hi
i had been on my first icsi cycle with negative result. I did the test today. Feeling so bad. Dont know how i am going to cope up. The doctors asked us to wait for fourty five days to start the next cycle. I am not sure how iam going to handle myself on that. Really worried. Just sat and cried for so long . is 45 days necessary. pls help.
Hi Madhusri,
I can understand how u r feeling. Just cry whenever u feel like. U'll feel better after that. I was in a similar situation with my first IVF. I cried and cried for weeks.
Yes I think after all the medications our body needs to recover. Therefore 45 days is ok. Soon u'll be able to start next cycle. I know the waiting period is difficult. In my case I have to wait for 3-4 full months. Same as u I wanted to start ASAP. But I think it's good that I waited. Physically I feel much strong now then 1 month back. I'll be starting in jan-Feb timeframe.
Try to find out what happened and why it didn't work from ur Dr and How u can make it work in next cycle.
Take care,
Champa
- Champa -
1st IVF cycle w/ICSI, Ectopic Pregnancy
2nd IVF cycle- BFN
Age 32 - DH 31
High FSH (12.8 ), Wheatgrass shots since 3/2006
I know how you feel. AF just came for me 8 days after ET so I'm now just waiting for confirmation of a BFN (expecting the call in the next couple of hours). Have been crying on and off since. It must get better though! I just want to get on and have another go as soon as possible.
I know it's very difficult, I just went through my 1st. IVF with a BFN less than 2 weeks ago. I'm still very depressed, but I'm trying to keep my chin up. The call from the nurse was the worse, I kinda felt it wouldn't be positive because of the way I felt but I hadn't gotten AF yet so I was keeping hope.
I wanted to do the 2nd one next month, but I have to wait until Feb because my dr. wants me on the pill for one month. So since I already had AF this month, I have to wait until January to start the process. I hate this whole waiting thing.
The holidays are usually so gloomy for me and DH, and now during this time it's just worse. We thought we would have some wonderful Christmas news and didn't. We just aren't in the Christmas spirit at all.
Me 35
DH 36
Trying to conceive almost 6 years!
Unexplained Infertility
Lots of IUI's
1st IVF - Nov 2006 BFN
2nd IVF - Feb 2007 BFN
Hi madhushri,
well I just got the bad news today it was my 3rd ivf I had 5 mature eggs and none fertilized after icsi.
Dont feel bad its just some things are not in our hands
were just starting our second IVF in may after a failed 1st try back in xmas2005 our doc recommended we take break to give my body a rest both pyshically and mentally.Not only was i devasted from my BFN but the thought of waiting a whole year to try again well as you can emagin didnt bare thinking about dnt think i stopped crying for days. But the days turned into months and well it got easier and to be honest im so much stronger and relaxed now after this wait.Fortunatly you dont have to long to wait so take time to cry and cry it really does help. But you will be stronger after this wait going straight back into it could make you all the more worse if it doesnt work again you need to get the meds out your system and have chance of being yourself of the meds for a while to take a look at thinks with a drug free mind lol
hugs to you i no its sounds hard now trust me i know but it will get better it just takes time
mom20
We just aren't in the Christmas spirit at all.