Dory testing 1st Dec

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Post by CarolynB »

Oh Rachel

Have been thinking of you all day and looking out for your news.

I am so very very sorry. This is so cruel and unfair.

Have an amazing year in the US and I know that you'll be a totally fab Mum when you are back in the UK and adopt.

You are an inspiration to me.

Huge hugs to you & dh.
Lots of Love
Carolyn xxx
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Post by lara312 »

Rachel i'm so sorry i wish you all the best in what you decide to do in the future and hope that your dreams come true one day sending you and dh hugs dont forget we are always here if you want us .
love Rachel
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Rachel im so sorry i was praying so hard this was your time
your also an amazing woman and have been such a wonderful support to anyone in need

enjoy your year ahead have a wonderful time wishing you luck with your adoption i just know some child is going to be very lucky to have you and your DH as mommy and daddy

wishing you all the good stuff love Aunty
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Post by Jovigal »

Rachel, so sorry. I really thought this would be your time. God has a special plan for you and your DH. hang on, be strong.
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Post by wannababy1229 »

Oh Dory--I don't know what to say except that you epitomize strength and courage. Thank for you for your support over the past few months. I'm sorry that this has happened to you, but glad that you have a plan B. Nurture your soul while you heal and take care of yourself!
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Post by samandaw1 »

I am so sorry as this was truly your turn. I have a brother who is adopted and our family feels blessed every day that he is in our lives. A mother is a mother is a mother. Keep in touch and heal that body and heart!

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Post by Angie65 »

I am so sorry for your news Dory - I wish you and your DH nothing but the best with whatever you decide to do. A xx
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Post by suzhan »

So very sorry this time was not successful for you Dory. Thank you for your ongoing knowledge, expertise and support of the many women on this board. I hope you and DH will find comfort in your next steps and wish you all the best. Take care of yourself,

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Post by gbnut »

rachel

I am so sorry to here your news. I dmire both you and your husband and just wish i had as much strength that you have. your are an inspirational lady. Best of luck in the future.

Susan x
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Post by AMck »

Rachel, so sorry to see your news. Take care of yourself and DH.

Hugs

Anna x
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Post by Macca8 »

Rachel,

Sorry to hear the news honey. Enjoy the rest of the time in US and with hubby because when you come back to England you will be very busy accomodating your new son/daughter. Remember you are already a mum, you're just one without a child at the moment and that perfect child will find you very soon.

I wish you luck in everything you do sweetie. Thanks for being such a great lass to all of us here.

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Post by Smita »

Words cant say how sorry i am that this cycle didnt work out for you.
God has his plan for you- just that things will fall into plce a little later.
Big hugs,
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Post by Sully »

Rachel

Am so sorry to hear your news, big hugs to you and DH

Sully
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Post by Dory »

I just want to thank all you wonderful ladies for you kind words of support....

I thought when i got told that i couldn't have children of my own i would be a blubbering wreak, but surprisingly, i'm not as bad as i thought i would be...

I think maybe it's because we have a plan and there is still something to look forward too...Plus we have probably got more of a chance of adopt an infant child if not a baby, than we have, having a child of our own, and knowing that is keeping me going.............

As i have said before, you are all very couragous and amazing people to go through all of this. i admire you all so much, especailly the ladies that go through it again and again and again to get there dream, YOU ARE EXCEPTIONALLY STRONGWILLED AND INCREDIBLE WOMEN!!!!!!!!

I AM SO VERY VERY PROUD OF YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want to congratulate all the very lucky ladies who got a BFP, while i have been around. It is amazing how many of you are over half way there, if not ready to drop or have had you beautiful baby. It has flown by so quickly.

To all you BFN, you are in my heart and prayers, PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP You will all be blessed one way or another.

I'm not going away for ever, but i need some time away from having babies on the brain, i need to rebuild myself, ready for our next big feat...

I wish you all loads of luck for the future and pray you all get the BFP's you all so deserve.

Take care
Love and huge hugs to you all...
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