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Post by Fed7281 »

Ok Ladies, All day I have been reading this back and forth thing that has been going on. I was going to way in on my opinion being that I have a son but I am not. At this point basically I feel that we need to move on and blame the meds for any negitivty that has gone on. I dont think ANYONE meant to upset, offend or make any feel as though they do not belong here. All this back and forth needs to stop! I know some days are harder than others and you all have emotional days. I am right there with you, as I cried ALL DAY! This should be a place where we can chill and vent without judgment and it has been and I hope it will continue.

Now I am going to apoligize as I did not offend anyone with the tone of this post. I am just having a very emotional day as this 2WW thing is really getting to me. And to be honest I did not want to post because of all this. I am not upset with anyone and I feel that everyone copes with things differently but things need to go back to being happy!

I love all of you ladies and Aunty you have done a wonderful job with this thread as well as supporting all of us and you better not leave me now!!

OK that is it for me, I will check in later

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I agree lets move on....please....big group hug...hey actually we have done really well considering the hormones floating around this thread dont you think...

Fed you have been doing amazingly well, the TWW is really hard isnt it, your not alone we are all right there with you ...how are you feeling do you have any symptoms?....big hug

Becky i never heard of burning mouth maybe just because your a hot chickie?? how long does it last?,...sounds awfull actually i hope it clears up soon, i read what you wrote earlier about you really dont think the new clinic will let you freeze i hope your wrong sending all my love ...sweet dreams

Sassy agreed done and dusted i am sooooo pleased your going to stay you would be very missed big hugs...how are you feeling in yourself any symptoms?....sending sticky baby vibes to your little one...

Mia woohoo ooo my gosh im so excited i really am ok deep breath not long now is it....when is your next test?....thinking of you also sticky baby vibes to your little ones

Ok lady's i have a question this is new for me....i have really bad AF pains back ache and all??? anyone else had this while stimming?...i never have before...odd...gosh i cant wait to get my bloods tomorrow

big hugs

loads of love to you all.....Aunty
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Thanks to all of you who have wished me well.

I also want to say congrats to Silva and every1 else that has received BFPs and ER/ET.

I don't want to jump in the discussion...but I'm glad u stayed Sassy. There are times that it's hard 4 me to even come to the forum. It's REALLY HARD sometimes to see all the baby's around and not think...Y not me. This is something that I cried to myself lots of time. Every1 in my family has kids, even my little sister. Then there is the dreaded question...what are u waiting on? When r u going to have kids...that really hurts. But not to say that I don't luv kids b/c we all do...I teach 4 a living. It's that it's a sensitive subject...especially if u get a BFN. Sometimes the pain is just too raw. I remember going to a fair once with my husband and his best friend's family, they have 3 kids, and I just boo hooed. It took a long time 4 my DH to understand what I was going thru.

But after my short time on the board I do see a mutual respect for each other and tons of support.

So, congrats to every1 who has succeeded in their journey to have a family. It's the most beautiful thing to have a family. So I hope that we can continue to hug, kick, scream, and luv on this board. Because it's nice to have some1 going thru what I'm going thru or even someone to show me that having a family is possible b/c they have been successful.

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just wanted to thank all you ladies for all your well wishes about my dog. Im getting there although its weird going to my mams house and her not being there but your all right she is in a better place. Its nice that you can come on here and talk about anything not just IVF
THANK YOU

ok ive been reading from pages 193-200 not really shure what has happened but Aunty Sassy you better not leave.You make this board along with everyone we all would miss you.
I to think this is a place for everyone one no matter what there back ground or famliy members be it already having children or not.Wanting to share with us all your little mircles gives us all hope that this whole rollercoaster ride can be worth it. But i also understand how painful it can be seeing children when going through this it makes us envy and more aware of what we not yet have been blessed with. That can make us not want to see children but doesnt make us not like children or we wouldnt be her in the first place going through all this heartache. guess what im trying to say is i dont find it offensive seeing pics of children of this forum but understand why it might be hard for some people.

