bad news

JULES K · Post by **JULES K** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 1:45 pm

Hi Girls, Sorry to finids off the OCBs with a bum note but its all over for us. AF arrived yesterday as I thought it would on Tuesday. I can no longer kid myself that it is implantation bleeding as I now how a full blown period. Spent the whole of yesterday sobbing on the couch with dh who has been great. Thought things couldn't get any worse but then received a letter from the hospital today to tell us that our remaining 3 embies (which we had hoped were frozen) had failed to develop and were therefore not suitable for freezing. So we will have to start again from the beginning if we want to try again. I feel so lost and empty, just can't stop crying. We can't really afford to try again but I suppose if you want something bad enough then there's always a way. I said goodbye to Titch and Munchkin last night and know they have gone off to join their two brothers or sisters from our last cycle where ever it is they are now. I just can't understand why they don't want to stick around. I have had two cycles now were I don't even get to test date, the first cycle af arrived after 5 days and now this one after 7 days. I had really thought it was going to work this time as I think you have a slightly better chance on your 2nd go. One of my close friends is due to give birth any day now and I am dreading it as I know I won't be able to face going to see her or the baby. I normally love Xmas and I am trying to concentrate on that for the moment but it all just seems so pointless somehow. I would like to thank all of my cycle buddies for your invaluable words of kindness and support and wisdom. It has really meant a lot to me to be able to come on here and share my own and your experiences with you. Lots of love and thanks to all of you...... Julie xx

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 4:43 pm

hi julie so sorry to hear your new's nothing I can say will take the hurt away. we are all hear if you need to talk. I know what it is like to get negative results and so close to xmas you can not help dream about what if you were pg.. take care and go and spoil your self.. I find a nice bottle of red wine really help's from july ann

fi · Post by fi » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:41 pm

jules, i am sooo soorry, i know it is of little consequence but we all feel the same way when this happens and christmas does make life harder. we are here for you whenever you are ready for a chat, much love, fi XXX

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 5:56 pm

Jules I am really sorry that it has been bad news. It is never easy to accept when it happens especially at this time of year. My heart goes out to you and your DH. Have a good cry tonight and perhaps a big drink. Take care love Dagny x

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 7:23 pm

B****CKS Poor you , your just going to have to go on the game again to get the money for another go like me!!!! Just you make sure you have lots to drink and spend loadsa money on yourselves this weekend I did last weekend £400 on cloths!!!!! its only money and IM worth it!!!! {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I am here if you need me BUD

Trace x

gem · Post by **gem** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 8:04 pm

So sorry to read your news Take care Love Gemxx

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 11:29 am

Just wanted to say how sorry I was to read your news. I have not been posting much lately after a failed fet in SEpt and can totally understand how you must feel at the mo....... If its any help(probably not at the mo) things do get easier. I have just started posting again and am starting to feel positive again and looking forwards to cycling again next year. Chill out with dh over xmas and get really drunk..........is it me or do some of us have have a drink problem on here!! Trace!! July Ann!!! (only joking) Sending you +ve vibes and I have everything crossed it will be 3rd time lucky for you Sarah xx [Edited by SJ BROWN on 06-Dec-03 03:30]

jen · Post by **jen** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 12:52 pm

Hi Julie Really to sorry to read your bad news - it's so gutting. You need to a good cry, cuddle and drink. Take care Jen xx

Lisa Ch · Post by **Lisa Ch** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 10:37 am

Julie haven't been around for a couple of days, so sorry this has taken a while. So sad to read your post, try and have a great christmas and weigh up your options next year. Wishing you all the best, hugs to you and dh, take care Love Lisa xx

JULES K · Post by **JULES K** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 12:10 pm

Hi Girls, Thanks for all your kind thoughts and words. We have decided not to make any decisions about what we do next until after Xmas. It is like a double whammy after finding out about the frosties failing too. I know im my heart of hearts that I would like to try again but it is really more of a financial consideration for us. I hope we all have the happy Christmas that we deserve. Lots of Love Julie xx

Clara 1 · Post by **Clara 1** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 6:20 pm

Dear Julie Very sorry to read your news. Take care, look after yourself Love, Claire

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 6:57 pm

julie, really, really sorry it didn't work for you this time. all my love beckym xx

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 9:34 am

Dear Julie I am so so so sorry, take some time out and spoil yourself. Have lots of big cuddles with your DH. Best wishes and big hugs. Vicki XX

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 10:15 am

Julie, I am so sorry that it hasn't worked out for you this time. Sending you love and hugs Dolly

Di · Post by Di » Tue Dec 09, 2003 8:16 pm

Hi Julie, Just wanted to say I'm sorry about your news. Take some time for you and DH and try and ebjoy Xmas as much as you can in the circumstances! Take care, Di

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