will it ever work for us?

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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Aaliyaa
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will it ever work for us?

Post by Aaliyaa »

Hey gals ,after 5miscarriges.....we were happy to be lucky at our first ivf to be pregnant.But today i went for hormones control but they are even going down from 206 to 108 which means i will have 6th miscarriage.I sitt here and feel useless not to make my man a father :cry: he is so nice ...hard working and he would love to be one.My doc said we should use some injections to try to make it not happening....amalmost giving up should
anybody had gone thr´ what i have gone? help
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kholtan
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Post by kholtan »

Aaliyaa~
So sorry to hear what you going through! :cry: This process really takes it's toll on some people and there is just no rhyme or reason to it. I really hope your dream comes true one day and they figure out what is going wrong. Take care of each other and don't give up. You will be the parents you always dreamt of someway or how. Good luck to you!

May your hearts heal in Godspeed~
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Post by bigwhitehapydog@aol.com »

aaliyaa, Please don't give up. Keep trying hon, it will work. This is coming from someone who has gone through 54 YES 4IVF cycles and all BFN! My try number 5 starts on Monday. It's very discouraging, but I keep trugging along. You can do it hon. Your dreams will come true! Thinking of you, Janice
ME 40 DH 42
1st IVF - 1991 BFN
2nd IVF (FET) - 1991 BFN
3rd IVF - 1992 BFN
4th IVF - Oct 2006 BFN AGAIN!
5th Time a charm??? Hopefully, April 07

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Post by bigwhitehapydog@aol.com »

aaliyaa, Please don't give up. Keep trying hon, it will work. This is coming from someone who has gone through 54 YES 4IVF cycles and all BFN! My try number 5 starts on Monday. It's very discouraging, but I keep trugging along. You can do it hon. Your dreams will come true! Thinking of you, Janice
ME 40 DH 42
1st IVF - 1991 BFN
2nd IVF (FET) - 1991 BFN
3rd IVF - 1992 BFN
4th IVF - Oct 2006 BFN AGAIN!
5th Time a charm??? Hopefully, April 07

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Torrie
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Post by Torrie »

I'm so sorry you are going through this! The process is so tough. I had two miscarriages and now have a healthy little boy, so it can happen. I know exactly what you are feeling with the guilt about not being able to make your husband a father. Even though my husband was completely supportive, I felt like I was defective and it almost broke up our marriage. Try not to let your guilt get in the way - your husband married you for better or worse. Lean on him during the worse and don't give up hope.
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