I think that all you ladies are an inspriation to us all and im really glad that i have found this site only wish i had you all when i did my first IVF. Its really nice knowing that im not the only one god knows i was beginging to think i was

i just want to say from the bottom of my heart

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Post by Fed7281 »

Hi Aunty,

I have just had a dull ache going on but nothing other than that. I have felt pretty much normal, actually I have had a little more energy than usual. I just hate this unknown crap! Eight days is so close yet so far away! I read into every twinge that I may have thinking what was that, or what does that mean. I will be happy next Friday when I get my BFP and can be done with the wait (very optimistic there huh!)

As for your stimming question, I did have some AF like cramps, I just assumed that was what it was supposed to feel like. So, I am right there with you. Good luck with your blood works and trust me I am praying everynight for you. We can prove the specialists wrong!

Mom, Glad to hear you are doing better! Sending you hugs!

Mia- I am happy things went well with you BW today, few more days and you will have your BFP!

PMA good luck with EC tomorrow!

Sorry that I missed a ton of people, I am drained today from all my emotional crap! I will catch up tomorrow!

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hello there !!

Thank u for the wish, But i was not screaming i do not need to scream to be heard believe me! neither attacking or being unrespectful on any way to anybody i just said what i felt based on my story, on the $$ word for cycles fortuntely here in MASSACHUSETTS INFERTILITY IS AN ILLNESS and if you have health insurance you are cover thru the process except for co-pays of course.. Any how i said my opinion and i think we all express what we feel. End of story.

Good luck to you too...hopefully you get your BFP ..
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2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
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ups!! the message above was for Pma\


sorry !!!
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Post by ssalgado »

Fed- TOTALLY AGREE LET'S MOVE ON WE WILL NEVER END THIS STORY!!

How are u?? any snow yet??

Aunty- how are things? my injections was painful today ouch!!

Susette
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1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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SS mine too it really stung tonight....

i have to be up at 5 am so i will see you all tomorrow big hugs loads of love Aunty
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ImageCongratulations BFP
Image(Becky cyber GM)
ImageJaby...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp5dt...
3rd January .....First US???
ImageBecleo...BFP
Beta 141 ?Dp?dt...
26th December .....2nd Beta 194
11th January .........1 Perfect beanie
Imagelisag999...BFP
Beta ??? ?Dp?dt...
17th January .........TWINS!!!
Imageamcsmith...BFP
Beta 134...
15th January ......2nd Beta 496
29th January......1 Healthy beanie
ImageMeg12...BFP
19th Jan HPT +ive...
??th January ......Blood test
ImageAMD...BFP
25th Jan Beta 257...
29th Jan Beta 2960
15th Feb First US
Imagedruiett...BFP
29th Jan Beta 211...
31st Jan ...2nd beta 442
13th Feb ...1st US
ImageSilvaCharm...BFP
31st Jan Beta 57.4...
2nd Feb......2nd beta

ImageTESTING TODAYImage
Vickie...Test1stImageTesting Today all our prayers with youImage
phxivf...Test2ndFebImageTesting Today all our prayers with youImage
Faithful1010...Test2ndFebImageTesting Today all our prayers with youImage

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hopeful-in-LV...Test4thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
cookholmes...Test4thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
sassynlv...Test5thImage1 Perfect Embie snuggling inImage
Tony...Test6thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
Macca...Test8thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
Ems1971...Test8thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
Fed...Test9thImage2 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
empmtb...Test9thImage3 Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
charlie78...Test16thImage2 Perfect Embies Snuggling InImage
Jodic...Test??Image?? Perfect Embies snuggling inImage
saxony...Test??ImageEgg Collection Today all thinking of youImage
ARitchie...Test??ImageEmbies in waiting???Image
nouna...Test??Image14 Perfect EmbiesImage
PMApsy...Test??ImageEgg Collection Today all thinking of you(5th ET)Image
Emma27...Test??ImageWaiting for Call on Defrost...thinking of youImage

STIMMINGImage
ImageGROW FOLLIES GROWImage
ImageCINNY1...IVF...3rd February.......ImageFollie Count
ImageAunty...IVF...3rd January...ImageFollie Count
ImageAnge...IVF...5th February ...ImageFollie Count
ImageLara...FET...9th February.......ImageScan
ImageFionaA...IVF...??th January...ImageFollie Count(?? EC)
Imagekislany...IVF...??th January...ImageFollie Count
ImageSSalgado...IVF...1st February.......ImageFollie Count
Imagemominwaiting...IVF...1st February.......ImageFollie Count?
Imagebeachbaby...FET...??nd February.......Image??(5/6th Poss FET)

