At this time I am only about 4 weeks and 5 days. I just took my second beta today and won’t know the results until tomorrow. Everyone around me keeps asking if I’m pregnant. All my friends are asking. They keep saying there are baby vibes everywhere. lol People are having dreams, others are asking if other people in our circle are pregnant. Family members are asking friends that already have children when they are having more. So all the fingers are pointing to me because we told them we were thinking about doing IVF. But didn’t give specific dates or details because we didn’t want anyone to ask questions. We didn’t want to have to explain if it didn’t work. I feel like I am hiding something very important from my family and friends. We are not ashamed of this pregnancy. We just aren’t sure if we should tell people so early. I almost feel like I am giving negative energy to the entire pregnancy by keeping it a secret. I don’t want anything to happen because I’m keeping it a secret. Also, I feel like it will be more real if people knew. But Dh and I agreed that we would wait, but it’s getting harder and harder every day. Especially when every time I turn around someone is asking me. They probably already know because I haven’t said yes or no. I just dance around it and tell them to pray for us.
It’s still very early and anything could happen at this point. I pray to God that this pregnancy is meant to be and that I will be able to carry this baby (or babies) to full term and that they are healthy. I get the results of my second beta tomorrow and first u/s is scheduled for March 16th.
My question is when did you tell people or when should you tell?
