You guys are amazing,
I can't find the symbol for emotional wreck, but that's me right now. Thank you so much for your thoughts, I can honestly say that I've never had such support in my life before.
Because we have to start with the HPT and my DH is working for most of tomorrow I've agreed to wait for him to come home so we can be together to do the test.
Most of my bravado has now gone and as I have no symptoms of anything I'm trying to be postively open minded.
God I miss chocolate!
You guys have kept me sane over the last couple of weeks so thank you once again.
Bridget
2 failed FET from ED, 3rd and final time lucky! - Me 45 DH 36
Just wanted to wish you all the very best. May all your dreams be about to come true.
Zoe
1st IVF - Easter 2002 - neg
2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
3rd IVF Summer 2003 - pos with beautiful baby boy
April 2006 - miracles happen - positive naturally day after receiving IVF letter to start again! Another beautiful boy
SECONDARY INFERTILITY
IUI JUNE05 NEG
IUI JULY05 NEVER GOT PAST FOLLY SCAN
NEW HOSP NEW TESTS
NATURAL P DEC 05 M/C 7w5d
IUI+IVF DRUGS 21ST SEPT NEG
IUI +IVF DRUGS CHANGED TO IVF MID CYCLE ER 21/11 BFN
2ND IVF START DATE 12/I
Hi Guys, no happy ending for me I'm afraid. I took the HPT yesterday with a BFN and tried to keep it quiet fro my DH in case miracle of miracles today's test turned out to be BFP.
Ofcourse couldn't hide my tears when he came home and he was livid with me, saying that I have destroyed whatever could have been there in in that one test as I am now so negative.
So, will do another HPT test later today, but can anyone please put my mind at rest that I haven't ruined things myself by testing a day early?
BJ
2 failed FET from ED, 3rd and final time lucky! - Me 45 DH 36
BJ,
Really sorry to hear and i think you should tell DH to chill out a bit.
I know it must be hard for the men sometimes but they should try being us for a day in the life of IVF.
Try and keep your head up.
Me29,DH31
Me: Endo ovary cyst
DH: Vlow sperm count
Hope to be starting 1st ICSI March07
bridget - oh hunny i am so sorry and PLEASE dont beat yourself up over it. you testing early would NOT have made a difference. the embies would have implanted or not by now so you testing wouldnt have made a difference. i'm sure he just said it coz he was upset. and i'm sure he didnt mean it. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE dont beat yourself up....nothing we do will make a difference to the outcome (unless you do something REALLY stupid and taking the test isnt one of them!!)
chin up....thinking of you!!! lots of hugs and kisses
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2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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