"Ovarian Vacation"
Image Shantala...FET...2nd February......ImageStart Down Regging(20th SC)
Image Haylie...FET...??th January......Image(D/R)scan, Calling for date for FET
ImageAngie65...IVF...14th February......Image(on sniff)Baseline
ImageArizonaKiwi...IVF...5th February......Image (D/R) BT/Start Stimming

COUNT DOWNImage
Becky...IVF...7th February.......ImageFollow up with new clinic
JackieG...IVF...10th February.......ImageStart THE cycle
Jemima...IVF...20th February.......Imagestart BC
BigWhiteHapyDog...IVF...??th January.......Image ?? (Baseline 2nd Feb)

ImageIN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS AS YOU MOVE FORWARD
Dory so sorry wishing you well in the future
Gbnut in our thoughts and prayers
Tex in our thoughts and prayers
TCBalgord in our thoughts and prayers
Sokru8 in our thoughts and prayers
Jordan sadly lost im so sorry in our thoughts and prayers
Raintree in our thoughts and prayers
My2LnT in our thoughts and prayers
js200632 in our thoughts and prayers

Prayers for a baby belly for you
Nimble cycle Jan/Feb ,Souris cycle Jan/Feb ,Mom20 cycle march/april ,BabyBlue cycle march/april ,HelloKitty cycle 2007 ,Charity cycle 2007/2008 ,TansRN

Not sure if your still in Cycle?
Shawn,Julie2039,Saxony,MrsM,Lori,Paula,SamB,Sully,Michela,mcmillac,Sanny,WISCONSINGAL

ImageBirthday Count DownImage
Aunty..8th February,Nimble.....7thMarch,Shantala.....9thMarch,Angie.....20th March,Becleo.....3rd April
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Post by tcbalgord »

Aunty, I get terrible AF pains like that with my normal AF, place a heating pad on my back and take some IB profin. (I know you probably can't take that, but maybe Tylenol) Also, I MAKE DH press the heel of his hand into my back and rub with a circular motion. This may hurt really bad but in the end it should work.

I hope you feel better sweetie, I know the back pain is the worst.

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Post by SilvaCharm »

Okay, my cyberfamily...let's take a couple deep breaths...mmmmph..hmmmm;mmmmmmph...hmmmmmm.


Ok,

Charlie: 14 embies is great. Congratulations. Good luck with ET.

Bec: Hope lunch with dad was great. Will this be his first grand?

Emma: I'm pulling for your 2 frosties. I hope they both survive the thaw.

Nouna: I'm glad everything went well with the ER. 14 embies for you as well, wow. Good luck with ET.

Ssalgado: Did I add the #s from your two ovaries correctl? 61 follies? Wow, lady! Are you in pain?

Janice: Let us know what the doc says by your AF that refuses to leave...talk about a guest that overstays their welcome...whew!

I hope everyone else is doing well.

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Post by lara312 »

Hi ladies i'm also not going to get involved everyone has their own opinions but please lets get back to normal when i read all that i just cried we are all always here for each other no matter how we are feeling .
Nouna 14 eggies lovley job
Charlie also 14 eggies good luck for ec .
Aunty good luck with follie count today you little egg making machine .
Shantala your time is here yipeeeeeeeeeeeee start sniffing sweetie .Any hoo must go work is busy has to do 11 hours yester so perhaps thats why i cried when i read all those posta and the tablets they say they can cause wind thats all i have done for 3 days and indigestion .catch you later hugs to everyone
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Post by Angie65 »

Hi Ladies, Glad we are all friends again. :D

Just wanted to say that even though I am a crap poster here, I am thinking of you are all in your various stages of treatment. Aunty have said it before, but will say it again - you do a fantastic job with the list and that is why so many of us want to be on your thread. Glad your follies are growing.

Shantala - how was your first sniff ?- hope you are getting used to it - not so bad after a couple of days I find.

Signing off and leaving work soon here in Oz - nice and sunny tonight - may even have a gin & tonic to round off the week. Just a small one won't hurt!

have lovely weekends everyone.
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