MARCH-CYCLE BUDDIES

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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nimble
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Post by nimble »

Kandice I am so sorry to hear - are they sure? I can't believe it. My heart goes out to you and your DH - you know where we are - god i wish there was something i could say to help you but know that no words will help.

Big hugs
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MarciaL-OurHope4Baby
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Post by MarciaL-OurHope4Baby »

melly wrote:Hope everyone had a good night...


I went for my baseline u/s and they said everything looks great so far, so I stop bc pills on 03/26 wait for AF then call Dr office and start stims on approx. 04/01

Thanks to everyone for your support :D


shantala- I'm praying for you and DH, I'm so sorry..... :cry:
That's great news, so AF will b right around the corner and then the excting part starts. You had a good day?

All the best :)
Marcia 33,Non IR PCOS & DH is 36 ttc & [b]7 Angels[/b]
Premature Labour Tiago born 20wks 1d -1st Aug 07
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MarciaL-OurHope4Baby
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Post by MarciaL-OurHope4Baby »

Nicole - How are you, nice to see you around? Have you been feeling or a little bloated?

I hope you've enjoyed your rest, not lon now hun.
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Marcia 33,Non IR PCOS & DH is 36 ttc & [b]7 Angels[/b]
Premature Labour Tiago born 20wks 1d -1st Aug 07
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MarciaL-OurHope4Baby
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Post by MarciaL-OurHope4Baby »

kandice wrote:well ladies- it's a negative for me.. my numbers are down to 57.5 and I go back on monday again just to be sure, but she told me to stop the PIO shots. Said it was a chem pregnancy and I can go back in 2 cycles- wait 1 cycle that should be coming in the next 4-5 days and then the 2nd one I could start again. we still have 3 FEs.

I still can't believe I was never pregnant- my body and heart TOLD ME! I was pregnant! I'll be on here because I need you guys for strength and want to definitely continue all your progress'!

best of luck to everyone!
Sorry this is happening to you guys, Image, and of course you were pg, your Beta was 38 anything over 5 is a pregnancy, over 10 is viable and your beta doubled so it was certainly vaible. It's just that your little one coulndn't hang on, so don't you go doubting your body. You were pg from the moment the embires were put back and the hCG started building to show your Positive, and your Beta went up.

It's a hard thing to go through but your hubby and us will help you through it Image , just be there for each other and let him talk about how he feels as well .
Marcia 33,Non IR PCOS & DH is 36 ttc & [b]7 Angels[/b]
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Post by nellyA »

Kandice,

I am a new join...just read your e-mail and all I can say is my heart goes out to you. Take care of yourself and DH.
Nelly x
nerms
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Post by nerms »

Thankyou girls for all your posts...7 is a good number...hope they are doing ok..they will be dividing very soon. I've just been in a really rubbish mood all day though can't seem to shake it off!..and now reading about Kandice's news too...i'm so sorry to hear that...that's quite a rollercoaster...but both you and shantala are being so brave wth so much PMA! To top it all off...me and dh are sulking with one another...it's my fault i know i'm being unresaonable but just can't seem to help it today :cry:

we are still open to day 3 or day 5 transfer...on sat they will tell us ow the embryo's are doing, and if less than four are viable we will ET on sat, otherwise we proceed onto day 5...let's see.

Nimble...need to clean pipes 36hrs to 3 days before EC

Will go for now as battery low and charger is downstairs...will catch up on personals tmw.

Goodnight

Nerms
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MarciaL-OurHope4Baby
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Post by MarciaL-OurHope4Baby »

Image Nelly, good luck with your cycle :) .
Marcia 33,Non IR PCOS & DH is 36 ttc & [b]7 Angels[/b]
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Post by rae76 »

Kandice, I am so sorry - that was a very cruel twist :cry: I'm glad your hospital is quoting such marvellous percentages for FETs - it'll happen. But of course we wanted it to happen this time. Hang in there sweetie!!
me & dh early 30s
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kia1973
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Post by kia1973 »

kandice - there are no word that will heal the pain you must be feeling right now, i say sorry from the bottom of my heart sweetie. i really do take my hat of to you, you are just flowing with PMA, which is more than i ever did in your situation.
thinking of you and DH, ((((((((((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))))))

love
sha xx
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6 FET - BFN
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jstrandlund
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Post by jstrandlund »

Kandice, oh hon I am so sorry to hear your news!! I had a miscarriage after my first IVF and it was devistating. The one thing everyone told me to focus on was that we now know that I am able to get pregnant, so at least we learned something. Take so time and let your heart heal! (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Melly, WOOO HOOO you will be able to start your cycle soon! Hopefully AF is nice to you and stays on schedule. Good Luck! Image

Nims, Ha Ha clean out the pipes. I can imagine that it is not nearly as fun when he has permission to do it Image Just remind him that every one of our dh's are going through the same thing and we all feel so much sympathy for him Image

Shantala, I am so sorry! BFN's SUCK!!!! Praying for you and DH!

Mrs. B Image Image Image Praying for your numbers to keep on rising!!

Nerms, 7 is a great number!! Image It really is all about quality and not quantity! I can't wait to hear how they are dividing tomorrow!

Nick, WOO HOO the hole is fixed! I imagine that must take a lot of pressure and stress off of you!

Sonya, How are the shakes going? Have you spoken to your doctor to determine if it is a reaction from your meds? Hopefully they have subsided and you are back to feeling normal.

