not this time

loopylou57uk · Post by **loopylou57uk** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 11:01 am

well i had my other blood test yesterday but it had gone down like we expected. but its gone down to 8 so i have to have another blood test in a week so they can make sure its all gone.the clinic said there must of been some implantation for the hcg to show but they obviously didnt stick around.they said i`ll get my follow up app in 4-6 weeks so we`ll be having our 2nd go of ivf round about jan. thanks for all your support girls.best of luck for the girls testing soon.

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 11:13 am

Dear loopy, sorry about your result. i had something similar happen on my first cycle when I got ohss, where my levels in the first week were quite high and then went down. It is so disheartening cos you get your hopes up. my consultant even told me she thought I was probably pregnant becuase I had the ohss!! (she had just come back from maternity leave after having IVF twins and had been through ohss). hope to see you around these boards after Xmas though for another go. LOL. beckym xxx

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 11:38 am

hi lou, Im really sorry for you both. Its just not fair. This also happened to us in the summer.I know its early on and very raw for you, but I did manage to take comfort from the fact I did get a positive, and I could see that it could work. I realise that not everyone may see it like that, and I wouldnt want to offend anyone by that. In all cases where we dont get that much longed for pregnancy, its terribly sad and hard to deal with. take time to come to terms with whats happened, and get yourself physically and mentally strong again, so that when you do feel ready to try again you can put all your energy into being positive. you will get there lou. take good care of yourselves and remember you can yell, scream, cry or talk whenever you want to, theres always someone here. lots of love and thinking of you kathryn x

ANGELA · Post by **ANGELA** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 2:20 pm

Hi lou so sorry to hear your news all my love to you both ((((big hugs)))

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 2:47 pm

Hi Lou - I was so sorry to read your post. I hope like Kathryn says you will in time find comfort in the fact that you did get a positive and that must surely increase your chances of it working in the future. Take care of each other Love and hugs Dolly

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 2:50 pm

Hi Lou, sorry to read your post - its such a disappointing time when it fails. You are right to look forward to your next attempt and focus on the fact that it was a near miss and so can work for you next time. Give yourself plenty of time with your DH - love to you both. Jo. XX

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 3:15 pm

Lou Sorry to hear your news, I ditto what the girls said, be strong You will get there. Love to you & Dh Vicki B X

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 3:28 pm

Hope you got my emails Lou, am thinking of you Write back when you can much love Lorraine

Hayley Wilkinson · Post by **Hayley Wilkinson** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 4:24 pm

Loopylou sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you Love Hayleyx

Amanda A · Post by **Amanda A** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 5:34 pm

Really sorry to read your post. This sort of thing happens to lots of people who still get there in the end, try to hold onto that, I know it's hard. Love Rach X

gem · Post by **gem** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 8:31 pm

So sorry to read your news Looks like we will be cycling with each other again in Jan, Lets hope 2004 is our year Take care Love Gemxx

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Tue Nov 11, 2003 8:37 pm

Hi Lou Im so sorry its not your turn this time , lets hope with Christmas smack bang in the middle will help time pass quickly for you. I do wish you lots of luck for your next go , its good that you are looking ahead . Trace x {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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