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Thanks for your wishes. The last 5 years have been pretty hard for us, with all my friends and my sister having babies around me, its been hard to take at times. But, I am just not ready to give up yet. I know that one way or another we will have a child, whether its our own or adopted. I think there is only so far you can go before you have to say enough is enough. It does consume your life and all the time you are going through fertility treatment you are living in a kind of limbo.
I was worried sick about going through the IVF the 1st time but it really wasn't as bad as I imagined. I didn't find the injections too bad at all, especially the downregging stage. Once the first one is done it gets a lot easier. The stimming stage was a bit more fiddly as I was on menopur and you have to mix the drugs, but again, once I had done it a couple of times it was a piece of cake.
I must be the biggest worrier on the planet, I am not happy unless I have something to worry about

but I promise you it really isn't that bad. I suppose you just have to focus on what you could get out of it in the end and that keeps you going.
Good luck, and feel free to PM me any time if you need to chat.
Ems xx