Aunty Pebbles- good luck for test date!!!

[Charity]

Sweetest, Kindest, Selfless and Most Thoughtful Aunty...I'm sooo very sorry for you, my dearest of friends...How can life truly be so damn unfair!?! I can't tell you how many mixed emotions I'm having for you (sadness at this cycle's outcome and the entire IF situation, anger that life is so f'ing unfair, resentment of others that don't have this struggle, frustration at our insurance system and not being able to switch clinics when you wanted to because of time lines, gut-wrenching pain for your loss, etc...). I can only imagine how you're feeling sweetie. You take this time. Time will heal the wounds, but the scars are left behind. Just know that you and Sam have suffered those scars together and focus on how this has brought you closer to one another. To a depth most couples never experience. You & Sam are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, Dear One...

[Dexter]

Dear Aunty,

I'm devo as we all are. But ..take a look at all these posts. You have done something that no-one I have come across in this world has done. You have helped people to cope with their own IF. I know this is not much right now, but if it lights even the smallest spark in you to find the courage to do what you need to do next, then take it with you to bed at night, when you wake up and in those desperate moments when you feel the world is caving in on you. I feel like that and it was only my first bloody attempt and in a strange way, me like so many others, feel so connected to you from across the miles. Could this be the universe telling you that you possess a special gift? I think so.

Nothing can take away your pain right now I know. One thing is sure right now. You have a wonderful husband and life partner and I'm sure you'll find the strength between you to rise again. Not many people have that remember. Life is cruel. It tests us time and time again. My best friend sent me a picture of herself 8 months preggo the day I got my test results. It was like a knife.

I hope we see you back Aunty. These posts just wouldn't be the same. Don't give up hope...

Lots of love,
Dex xx

[wannababyIVF]

Aunty, Words can't express my sorrow for you right now. I'm so upset that you did not get your BFP. You deserve it so much. You are a great support system. You have helped me and others so much. You will have your little one. Please dont give up hope!

Love to you and your DH!

[Ghost]

Damn. Sorry to hear this, Aunty. You really deserve much better.

[sassynlv]

D*mn betas.... always ruining our best dreams. Keep writing different things and then deleting them as they all sound so useless. You know i think the world of you. You are loved and respected here. I am wishing you only the best.

[jemima]

oh debz... hugs

[Jovigal]

so sorry... (((HUGS)))

[ag817]

Aunty so very sorry to hear about the BFN (DAMN) .. Stay strong and take care of yourself and hubby ... {{PRAYERS & HUGS}}}

anita

[SilvaCharm]

Aunty, I am so very sad to hear this news. There isn't anything I can say to make it better and I know really no words can comfort you during this time. I'm thinking of you and DH and praying for you both.

((((HUGS)))

SC

[islacraig]

Debz.... I'm so so sorry to read your news, You and Sam are in my prayers.

Hugs

Ange x

[mizma]

I wish there was something I could say that could make you feel better! My thougts are with you.....


Love,
Mizma

[suzhan]

Like everyone else, I had prayed that this cycle would work for you. Everyone deserves this but I think we all feel a special appreciation for the warmth and empathy you've shown to so many on this board. You're in my thoughts.

- suzhan