Negative - again

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 4:02 pm

Hi All Sorry to say I had a negative again. started bleeding this morning so phoned the clinic, they told me to go ahead and do the test straight away as I was over the 12 days. the test was negative so I go back on Monday for a scan to make sure there are no cysts then start the clomid and gonal F again. I must admit I'm pretty down I know I wasn't overly positive but part of me wanted to be proved wrong. I have 3 more attempts at IUI and then we go for egg donation so I must try and get positive for the next cycle. thankyou to all who have supported me through this I am very grateful and will be watching all the OCB's over the next few weeks to see how your getting on. Marycam good luck tomorrow I really hope you are positive! well tonight I'm going to dring a vat of bailey's and lay in the bath until I go pruney. take care Aly xx

gem · Post by **gem** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 4:06 pm

Aly So SORRY to hear your news I'l be thinking of your dh and you. Take care Love Gemxxx P.s have a baileys for me I love the stuff.

Lisa_P · Post by **Lisa_P** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 5:17 pm

Aly I was really upset to read your news, so sorry, I'm sure -ives don't get any easier. Enjoy your baileys ( I wish I could!) have some qualitiy time with dh and take care Love Lisa x

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 5:57 pm

I am so sorry Aly It's just not fair is it? Enjoy your bath and bottle of Baileys you deserve a big indulgance. Keep your chin up. Take care of yourself and your DH. Love Dagny x

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 6:09 pm

Sorry to hear your news Take care and enjoy your Baileys, Love Lorraine G

MEL B · Post by **MEL B** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 6:32 pm

DEAR ALY So so sorry.Take care of yourself. It can happen and it will happen next time. Thinking of you both . Love mel XX

Lisa Ch · Post by **Lisa Ch** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 7:18 pm

Aly sorry to see your neg post. Take care and big hugs Lisa xx

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 8:30 pm

Dearest Aly What can I say, I was so sorry to read your news today, thinking of you both. Take lots of care. Vicki B XXX

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Thu Oct 23, 2003 9:26 pm

dear aly, had just logged on to wish you luck for tomorrow and was so sad to see your post. I'm glad however that you are thinking positively about the next cycle - 3 is a lot more goes - if you get the go-ahead on monday, will you cycle again straight away? not sure how it works with IUI. beckym xx

alisonb · Post by **alisonb** » Fri Oct 24, 2003 7:56 am

Dear Aly, So sorry to hear your news, i had everything crossed for you. You indulge as much as you like, you deserve it. Thinking of you both, Take care Buddy, Alisonb xx

Di · Post by Di » Fri Oct 24, 2003 9:01 am

Hi Aly, sorry to read your news! I'm not surprised you feel down - we all do when its a negative. Give yourself time and you'll be starting to feel postive about your next go! It has taken me 9 IVF tmt's to get a +ve!!! Good luck for the future, Di

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Fri Oct 24, 2003 9:27 am

Hi All Thanks for the messages I had a little cry last night and DH was really loving, we will continue, one day it will work. love to all, I'm watching closely! big hugs Aly x

Lissa · Post by **Lissa** » Fri Oct 24, 2003 9:41 am

so sorry to read your post Aly - I had a neg last week. Back on the horse next month good luck and have a couple of baileys for me lol Lissa x

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Fri Oct 24, 2003 12:05 pm

Hi Aly, so sorry to hear your news. Glad to see you're still thinking positively - your time will come. Take care of each other Love Dolly PS: have a glass of Baileys for me too!

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Fri Oct 24, 2003 2:34 pm

dear aly, Im so sorry that youve had to go through this again. it hurts so much and it just seems to get harder the more knocks we get. we have to believe that one day our baby dreams will be here for real. take your time to grieve for your little embie losses. i dont know about anyone else but ive found that there are people who treat a negative like you would in anormal concieving type way. this makes me cross and its not true. we cant try every single month and when we do try we are so much closer as weve had our little embies created and put back. we should cry and scream as much as we want........and drink as much baileys as we want too! thinking of you both lots of love and a HUGE hug kathryn x [Edited by kathryn on 24-Oct-03 07:35]

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