My baby died... There was no more heartbeat on my 12 weeks scan yesterday. Although we saw a heartbeat 5 days ago ( I asked for a quick scan because for some reason I was worried), the baby was measuring only 9/10 weeks, and the heart must have stop a few days back. We were not expecting that at all, big shock. I have not had any bleeding, lil one seems to like it up there, so a D&C is very recommended.
I feel numb, was hoping to wake up this morning from a bad nightmare...
I will be back on the board on the treatment side as soon as possible. Waiting again... and with a little space in my heart for my baby.
xxx
souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
My deepest deepest heartfelt condolences. My heart absolutely goes out to you. So very very sorry to hear your news. I know words are of little comfort, but sending you heartfelt hugs.
Mel
ME: 31 DP: 36
TTC: 6 yrs
Tubal damage - failed surgery Aug 04
1st IVF: Nov 05 -ive
1st FET: Mar 06 BFP!
Maia Ella Rennie, born 8 nov 9.49am
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Thank you all, I replied to everyone posts on the general forum. Thank you so much for your kind words
xxx
souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
No words will be of real comfort to you - it's a horrible thing for anyone to endure, particularly for us when we have already fought so hrad to get there in the first place.
Take it easy, love each other and most of all take time to grieve and heal. Things will get better - I promise.
My thoughts are with you and your dh
Zoe
1st IVF - Easter 2002 - neg
2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
3rd IVF Summer 2003 - pos with beautiful baby boy
April 2006 - miracles happen - positive naturally day after receiving IVF letter to start again! Another beautiful boy