I know it is annoying to read but you have to try and stay positive and believe it will work one day! (for all of you who want to hit me for writing that then go ahead)!! I am wishing you all the best!! :)

To all of those who have got a BFP, Congratulations!!!! you must really be over the moon, I am so happy for you and I hope that I will one day join you on the road to motherhood!! I really hope that you all have a happy and healthy 9 months and enjoy the rest of your life with you bundle of joy! :D

I just wanted to say a quick CONGRATULATIONS to Angellica, I read that you did a hpt and got a positive, I truely hope that it is correct and can't wait to see your BFP from your BW!! You have had a real hard time recently and truly deserve a BFP! I will keep everything crossed for you and will be checking out for your post!! Also thank you for the information on the accupuncture, I got the same kind of reaction from other people I spoke to and dont think that it would make much difference at this late stage!!

Well that is all for now, I will try and do more personals later but there is just too many of us!!

I go in for a scan tomorrow to see how many follies there are so I will try and update you on that tomorrow!!

Take Care
Cheeky Monkey :D
Me 27 PCOS DH 28 TTC 5 years
6 clomid 03-04 -BFN /
3 IUI's 05 - 2 Cnx & 1 BFN
1st IVF 06 - Cnx (OHSS)
2nd IVF 06 - Freeze All
1st FET 07 - BFP - M/C 5wks
2nd FET 07 - BFN
3rd IVF 07 - Freeze All
3rd FET 08 - BFN
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noodle
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Post by noodle »

KF'06-waiting for your results!!!bated breath and all that jazz!
Wannababy- how's the 2WW? does having the holidays to worry about help?
Mia-enjoy being with your mom.
Cheekymonkey-grow follies grow!
8-) ME 37/ DH 34 TTC 8 yearsIUI 2, IVF 2, M/C 9w 1/07 BFP while waiting to start July 07 cycle
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Bubby101
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Post by Bubby101 »

Hey Girls,

It's a BFN for me. I am shocked. They tell me that there is nothing wrong with me but it is hard for me to believe. We will talk to the Dr next week to go over things. I will defiantly do it again. DO you think I did anything wrong. Maybe I didn't rest enough. I don't know. I will keep you all posted with what the Dr says. Good luck to you all.

Kristin
DW26 DH 36
2nd IVF May/ June BFP 1st Beta 129,2nd 715, 3rd 1325
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M'BA
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Post by M'BA »

Kristin,

I am SO sorry!!! :cry: I am so sad. That's the way this process goes, sometimes there is no explanation for what happens. I am sure you did everything fine...just take care of yourself, and spoil yourself rotten!!! Glad to hear that you will go for another try...second time will be the charm for you!!! :wink:
Keeping the faith!
Me-25 DH-45

1st IVF- cancelled
2nd IVF- BFP!!!!
2nd Scan: 12/8 Get to see the heartbeat!
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Malinka
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Post by Malinka »

Kristin,
I am so sorry for your BFN. When I got my BFN doctor said it is just a bad luck, she was so sure it would work, because there is nothing wrong with me.

Please stay strong, I hope next one will be a lucky one!
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noodle
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Post by noodle »

Bubby-that sucks, i'm so sorry, next time will be it for sure. did the DR say when you could start again?
8-) ME 37/ DH 34 TTC 8 yearsIUI 2, IVF 2, M/C 9w 1/07 BFP while waiting to start July 07 cycle
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Bubby101
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Post by Bubby101 »

I am going to take a couple of months off. I want to lose another 15 lbs.
DW26 DH 36
2nd IVF May/ June BFP 1st Beta 129,2nd 715, 3rd 1325
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noodle
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Post by noodle »

BUBBY- I did the same thing between cycles, it felt so good to get all the meds out of my system and get body back in shape. make the most of the time between because next time it's BFP only!
8-) ME 37/ DH 34 TTC 8 yearsIUI 2, IVF 2, M/C 9w 1/07 BFP while waiting to start July 07 cycle
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anyaf
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Post by anyaf »

BUddy I am so sorry about your BFN... :cry: Try not to blame yourself...Its like my doctor said - if they new what causes the implantation not to occure they would have the 100% rates of success. SO sorry again.
1st IVF
ER 11/05/06
ET 11/08/06
Pregnancy Test on 11/20/06
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meg12
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Post by meg12 »

Sorry doesn't begin to cover it. So, how about "life is just f'ing unfair!!!!!" :twisted:
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sassynlv
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Post by sassynlv »

Hey ladies...
Ellie: So happy for you..a little girl! what a great gift for Thanksgiving!

Sita: congrats on the ET. Enjoy the holidays and hope it makes the 2ww go faster (good luck, i know!)

Bubby: Total bummer on your BFN. I'm so sorry. I've been there and it totally sucks. Unfortunately, I have nothing to say that will make it better. Don't beat up on yourself, you did nothing wrong! Please be good to yourself, I usually take about 3 days to cry whenever i feel like it, eat whatever i want, etc. In short, i try to only do what i want when i want, etc. Pamper yourself for a few days.

Jovigal: Good luck tomorrow! Hoping for good news!

Skidoo: Good luck on ER (today, right?) hoping they get all/most of those 14 follies.

Mia: enjoy your mother's visit. I will look forward to hearing exactly when you get to start :D

Sorry no more personals. was going to wait until after thanksgiving, but as there were already 3 pages since i posted last, thought it would take me a week to read everything if i waited a few days! I love that this thread is so active.

So to all those 2ww'ers..keep the faith. To all those ER/ET'ers...grow embies grow! Baby dust to all! Thanks for all of your support on my most recent BFN. I am so appreciative for a place to vent as needed to people that actually KNOW what i am talking about. I am no longer crying spontaneously, always a good sign.... :D

Wishing everyone a thoughtful thanksgiving. With my recent BFN, I have found that concentrating on the many things i have to be thankful for in my life has really helped. I had been obsessing on the one type of relationship i DON'T have in my life, instead of the many beautiful relationships that I DO have. Happy Thanksgiving to all!!!!
6 fresh IVFs plus one cancelation
Last Chance FET--- Pregnant with triplets!
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cinders101
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Yippeee!!!!!

Post by cinders101 »

Hi all!

I'm so excited!!! I just got a call from my RE and I had 16 eggs that fertilized!!! I'm just glad that hopefully I will have a lot to freeze!!!

Good luck to all!!
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M'BA
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Post by M'BA »

16 eggs!!! WOW that is great!!! Congrats!!
Keeping the faith!
Me-25 DH-45

1st IVF- cancelled
2nd IVF- BFP!!!!
2nd Scan: 12/8 Get to see the heartbeat!
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Sarah V
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Post by Sarah V »

Kristin - I agree with Meg- things can be just so unfair, I am so sorry. :( I hope you and your DH take it easy. Dont be hard on yourself and remember you have youth on your side. Good luck with 2007.

Anya and Ellie - congrats with your BFPs - you give us hope!
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elliecat
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Post by elliecat »

Bubby Life is so unfair. I am so sorry for your BFN. I am sure you have done nothing wrong please don't blame yourself. I think it is a good idea to take time to get the meds out of your system and to have time to yourself. I will be thinking of you. xxxx
Ellie x
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ttc 6 years
1 mc 1997
IVF/ICIS june 06 in spain -ive
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