Just got BFN for 1st FET

[mcmillac]

Hi everyone

Will my period came bang on time on Sat so Im out for this month. We will try again end of Jan.

I really was hopeful as I experienced cramping and had bad stitch/sore abdomen the first 7 days and I thought this was the embryo implanting - has anyone else experienced this cramping and it has resulted in a BFN?

I am worried now that I may have implantation problems or something like natural killler cells that is preventing the embryos from implanting(yes, I am going crazy worrying about this!!!).

Also, I am concerned about the day our clinic done the transfer......I have a 28 day cycle and this was natural FET so we believe I ovulated on day 14. They put back 2 day fertilized embryos on day 15 of my cycle - should it not have been day 16 to coincide with the age of the embryos? Does a day really matter?

I know I am looking for answers that no-one can really answer but I was just wondering if anyone else had any thoughts on this

Kirstyxxx

[tonyacheek24]

I don't know how to answer your questions but I will say don't give up. My first cycle I had all good eggs and didn't get pregnat I did a second IVF attempt and they were going to cancel all together but I just put my faith in god and went on with the cycle anyway and now I have a beautiful daughter which I named Faith and she'll be four months december 24th so don't give up.

Keep trying

[bekkie31]

yeah dont give up!!

My first IVF failed in October of this year. Before retrying I am having a laproscopy to check to see if everything else is ok. Have you had that? They can check to see if the uterus is ok and the tubes etc... I hope to retry with IVF in Feb or March. IVF is difficult to go through and takes lots of strength to move on after it fails - but we can do it! If you get down in ther dumps we are all here to help.

Luv Bekki

me 31 dh 35
TTC since 2000
Ectopic feb 20005 - removal of left tube
1st IVF October 2006 - BFN
laproscopy planned for January.

[sat14]

Hi Kristyxx,
I just had a failed cycle and a BFN yesterday. Don't give up hope. I am here for you! My birthday is Valentine's Day so I know it will work this time for all of us! We will have the sweetest babies ever.
Happy Holidays and let's remember, we can enjoy the holidays now without having to worry about eating shrimp and drinking eggnog(spiked that is) and red wine!!! Let's party and move on to Feb!

[mcmillac]

Thanks everyone for your kind messages. I'm feeling much better now and a little more positive, although I do still have a nagging feeling in my mind that something aint right with me.

We have an app with our clinic on 9th Jan so I will be discussing everything with them and yes Bekkie I think I wil get a lap done just to put my mind at rest.

I hope we all get your BFPS soon! Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas

Love Kirstyxxx