LETTING OFF STEAM

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Thu Nov 27, 2003 2:43 pm

have not been posting much lately but have been keeping an eye on everyone........ Had a failed FET back in Sept......decided to start again this cycle because if we started last month FET would be xmas time(decided not a good time for us) Well, you know how it is, time drags, have just physched myself up to start again.....have also spent a fortune on reflexology to try & relaax me in preparation for tmt.....AF arrived today so phoned clinic to book day 19 appt(FET would be mid jan) Our clinic is moving to a new building which was to happen in december, we had a letter a while back to say they would not be cancelling any frozen cycles..... Well......the builders are behind so the clinic have said they are not taking on any more cycles until end jan/feb........they have to shut lab down etc when everything is transferrred..... I am really upset because I could have started last month but put things on hold to give me time to get over failed tmt...Life is so unfair.........I know its not the end of the world, I can now get really pissed xmas & newyear, its just such a build up to actually start & to be told you have to wait another 2 months!! Well, think I have gone on enough, just wanted to let off steam where people know where im coming from Good luck to everyone cycling/testing at the moment Sarah xxx p.s-July Ann, Karen-are you still out there? How are you hello to Lesley as well (I will email you soon) and hello to Kat(glad you finaally saw sence & got it together with Alfie!!) p.p.s hello to Nikola, Jackie, DI and all those other +ve SCBs sorry if I have forgotton anyone.. [Edited by SJ BROWN on 27-Nov-03 06:47]

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Thu Nov 27, 2003 5:18 pm

Hi Sarah I wondered where you had got to. Builders have a damn lot to answer to. They always run over time. I really feel for you as you do psyche yourself up every time and when you get let down it's a major drop as only we know. As you say you can get ratted at Christmas and New Year and then focus on your FET in Jan. I will be watching out for you and crossing everything for you and wish you all the luck in the world. Where are you having your treatment? Take care Sarah, much love Dagny xx

fi · Post by fi » Thu Nov 27, 2003 8:19 pm

this sounds familiar but we just have to grit our teeth and think that maybe thats what has to be and just think positively that feb mar would be a christmas baby............... HUGS{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} chin up, luv fi

Kat · Post by **Kat** » Thu Nov 27, 2003 10:13 pm

Hello Sarah, glad to have you back. It's so frustrating - as if we didn't have enough stress without having to deal with builders buggering things up as well. You know it'll come round quickly , it doesn't seem 2 months since our last -ves - look how quick that's gone. I know that probably doesn't help much but at least you know you can let off steam here as much as you like. Take care Lots of love Kat xx (busy planning my Christmas wedding in the Vic!!)

SBROWN · Post by **SBROWN** » Thu Nov 27, 2003 10:43 pm

Thanks guys....... feeling a bit better now(think the wine helped!!) Dagny, I live just outside the New Forest and am having tmt at Chalybeate clinic in Southampton, soon to be called Wessex Fertility, 5 minutes from current clinic On the +ve side, it is going to be a brand spanking new building, previously IVF unit was in a pokey part of a BUPA hospital and you had to go to NHS hospital down the road for Embryo transfer, at least next time everything will be all in the same place....also the ET waiting room & tmt room at NHS hospital was a bit minty!!! hopefully at new hospital it will be a bit more pleasant, few piccys on the wall, flowers etc!!! Never know, might even have a throne to lay on!!and George Clooney at foot of bed to insert those embies..(a girls allowed to dream eh!) Lots of love and luck to everyone Sarah xxx

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:53 am

hi sarah glad to hear from you, I know 2 months is a long time to wait. you will be able to have a great xmas and then get ready for your tmt in the new year. I should be going in next week for di, but i'm going to carry on as normal and try not to get to wound up. well great to hear from you from july ann

Janeya · Post by **Janeya** » Fri Nov 28, 2003 9:29 pm

dear sarah I feel the same as you,but even more pissed off as I have heard about the delay from a friend of mine who is obviously on their mailing list.As you said pshyc yourself up for Jan and then told not until Feb,just waiting for them to say march now.Anyway I am going to ring them up and complain about them not sending me anything.I did ring them a while back about my blood tests and only got a snotty old bag telling me to ring on day 1 in dec but thats another story. Might see you there this time in a very new and smelling of paint clinic,we might feel like guinea pigs if we are one of the first to go through,not sure I like the idea of that. Lets have a great x-mas and have a new fresh start for new year. Hopefully see you there. Jane xxxxxx

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