9 week scan ...baby is dead

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9 week scan ...baby is dead

Post by Fingers crossed »

Hi Girls

Had our 9 week scan this morning and the baby has died between now and the 7 week scan ...we are so upset and I am having a d and c in the morning...need some strength...thought that we were finally there.

love Fingers Crossed

xxx
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Post by cowgirlclass »

I am so sorry! I can not even imagin the pain you are going through! My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is hard to believe this process can be so crule. And that happening is the crulest! I hope you are able to heal quickly from this pain.

Take care,
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Post by MLG »

I'm so sorry! Just can't imagine what you are going though. :cry:
Please give yourself some time (and permission) to grieve.

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Post by Smita »

Fingers Crossed,
Words cant take away your pain or emptiness, but I just want to say how sorry I am :(
I hope you can p[ick up the pieces soon . If you need an online shoulder, please feel free to use mine.
Many hugs,
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Post by Nance »

I am so sorry for your terrible loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Post by elliecat »

I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling but please know you are in my thoughts.
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Post by jamato253 »

Hi hunny,

I am so sorry for you and DH - I know that there are no words that can give you any relief and your journey for healing will beging soon...Please don't give up hope and know that your Angel baby will now be watching out for you and your next baby - just as my precious Connor has watched out for me and Logan....Warm wishes and hugs
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Post by michelleb »

I am experiencing your pain as well. The only thing that has gotten me through is my DH. I am soooo sorry about your loss.
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Post by crasmus »

i'm so sorry for your loss. I know that there is nothing but time to help heal your wound... please take care of yourself!!!

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