Becky big big hugs to you i miss your nutty helpful (welsh bugger) self its so good to read you, your so sweet but you have been as great to me always making me laugh keeping my mind off those thoughts i will send you an email big hugs.....
Mizma Hi and a great big welcome i am so sorry you didnt get your little one this time please know you will have many prayers and hugs as you move forward ...i know you know me but im going to say something "Aunty style" so feel free to ignore....see post to you....hugs
Mom sooo funny awww not at you but ooo hangover hey waas it worth it?? im sure it was i hope you had a great time
TC and Lori if i have it right and forgive me if i dont ...Congratulations on starting your egg food woohoo come on grow follies grow...all behind you on this
Ange one of our mommies in waiting..big hug little kiss for your little one/s i am so sorry about your Uncle your so right what a week sending prayers to your father
Beta is the number they give you in your blood count when you get your BFP i like to write the betas if we have them because when we all start to get our BFP's its nice to compare (take our minds off some of the worrying about bloods / scans) ??DaysPost??Day Transfer...sorry i forgot what yours was...forgive
Sassy hey how are you feeling?...no im afraid my clinic is different to all of yours so my wording is confusing..my clinic call the day 3 scan and bloods baseline then the one you do after taking Lupron they call Surpression check if surpressed i start stimming so have to wait till around Jan 19th to start Lupron 29th ish for stimms 7th feb EC 10th ET....but im getting there
love to all Aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
BEC oooo i hope with all my heart we get you as our next addition to the Mommy's in waiting thinking of you i have had everything crossed for a few days now ..ooo so excited
love Aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
Mizma im so sorry i didnt reply sooner i have been swamped with christmas stuff...but i wanted to say i am sorry your didnt get your BFP this time ..and all the things you wrote in your first message about maybe God didnt think you would be a good mother and then blaming everyone and noone for this not working ...i have done the exact same things even to not too long ago talking to my MIL saying God has a better view and maybe he can see from where he is that i would make a bad mom so he isnt going to give me my blessing...ooo also maybe i was someone really bad in my last life and im being punished in this one...
My Aunty comments coming up feel free to skip....i believe that everything happens for a reason we cant always see why at first i have a friend who like you didnt want to wait and did IVF she didnt get her little one and set up to do another cycle when she went for her baseline they called her she was pregnant all by herself now like you i think that maybe IVF was the push her body needed to help it along the drugs from an IVF cycle stay in your body for months after so you will be mass producing lots of nice big follies while your waiting and maybe just maybe one will sneak through and you can be our BFP old fashond way... mmmm stress im sorry i dont agree at all i used to think stress would effect getting pregnant but not any more i have cycled with too many ladys who go through amazing amount of stress (some not IVF related) while doing a cycle and have all got BFP's ... i really do think our little ones dont really care how stressed we are they are they will do what they need to do later on in pregnancy stress can bother your baby but not early on so please dont beat yourself up you have done nothing wrong being stressed will not change the outcome it just makes the journey a lot harder im not saying dont reduce your stress if you can just dont think you cause a BFN by being stressed....wishing you a big baby belly very soon....hope you dont mind me waffeling on..
love Aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
I do agree that stress is not the reason why people do or don't get pregnant but I really was told to relax. That it doesn't help with health.
I want you to know that what you wrote (what all of you wrote) has really touched me. I try to not stress my DH anymore. He is so positive now about everything. Saying that we both need to just say Better luck next time. I get a phone call about 2-3 times every month from friends telling me that they're pregnant (may be its b/c most of my friends that are Drs are like me finishing with apecializing ect) and to be honest no matter how happy I am for them, I always feel worse for me afterwards. I have no real friends here. All my other friends are busy having babies and my best friend and family live so far away that I can't talk to them about this. I am so happy that I have found all of you. You have really helped me emtionally. I will admit sometimes I think that I shouldn't read the posts b/c I honestly cry everytime one of you gets a BFN even if I don't know you. I stress and think of all of you on the day you test and say a prayer. I get happy for all of you that have BFPs and think that there is hope. I realize that many of you do the same. All of you with your support have really helped me these past 2 days. I feel like I do have someone to talk to.
Whoo whoo bec thats fantastic news what a fab christmas present i hope that you will take it easy over christmas and let dh do it all .
Ladies Merry christmas and here's hoping to loads more BFP's till the end of the year and into 2007
hugs to you all enjoy your christmas
love Rachel x x
after 8 yrs of trying 2failed ivf 1 m/c and 2 miracles