Just wanted to tell you that we had our 9 week scan today and the baby has died since our 7 week scan. I am having a D and C tomorrow..we are so shocked...we are so upset....the future is just a blur.
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Fingers Crossed
Sad news..such a shock
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Sad news..such a shock
DH. 32 ME. 30 DH HAD MUMPS VERY LOW COUNT. ME NO PROBLEMS BUT HARD TO STIMULATE..WE THINK!
4 X ICSI - 2 X BFN 2 X BIO CHEMICAL 2001-2006
2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN
1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
4 X ICSI - 2 X BFN 2 X BIO CHEMICAL 2001-2006
2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN
1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
Oh No Fingers Crossed. I am so sorry for your news. My heart is broken for you 
Take time to heal. I know its so hard for this kind of loss. Nothing I can say will make it better.
Please know that we are hear for you. Take care of yourself.
You are in my prayers,
Hugs
Jackie xoxox
Take time to heal. I know its so hard for this kind of loss. Nothing I can say will make it better.
Please know that we are hear for you. Take care of yourself.
You are in my prayers,
Hugs
Jackie xoxox
5 IVF, 2FET=3Chemical +
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FIngers crossed
I lost my baby 2 weeks ago, he died between a 11weeks2 days scan and 12 weeks scan! As you, it was a big shock( I guess you did not bleed either?) , and I understand your pain, your fears for the future , your anger. It is just not fair, and there is nothing we can do about it which makes things worse and leave us feeling helpless. I hope I can help by saying that the physical pain from the D&C will be minimal, the emotional pain and heartbreak is something else... Please if you have the opportunity and if you need, do not hesitate to seek counselling. Someone told me this, and I thought I did not did counselling as I seemed to cope alright with the lost, and now, 2 weeks after the D&C I feel very bad, scared for the future and just sad...
I will Pm you
Be strong
love
souris
I lost my baby 2 weeks ago, he died between a 11weeks2 days scan and 12 weeks scan! As you, it was a big shock( I guess you did not bleed either?) , and I understand your pain, your fears for the future , your anger. It is just not fair, and there is nothing we can do about it which makes things worse and leave us feeling helpless. I hope I can help by saying that the physical pain from the D&C will be minimal, the emotional pain and heartbreak is something else... Please if you have the opportunity and if you need, do not hesitate to seek counselling. Someone told me this, and I thought I did not did counselling as I seemed to cope alright with the lost, and now, 2 weeks after the D&C I feel very bad, scared for the future and just sad...
I will Pm you
Be strong
love
souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
Oh you poor girl. I can imagine you are absolutely devastated. I have been through this a few times also. My first one been the worst at 14 weeks and like you I only found out on a scan.
I am so sorry honey and I will prayer that you heal well enough to try for a child again.
Lisa XXX
I am so sorry honey and I will prayer that you heal well enough to try for a child again.
Lisa XXX
Me 37, DH 51
Twin Boys - Sean Alexander & Samuel Robert
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Twin Boys - Sean Alexander & Samuel Robert
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sorry
Bless you both. I am so sorry to read your news. Big hugs to you both x
Still trying x
me 34 , dh 36.
ttc nearly 9 years
6 failed ivf ( 4 fresh, 2 frozen, 3 with egg share)
me - tubal damage
Had tubes removed Dec 06
7th attempt start April 07
me 34 , dh 36.
ttc nearly 9 years
6 failed ivf ( 4 fresh, 2 frozen, 3 with egg share)
me - tubal damage
Had tubes removed Dec 06
7th attempt start April 07
Fingers Crossed
I am so very sad for you & your dh. This is so very unfair.
I know nothing that we can say will help but we are all here for you.
Sending you huge hugs.
Love
Carolyn xxx
I am so very sad for you & your dh. This is so very unfair.
I know nothing that we can say will help but we are all here for you.
Sending you huge hugs.
Love
Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
Surrogacy/FET #8 - 15.10.2008 - BFP
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Surrogacy/FET #8 - 15.10.2008 - BFP
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