Shantala Testing 22nd sending prayers for your BFP

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Post by charlie78 »

Shantala - I am so so sorry - words just cannot express how absolutely gutted I am for you. Sending hugs to you and DH.

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Post by Ems1971 »

Oh honey, I am so gutted for you...
I know exactly how you are feeling. Take some time and come back fighting.

Thinking of you and DH.

Lots of Love

Emma xxx
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Post by pep23 »

Oh Shantala, my precious little Smarty Socks, I'm so sad for you and DH!!! :cry: I am glad that the two of you will have the day together to comfort each other. You are SUCH a strong and amazing lady and I know you will pull through this and get your miracle soon. You'll be in my thoughts daily.

(((BIG HUGS)))

XO
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Post by Fed7281 »

Shantala,

I am so sorry! My heart goes out to you and DH. Please pamper yourselves a little as you deserve it. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you!

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Post by nimble »

Shantala honey, I so so sorry to hear that this time wasn't yr time, it isn't fair.

I have no doubt that you will get a BFP and you just need to stay strong to get there, which I know is probably really hard at the moment. I'm so pleased that your DH is with you today, take care and I'm thinking of you.

Jackie xx
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Post by ssalgado »

SHANTALA MY LOVE I AM SO SO SORRY :( BUT HANG IN THERE HUN.... YOURS IS ON THE LIST ... :)

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND TREAT YOURSELF TO SOMETHING SPECIAL WITH DH IS THE BEST REWARD AFTER THIS..........


LOVE AND HUGS...

SUSETTE
1st IVF-ICSI 2003-BFP SEBASTIAN IS 2.5 YRS OLD
1ST FET-DEC-2006 1 EMBY-BFN
2ND IVF-ICSI- FEB-2007- BFN
2ND FET-BLAST-MAR2007-2 EMBIES- BFP-3RD BETA WENT DOWN-LOST PREGNANCY.
3rd IVF ICSI OCT-2007 2BLAST TRF-BFN
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

OH Shantala im so sorry my heart breaks for you i know how you are feeling you know where i am if you need to talk ...any time.

sending my love Aunty
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Post by kholtan »

Shantala~ I am so so sorry for you! :cry: You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other and I hope you find the strength to try again. You will make a wonderful mommy one day! HUGS!!!!!!

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Post by kandice »

shantala- I'm so sorry! take today with your dh, and make sure you come back to us! thinking of you!
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Post by Ange »

Shantala... I am so sorry for your disappointment. Your time will come, I know it will. Take the time you need to regroup, we are here for you.

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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Shantalla hun,

Im so sorry, words wont change how ur feeling right now, but i hope and i pray that you know we are all thinking about you and are so bloody sorry this had to happen to you ...

If u need me, im here ok

Becky Xxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by lara312 »

Shantala i'm so sorry nothing i write now will help how you are feeling but we are all here when you need us take care of you and dh sending huge hugs
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Post by shantala »

ladies, thank you all so much for your posts. it really means a lot!!!

but dont worry, you havent seen the last of me yet!! :wink: (after taking my HPT i had to call the clinic to inform them of the result....the minute they get back to me i'm gonna ask them when i can start again...i think its in 3 months but i'll definitely ask... :D )

xxxxxx
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Post by sassynlv »

Shantala: awwww man! I am bummed for you. BFNs suck. I am glad to hear, though, that you are anxious to get back on the horse. Will look forward to hearing what your clinic says.

Take care of yourself and dh.
Thinking of you...
Sassy
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Post by nicolamark »

HUGS FOR YOU SHANTALA!!!! xxx
I'm so sorry huney!! x x
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
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