Anyone I missed, hope things are going well for you all!

As for me not much going on today. I had my acu today which I have realized that I love it! I find it so relaxing and calming. I have another scan in the morning to see how my follies are doing and hopefully they have grown since yesterday. I will let you all know tomorrow :D
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Post by kia1973 »

Nerms – 7 that’s brill news, bet you can’t wait to have them back home with you.

Nimble – good luck tomorrow, hopefully we will be triggering together saturday night, that’s if my stubborn little ones have decided to grow. I don’t now if it’s all in my head but I sure I can feel some movement in there.
As for cleaning the pipes my clinic always say 3 days before, can be done together or DH on his own.

Nicki - Glad the roof is fixed now. Nice to see you round, how you feeling? not long until you start your injections.

hi to everyone else, sorry its short tonight but been out for a meal with MIL and had to have my fix from all you girls before i went to bed :oops: now i now i'm addicted :oops:

nihgt night.
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6 FET - BFN
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Post by annag »

Nerms, 7 is a great number!!!! I know sometimes we just expect more than what we have but I'm sure they are all dividing right about now. Chin up and stay positive! They'll be home in mommy's belly snuggling in the next few days! Relax with dh and await your big day when your embies are home!

Do they update you with day 2? My clinic didn't and I thought no news is good news!

Wish you best of luck with ET!
Anna
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IUI x 3- BFN
IVF#1 March 07 BFN
FET June 07- BFP!

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MamaCardenas
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Post by MamaCardenas »

sokru8- I couldn't find you on myspace? Send me the link or friend request me when you can! Stimming is going great my EC is Monday or possibly Sat or Sun depending on my labs and ultrasounds, so I almost done stimming, I actually found that a lot easier then the Lupron, the Lupron made me a crazy lady!!!


Sounds like a few of us have scans on Friday including myself good luck to everyone!!!

Nimble- Are you doing the list? My next scan is Friday 3/23 and I think it’s my last! I also have my Preg test date of April 12th can you add that to the list please!

rae76- Thanks I'm excited about my last scan too!


Jstrandlund- keep up updated and as hard as is can be try and keep a PMA grow follies grow!!! Good luck FridaY!



Shantala- Sorry about your news, but it’s so good to hear your not letting it get you down and so eager to start up again!! Good Luck on the next, Ill check up with you on Myspace too!!

Nimble- That's great to hear how big your follies are getting!! Keep thinking those Happy thoughts!! I just realized we have the same EC date!! I don't think you have messaged me on myspace yet?? If you can't figure out how to add me as friends send me your link and I can add you!
I haven't asked about freezing my DH sperm, the embryologists ended up calling and said the last SA we sent it was really good so not to worry , we also live really close to our clinic so she said to bring one the morning of the EC and then run home and get another ( you would think he'd be all out) but she said sometimes in that case the second time can be better!! we shall see!!!

Anna. Steph. Yarnista. Chvonne 2WW'rs how ya doing?? What are you doing to stay busy and keep from going crazy??? I hope we get all BFP

Kandice- Sorry to hear your news, I can't imagine how disappointing that must be, but I have to say you and Shantala are doing great with your PMA's I don't know that I could be that strong, I pray things will get better for you both!

NIMBLE & KIA- I might be triggering Saturday night as well, not too sure yet though!! Good Luck to you both

As for me I had a little bad news today, well not bad just not what I was looking for...My E2 level went up to 1600 which is good, however they still hadn't talked to me about the size or quality of my embies, , my EC was scheduled for Mon 3/26 but they said it could also end up on sat 3/24 or sun 3/25 so today when they called I asked when I would know and she said well it won't be sat and probably not sun maybe Mon, Tues or Wed!!! WHAT!!!! well I guess I only have 2 follies that are good size and good size is 14mm which really ISNT even good size!!! she said they want them at 18-20mm so it will take a few more days to get there!!! I was so disappointed, I've been all excited about how many follies ive had growing I've been feeling so much movement down there it's CRAZY!!! and it's not in my head I SWEAR!! so today was a huge bummer, I know its not the end of the world but I just thought everything was going so smoothly, I wish they would have told me this info sooner just so I could have known and not been in the dark about all this, so I possibly still have a few more days to go I was really looking forward to Mon but now it could be any time next week!! as long as it DOES happen and everything has a good turn out I'll be fine!! Thanks for listening to me vent!!


Ok I still cant figure out the smilies?? I dont know what's with me I do all that stuff on myspace all day long but i've tried a few different ways and it's just not working!!!
Natalie 22yrs DH 27
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1st attempt IVF ICSI -BFP M/C @ 11wks
FET sometime in OCtober Or NOV 07
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MamaCardenas
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Post by MamaCardenas »

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YAY I'm so excited I finally got the emotions right!!! It wasn't that hard I dont know what I was doing wrong!!! Thanks for the help!!!

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Natalie 22yrs DH 27
Male Factor Infertility
1st attempt IVF ICSI -BFP M/C @ 11wks
FET sometime in OCtober Or NOV 07
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Post by yarnista »

I'm afraid I might have AF this morning. Yesterday it was just a little brownish spotting so I wasn't so afraid but this morning it is now redder and more. My clinic had told me to make sure I still come in for the blood test even if I do have bleeding because I could still be pregnant. Do any of you have experience with this? Maybe it wasn't meant to be just yet, any advice would be appreciated!
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